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The Talent Code (Book Review)
The Talent Code: Greatness Isn't Born. It's Grown. Here's How
My Review
Myelin is Everything! I had previously read "Talent is Overrated" and wanted to read someone else's interpretation of how talent is cultivated. Goes about the same topic in a different way, with the focus in this book being on "Myelin," which are parts of your nervous system that develop skill. It was similar to deliberate practice from "Talent is Overrated," and in the end they all mean the same thing. Great to read to have a complementary understanding of how to become talented, I would recommend this book, it's a short and easy read.
Book Description
What is the secret of talent? How do we unlock it? In this groundbreaking work, journalist and New York Times bestselling author Daniel Coyle provides parents, teachers, coaches, businesspeople—and everyone else—with tools they can use to maximize potential in themselves and others.
Whether you’re coaching soccer or teaching a child to play the piano, writing a novel or trying to improve your golf swing, this revolutionary book shows you how to grow talent by tapping into a newly discovered brain mechanism.
Drawing on cutting-edge neurology and firsthand research gathered on journeys to nine of the world’s talent hotbeds—from the baseball fields of the Caribbean to a classical-music academy in upstate New York—Coyle identifies the three key elements that will allow you to develop your gifts and optimize your performance in sports, art, music, math, or just about anything.
• Deep Practice--Everyone knows that practice is a key to success. What everyone doesn’t know is that specific kinds of practice can increase skill up to ten times faster than conventional practice.
• Ignition--We all need a little motivation to get started. But what separates truly high achievers from the rest of the pack? A higher level of commitment—call it passion—born out of our deepest unconscious desires and triggered by certain primal cues. Understanding how these signals work can help you ignite passion and catalyze skill development.
• Master Coaching--What are the secrets of the world’s most effective teachers, trainers, and coaches? Discover the four virtues that enable these “talent whisperers” to fuel passion, inspire deep practice, and bring out the best in their students.
These three elements work together within your brain to form myelin, a microscopic neural substance that adds vast amounts of speed and accuracy to your movements and thoughts. Scientists have discovered that myelin might just be the holy grail: the foundation of all forms of greatness, from Michelangelo’s to Michael Jordan’s. The good news about myelin is that it isn’t fixed at birth; to the contrary, it grows, and like anything that grows, it can be cultivated and nourished.
Combining revelatory analysis with illuminating examples of regular people who have achieved greatness, this book will not only change the way you think about talent, but equip you to reach your own highest potential.
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My Review
Myelin is Everything! I had previously read "Talent is Overrated" and wanted to read someone else's interpretation of how talent is cultivated. Goes about the same topic in a different way, with the focus in this book being on "Myelin," which are parts of your nervous system that develop skill. It was similar to deliberate practice from "Talent is Overrated," and in the end they all mean the same thing. Great to read to have a complementary understanding of how to become talented, I would recommend this book, it's a short and easy read.
Book Description
What is the secret of talent? How do we unlock it? In this groundbreaking work, journalist and New York Times bestselling author Daniel Coyle provides parents, teachers, coaches, businesspeople—and everyone else—with tools they can use to maximize potential in themselves and others.
Whether you’re coaching soccer or teaching a child to play the piano, writing a novel or trying to improve your golf swing, this revolutionary book shows you how to grow talent by tapping into a newly discovered brain mechanism.
Drawing on cutting-edge neurology and firsthand research gathered on journeys to nine of the world’s talent hotbeds—from the baseball fields of the Caribbean to a classical-music academy in upstate New York—Coyle identifies the three key elements that will allow you to develop your gifts and optimize your performance in sports, art, music, math, or just about anything.
• Deep Practice--Everyone knows that practice is a key to success. What everyone doesn’t know is that specific kinds of practice can increase skill up to ten times faster than conventional practice.
• Ignition--We all need a little motivation to get started. But what separates truly high achievers from the rest of the pack? A higher level of commitment—call it passion—born out of our deepest unconscious desires and triggered by certain primal cues. Understanding how these signals work can help you ignite passion and catalyze skill development.
• Master Coaching--What are the secrets of the world’s most effective teachers, trainers, and coaches? Discover the four virtues that enable these “talent whisperers” to fuel passion, inspire deep practice, and bring out the best in their students.
These three elements work together within your brain to form myelin, a microscopic neural substance that adds vast amounts of speed and accuracy to your movements and thoughts. Scientists have discovered that myelin might just be the holy grail: the foundation of all forms of greatness, from Michelangelo’s to Michael Jordan’s. The good news about myelin is that it isn’t fixed at birth; to the contrary, it grows, and like anything that grows, it can be cultivated and nourished.
Combining revelatory analysis with illuminating examples of regular people who have achieved greatness, this book will not only change the way you think about talent, but equip you to reach your own highest potential.
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Superman's Dreams Becoming A Reality
Year of the Hustle
It may seem like I’ve been away since I’ve rarely been posting about my adventures. But it’s been quite the opposite; your boy has been hustling like no other.
When I said 2012 was gonna be the Year of the Hustle, homie didn’t lie. Shit has been surreal and things keep getting better. I’m not sure whether I want to talk about everything, since the stuff Prince P and I have been doing has not been done by most PUAs. Shit, we might turn this into our own system and change up the whole game…maybe down the line, not quite ready for that, still got ways to go. Nevertheless, I’ll post about some of the shit we’ve been working on with our fashion magazine.
The Dreamer and Visionary
Dream: "A cherished aspiration, ambition, or ideal"
“You see things; and you say, 'Why?' But I dream things that never were; and I say, 'Why not?'” - George Bernand Shaw
It started with a dream…
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| Needs No Explanation |
During my research on Hugh Hefner, I had thought about getting our version of the Playboy Playmates. But never followed through because we were far too busy working on other things.
After stumbling across the Playboy YouTube channel, I watched the Playboy Midsummer Night Dream Party video. The video blew me away, it was like everything I had dreamed about had been manifested in reality in that one video. I could clearly see the individual dreams I had been having all represented in that one piece.
The dream was no longer fuzzy. The video made it clear. The video was “The Tipping Point”. I now had a vivid goal of what I was trying to achieve. It gave me the clear visual picture to turn that dream into a vision.
Vision: "a vivid mental image"
"Throughout the centuries there were men who took first steps, down new roads, armed with nothing but their own vision " - Ayn Rand
From that point onward, I decided to follow through with an idea I had been thinking about. The Super Bowl of the fashion industry, Fashion week, was a few weeks away and I decided that we would have our own version of the Playboy Playmates following us around and interviewing people for us at the events. Forget about photo shoots, we were going to go all out and live the full on lifestyle, models everywhere!
Last Minute Auditions
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| Auditioned For My Agency |
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| Her DDs Auditioned For My Agency As Well |
Fashion week was nearing so I moved fast and setup an audition with some models for TV hosts for a short film/documentary we decided to do about fashion week. I got two from a modeling site, and the other two models came from my modeling agency, where they were auditioning to be signed. I had met a new guy on the local forums, Mag, and he happened to have a studio apartment right in Dupont Circle. So we used his place for the auditions.
The auditions were a lot of fun, I told all the models to come in form fitting white tops, tight black leggings and high heels. They were prancing around Mag’s studio all sexy and shit while we gave them orders. Damn it feels good to boss these models around haha! I was especially pumped that I had two models from my own modeling agency represented. This was the first gig I had done with my agency, although the irony is that it was for the fashion magazine, which I’m also a part of.
Fashion Super Bowl
So Fashion week came around, and we went to every event with our magazine. Being a magazine gave us free press passes to all the events, including to the $150 ticketed ones at the French and Ukrainian Embassy.
Day one was sick, we got a lot of awesome video, met a lot of powerful people in the industry, including an exclusive interview with the founder of fashion week, and the pageant winner for DC who is going to compete in the Miss USA pageant. I talked to her with one of my models in tow, and we interviewed her after the show and took photos. She volunteered and told me to take down her number without me asking. I then knew this lifestyle game was the real deal. I ended up meeting up with her in a coffee shop the following week to talk about the profile we’re going to do on her for our magazine.
The rest of the week was a blast, lots of models, designers, hot girls, and more models, all loving our camera crew and wanting to work with us.
Still Had Some Hiccups
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| Bitch Gave My Models the Red Pill |
The only hiccups during the week, were when some fat woman representing a different modeling agency came up to my models and poached them right in front of my eyes. I knew what she was doing, but in all honesty I knew I didn’t have the money to pay these models and was likely going to cut them after we were done shooting for the week, or after the photo shoots. I let the agent spit game at them and wanted to see how she ran hers, so that I could Copy, Past and Modify (CPM).
Didn’t really get much out of it, besides watching her tell my models what she could do with their looks and hair, and being represented in different states. In hindsight that was a fuckup on my part, she put salt in my modeling game and the models all of a sudden realized they had options, and no longer had to work with us as volunteers, getting no pay.
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| Male Models Fraternizing With My Models |
We also had some of the tall good-looking male models trying to swoop our models. Which annoyed me even more, knowing I’m less genetically gifted in terms of looks and height, and after all the hard work we’re putting into this, for some good looking shlump to try and coast off of my hard work in a few minutes, I was not gonna have it!
Now I know why Hugh Hefner has strict rules about not letting his Playboy Playmates talk to anybody when he goes out with them. Shit, I’m might have to do the same thing with our models for our next events. I think I will tell all the models with us, that they will be representing us, and only interview people. If they take down anyone’s contact info, it has to go through us, or they will be FIRED on the spot! All contact and promotion should be for our magazine, not themselves. Obviously in more eloquent legal writing, but that’s the gist of it.
Our Future
Right now we have edited and put up a bunch of videos on our site that make us look even more LEGIT! We are the real deal Holyfield.
We’re going to continue on hustling, and have on our sights our own version of the Playboy Mansion. But for now, we will have to make due with a studio, and whatever we get.
Real Friends
I’ve had a lot of PUAs here locally, come out of the woodworks contact me all of sudden wanting to “hang out” with me. In reality, I just assume they want to enter our circle of models and hot girls that we’re building.
Back then I couldn’t see these cats like Stevie Wonder, now they’re making themselves available. I grasp the objective reality of the situation, and realize they are seeing value in me and my circle, and are going for their own self-interests. I have to keep reminding myself to be humble, and not get an inflated sense of entitlement. However, if I am to hang out with them, I also have to have my own self-interests in mind.
So I am purely thinking rationally when dealing with them. If I am to provide them with access to my circle, then they have to have some value that they’re providing for me. I am trying to maintain a 3+ ratio of models per guy, so I cannot have dudes kickin' it with me that provide no value whatsoever! I am not an altruist! If I were to invite another guy into our closed knit group, then I would need to get 3 more girls to maintain the ratio, which just means more work for me. The final goal is to reach the Hugh Hefner ratio he has at his parties, which is supposedly 10 girls for every guy.
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| Price of Admission |
For anyone in DC reading this that wishes to enter this circle, the fastest way to enter is to have logistics! If you have a place in DC that is conducive to hosting auditions, photo shoots and most importantly, you will let us use it to BANG GIRLS, then you won’t have to do much. We will hook you up and it will be clear sailing all the way, for all of us haha.
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How Hugh Hefner Dates Playmates
So I'm at home one day pondering about the Playboy Lifestyle I'm creating, and how I can make it as efficient as possible in banging the hot models I work with. I'm there struggling to come up with a eureka idea that will make things much smoother.
It then hits me, why the fuck am I trying to reinvent the wheel?
Remembering the old theory of Copy, Paste and Modify (CPM), I think of the person that I'm trying to emulate, "Hugh Hefner" and decide I should act smart and do more research into this.
Doing what smart computer nerds do, I go to Google and put in some search phrases.
I come across an article about an ex-Playboy Playmate that spills the dirt on Hugh Hefner's lifestyle. After reading into her some more, I get the book and I've been reading it with great joy and pleasure haha.
I'll do a book review on it after I'm done, here's the article.
From: Ex-playmate reveals nasty details of Hugh Hefner’s sex sessions
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| Cooper Hefner...Reaping the Rewards of His Dad's System |
Update: Hugh Hefner is just shy of 86 at this point, at is old...
An ex Playmate has self-published a book about what goes on at the bizarre sex sessions at the Playboy mansion. She says that if you’re a hot nobody and want to get into Playboy without riding the then 78 year-old Hugh Hefner’s six inch Viagra erection, you can forget about it.
From her description, Hefner’s evening sex romps sound more like a freaky ritual than a fun-filled free for all. Here are the highlights:
- Women who live in the house must show up for Wednesday and Friday sex night. They are given rare exemptions in the case of major surgery (like a nose job), but if it’s that time of the month or they’re sick, they’re still expected to come. Even Hefner’s secretary has to participate.
- Hefner invites women into his lair. The night the source was there, 12 women were in the room. Each must bathe and wear identical pink pajamas. If they don’t want to have sex with the 78 year-old perv, they can leave their pajama bottoms on.
- Gay porn plays on two big screen TVs in the room.
- On the night the source was there, Hef got a hummer from his current girlfriend to start the action. 10 of the 12 girls then took turns having sex with him, taking about two minutes each while the other participants cheered him on. He took Viagra to perform and did not wear a condom.
- Women paired up for simulated lesbian sex for Hef’s benefit, but according to the source most of them weren't into it and didn’t even like each other.
- The session ended with him having anal sex with the girlfriend, who wiped off his penis beforehand, as if that did something to prevent STDs.
In terms of what sex with Hef actually entails, it sounds like it’s strictly women on top:
How is a man who’s 78 years old able to have sex with that many women?
He doesn’t really do anything. He just lies there with his Viagra erection. It’s just a fake erection, and each girl gets on top of him for two minutes while the girls in the background try to keep him excited. They’ll yell things like, “Fuck her daddy, fuck her daddaddy!” There’s a lot of cheerleader going on!
Playmates are discouraged from talking about Hefner’s orgies through ongoing business deals with Playboy enterprises, including invitations to parties and ex-playmate get togethers, where they are paid for their appearance. There’s a code of silence around it because to reveal details would jeopardize their future earnings.
Strippers and lesser known porn stars get in Playboy by sleeping with Hef in these prearranged orgies, and the source claims that no woman has ever made playmate of the year without playing along at the sex sessions.
It looks like the answer to Bastardly’s question “Would you sleep with a dude the age of your grandpa for $3,000,000?” has been answered by a lot of the Playboy playmates, who would do it for fame and much less money.
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How I Held My Breath for 17 minutes
Great talk on pushing past your limits!
In this highly personal talk from TEDMED, magician and stuntman David Blaine describes what it took to hold his breath underwater for 17 minutes -- a world record (only two minutes shorter than this entire talk!) -- and what his often death-defying work means to him.
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In this highly personal talk from TEDMED, magician and stuntman David Blaine describes what it took to hold his breath underwater for 17 minutes -- a world record (only two minutes shorter than this entire talk!) -- and what his often death-defying work means to him.
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Taking Glamour Modeling By Storm
You guys wanted me to post more about my goals for the year, so here you go!
Check out my modeling agencies website!
What do you guys think? haha FIRE! Best domain name ever! lolz.
Anyway, I did the site last year, but thought I would share it with my readers. It's still a work in progress, and I will likely change the domain name if I move away from DC, but as I'm still in the DC metro area, for now that works.
Ever since hosting the Swimsuit photo shoot to end last year, I made a dedication to hustle hard, calling 2012 "The Year of the Hustle!" and taking my quest for the Playboy Lifestyle like Hugh Hefner to a whole different level.
I've been studying hard and getting deep into this modeling game. You could say I am taking the equivalent of a bootcamp when it comes to this industry. I have been watching DVD courses on beauty/fashion/glamour modeling from the best in this industry. Reading books, blogs, downloading a full years supply of magazines like Playboy, Sports Illustrated, Maxim, and others onto my iPad to study them!
As of now, in 2012 pickup is no longer a priority, building a lifestyle where I will never have to work hard again to bag beautiful women has pushed it to the side.
I now know the lingo, techniques, technology and can come across like a seasoned pro. I no longer have to fake it, I'll actually know what I'm talking about when casting and working with models.
The big things I have learned so far are, that I was in the wrong genre. We were doing a fashion magazine, but what we really should be doing is glamour. Glamour is all about shooting the body, the curves, the sexiness. Think Playboy, Maxim, etc. Glamour is usually semi-nude, and one step away from full nude, but sometimes can be nude as in Playboy, but what separates it from full on porn is the classy edge.
I figured I will convert my modeling agency to focus on Glamour, and I can make a simple model catalog magazine that I will publish for the iPad. I downloaded Adobe InDesign and I'm teaching myself how to use it.
I will still keep the fashion magazine, but it will be mostly for fashion and other stuff.
Stay tuned, will keep you guys updated. Time to get it get it!
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Check out my modeling agencies website!
What do you guys think? haha FIRE! Best domain name ever! lolz.
Anyway, I did the site last year, but thought I would share it with my readers. It's still a work in progress, and I will likely change the domain name if I move away from DC, but as I'm still in the DC metro area, for now that works.
Ever since hosting the Swimsuit photo shoot to end last year, I made a dedication to hustle hard, calling 2012 "The Year of the Hustle!" and taking my quest for the Playboy Lifestyle like Hugh Hefner to a whole different level.
I've been studying hard and getting deep into this modeling game. You could say I am taking the equivalent of a bootcamp when it comes to this industry. I have been watching DVD courses on beauty/fashion/glamour modeling from the best in this industry. Reading books, blogs, downloading a full years supply of magazines like Playboy, Sports Illustrated, Maxim, and others onto my iPad to study them!
As of now, in 2012 pickup is no longer a priority, building a lifestyle where I will never have to work hard again to bag beautiful women has pushed it to the side.
I now know the lingo, techniques, technology and can come across like a seasoned pro. I no longer have to fake it, I'll actually know what I'm talking about when casting and working with models.
The big things I have learned so far are, that I was in the wrong genre. We were doing a fashion magazine, but what we really should be doing is glamour. Glamour is all about shooting the body, the curves, the sexiness. Think Playboy, Maxim, etc. Glamour is usually semi-nude, and one step away from full nude, but sometimes can be nude as in Playboy, but what separates it from full on porn is the classy edge.
I figured I will convert my modeling agency to focus on Glamour, and I can make a simple model catalog magazine that I will publish for the iPad. I downloaded Adobe InDesign and I'm teaching myself how to use it.
I will still keep the fashion magazine, but it will be mostly for fashion and other stuff.
Stay tuned, will keep you guys updated. Time to get it get it!
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Broadcasting Live...
Summary
- Superman turns 23!
- Birthday dinner with wings
- Thanking them for being there with me during my journey
- Officially started a modeling agency (YES!)
- Other agencies are soft! Mine is going HAM!
- Losing my mojo
- Still going out, but not pushing myself in terms of cold approaching
- Easing up on online game, tired of fatties!
- Social circle and lifestyle game has made be get complacent with cold approach
- Still have lots of goals to achieve
- Want to achieve all the goals I set out to achieve
- Action Plan
- Greatness has already been defined
- Keeping goals private
- Getting closer to the finish line, have to run through the finish line
- Almost got emo (emotional), first down in a while, since the last month has been ridiculous
Game is Cycle of Constant Ups and Downs - Playboy Lifestyle Game
- Modeling Hugh Hefner
- Porn Casting Call
- Awesome experience despite failure
- Gonna try it again for sure!
- No Halloween weekend partying for me
- Broadcasting Live
- Inside joke for girls that love Big Black Cock (BBC)
- Joke for BBC the television station
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