The Cold Approaching Conundrum

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Illest Motherfucker Alive. No Lie!

Just finished up doing another photo shoot and audition for my fashion magazine.

Call me cocky, arrogant, egotistical, or whatever the fuck you want, but...

I am on a surreal high right now and feel like the ILLEST MOTHERFUCKER ALIVE!!! 

So much so that I had to blog about it! Looking back on my previous lifestyle I cannot believe I used to cold approach. With the way I'm headed, this nigga ain't never gonna have to worry about pussy ever in his life! Re-read that line again! The immensity of those words keeps sinking in deeper and deeper each time I hustle hard on this.

I cannot even fathom doing cold approach (especially street game) right now; as much as I hate saying it, it seems so beneath me! I seriously need to call myself out for being an idiot by doing the cold approach shit! I should have just started with the lifestyle shit from the onset. When I'm 80 years old wrinkled up and shit, my penis is still going to be swimming in pussy! That's how legendary this shit is!

I feel like Kanye and Jay Z in the above song "Illest Motherfucker Alive"! Some parts that stand out are...

Damn baby pussy can't be your only hustle

Unless you bad as Naomi Russell

I mean a lot of niggas got money

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What you after, actor money?

You in line behind currency, yeah you after money

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Bullet proof condom when I'm in these hoes

Got staples on my dick (why) fuckin' centerfolds

And I swear to God they so cold

Got a nigga in Miami wearing winter clothes

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King Hov, I'm exactly what the fuck you think

11 in a row, Bill Russell rings

Michael Jordan swag, yall think Michael Jordan bad

Nigga I got 5 more rings than Michael Jordan had

Elvis has left the building now I'm on the Beatles ass

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My house like a museum so I see 'em when I'm peeing

Usually you have this much taste you European

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Know when to leave when the heat is coming I learned that

This is where DeNiro would be if he ain't turn back

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This is what the ending of Scarface should feel like

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Why Cold Approaching is Useless

Great post by Aaron Sleazy...

One of the basic ideas of the pickup community is the necessity of “cold approaches.” Often, you could get the impression that anything else doesn’t really count. Real PUAs go through hundreds of rejections before they finally get to enjoy the fruit of their labor. This is at least as the shared mythology goes. 

In this article, I will show you that the concept of cold approaching is misleading. Please keep your pitchfork in your barn, because if you read on with an open mind, you will not only learn something about about male-female interactions, but you will also understand why, as guys gain more experience, their “batting average” often goes up significantly. No, it is not because their “game” got better. It’s something else.

Read the full post here: Why Cold Approaching is Pretty Much Useless

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Superman Returns As A Playboy

“He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you” – Friedrich Nietzsche

Death of a PUA

As I mentioned in my last post, Superman the PUA has died. But I am not talking about a physical death; I am speaking in figurative terms, my consciousness and outlook has graduated to a higher level. I realized that pickup was a stepping stone, but was never the FINAL step. I had always aspired to be a great PUA, being able to cold approach random hot girls and bed them. I always felt that pickup was the ULTIMATE path to dating hot girls. I thought it was far superior to the typical dogmas of just find someone from your mediocre social circle.

Yes, pickup is far superior to hopelessly waiting for a beautiful girl to drop into your lap. Pickup helps you become accountable for your dating life, making you an active participant, rather than a passenger to random chance. But in the last 6 months I have discovered a more PRACTICAL WAY. I have tested the waters with it, and it has come to a point that I can no longer ignore it, and I must chase it with every fervor in my being. In order to do so, I have to graduate from my PUA mindset and take the next step in my glorious journey.

Birth of a Playboy

Porfirio Rubirosa - The Ultimate Playboy

The higher form of consciousness I speak of is that of a Playboy; specifically, the Playboy Lifestyle. I have realized that a PUA is no competition for a Playboy when it comes to dating beautiful women. As a PUA I never grasped, or rather I consciously decided to blank out the fact that a higher level of pussy getting existed. I overlooked the long term mindset, only measuring the time and opportunity cost for the short term mindset I was a slave to, but never doing the same for the long term mindset. As a PUA, I continuously unknowingly invested my time and opportunity cost into options that were not the best strategies. I was misinformed in thinking that the higher forms of pussy getting that do exist, took too much time and effort, and were too hard to reach. This rationalization helped comfort me in my short term mindset, and blanked out the real facts of the long term mindset I was neglecting.

I didn’t have this eureka moment until I had tasted the Playboy Lifestyle and started to apply Game Theory to compare the lifestyle of a PUA to the lifestyle of a Playboy. I’ll go over the critical factors that lead me to this decision, but before I do that, I have to CLEARLY define what a Playboy is.

Defining the Playboy

“The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

A lot of people have a misconception of what a Playboy is, including me prior to this. I have been and continue to do my research and I’m learning a lot about Playboys and their lifestyle.

What is a Playboy?

The Most Interesting Playboy in the World

“A playboy is a modern version of a public Casanova — a man of means with ample time for leisure, who demonstratively appreciates the pleasures of the world.” – Wikipedia

Playboy Entails the Following

• Public Image (Perception/Fame)
• Man of Means (Money)
• Time (Doesn't work 9-to-5)
• Leisure and Pleasures (Seeks Own Happiness)
• World (International Traveler and Cultured)

My Definition of a Playboy

“A sociable man with game, who decides that rather than arbitrarily chasing mediocre women while playing the numbers game, works on living an exquisite lifestyle that attracts an abundance of the caliber of women he loves, and once these women are in his life, uses his charm to conquer them” - Superman

From now on, when I refer to a Playboy, I shall be referring to my definition of a Playboy.

The PUA VS. The Playboy

Before I start, I would like to state that this is not comparing “Apples to Oranges”. These two mindsets can be explicitly compared, on the following basis. They are both viewed as lifestyles that have inputs and outputs. The inputs are represented by time and opportunity cost, and the outputs are represented by the payoffs, quantitatively and qualitatively received from your inputs, and how relative you are to achieving your dreams.

“Your game determines the quantity of girls you get. Your lifestyle determines the quality” – Brad P

My thoughts on both lifestyles; I hate the rating system, but for comparative posts like this, it bodes well.

The PUA Lifestyle

PUA Doing Day Game

• Aspires to consistently date 8s, 9s and 10s (i.e. hot girls)
• Cold approaches as many women as possible, almost a numbers game
• Most 8s, 9s and 10s reject the PUA outright, never CONSISTENTLY gets them
• Settles and has to work uphill to convince women that are average or below for phone numbers, dates, lays, etc. since they are the ones that he has a CONSISTENT success rate with
• If he ever does become good at pickup, he is CONSISTENTLY dating women that are for the most part 7s and gains comfort in OCCASIONALLY getting an 8,9 or 10

The Playboy Lifestyle

Playboy at Play

• Aspires to CONSISTENTLY date 8s, 9s and 10s (i.e. hot girls)
• Builds a lifestyle that surrounds him with as many hot girls as possible
• Most 8, 9s and 10s are drawn to the Playboy’s lifestyle outright, and CONSISTENTLY want to be a part of it
• Doesn't have to settle or convince, has to work downhill for hot women and CONSISTENTLY and EASILY gets phone numbers, dates, lays, etc. since they are drawn to his lifestyle
• If he ever does become a great Playboy, he is CONSISTENTLY dating women that are for the most part 8s, 9s and 10s and gains comfort in RARELY, if ever, having to date anything below an 8

That is my raw and unfiltered take on both lifestyles, and it took me long time to concede those points of the PUA lifestyle. I had to be really honest with myself; Robert Ringer’s theories have been vital in helping me with that.

Theory of Relativity

“In order to settle on a rational course of action (or inaction), one must first weigh all pertinent facts in a relative light and carefully define his terms.” – Robert Ringer

Theory of Relevance

“No matter how true something may be or how much it may please you, the primary factor to take into consideration is how relevant it is to your main objective.” – Robert Ringer

I went over the main objective that made me enter the community. I had come into the pickup world for one sole reason, to bang and date hot girls. However, during the course of my journey, I sacrificed my main objective, values, and lowered my standards. I became a whore, willing to seduce nearly any girl that would want me as a conquest.

Brown Paper Bag

It wasn’t until I was hooking up with a girl I deemed of lower quality, that I saw the reality of the moral code I had broken. Despite her attempts to get me to cum, I could not do so. I stared at the bare naked ass of the girl I abhorred, and the thought of my Big Dick entering her ass repulsed me, to a point that stunned me beyond any means I would have ever imagined. I then made up my mind that I could not be a sacrificial conquest, and decided not to push through the resistance to lay this woman that I reviled. I resorted to picturing my ideal girl, at that time a hot Asian girl, blowing me. I nutted and shot a monstrous load in the loathsome girl’s face in less than a minute.

It was at that time, that I learned that I had to return back to my main objective. I did not enter the game to be laying these types of women, and waiting for the hot girl to occasionally fall in my lap. I made a volitional choice to start aiming high, and pursued the types of women I came into the game for.

Lack of Consistent Quality

One thing that kept on being preached in the community was the myth of quality. Everyone, even the gurus would preach the following tenet.

“No one CONSISTENTLY fucks or dates ONLY hot girls. Anyone telling you that, is bullshitting you” – DJ Fuji and others

I bought this tenet hook, line and sinker. But in the latter days while researching Playboy legends like Hugh Hefner, I saw that this was not the case.

Hugh Hefner CONSISTENTLY fucks and dates ONLY hot girls! As a matter of fact, he fucks 10 of them at the SAME TIME! Twice a week!

I realized there was a contradiction here, and as Ayn Rand says…

“Contradictions do not exist. Whenever you think you are facing a contradiction, check your premises. You will find that one of them is wrong.” – Ayn Rand


What I discovered was that their premise was wrong. What they in fact meant was this:

“No ***PUA*** CONSISTENTLY fucks or dates ONLY hot girls. Any ***PUA*** telling you that, is bullshitting you”

I saw the objective reality of my experiences, and those of the people I had come across in the PUA community. I have witnessed wings tell me they’re in this game to get beautiful women, and see them dropout and settle with women that if you had asked them when they first came into the game if that was the girl they got into this for, they would have emphatically have said no! This thought perplexed me; perhaps there is something I still do not get. Regardless, I will continue to weigh the pertinent facts.


Hugh Hefner VS. The PUA



I will make it known, that I think Tyler of RSD has some SICK GAME! This is by no way a diss of Tyler, it just perfectly illustrates the PUA Lifestyle. I was watching this Tyler infield video, where he just came back from the airport late at night. He then proceeds to head to the club and do cold approaches, and struggles for a while before finally receiving some success. I thought about it, and Tyler is in his 30s.

"At age 70, more than 70 percent of men are still potent!" - Scientific Study

I asked myself do I still want to be doing that when I’m in my 30s, or even later than that. I don’t plan on getting married, so if I’m gonna be banging girls till I’m an old man, that kind of lifestyle is not sustainable. What the hell am I gonna do when I’m in my 40s, 50s and beyond. It’s not going to be practical to be prowling the streets or clubs at the age of 70 trying to pickup young girls. Not that I necessarily want to be pursuing girls at that age, but I would still like to leave that option open in case I decide to do so. Studies show that 70% of men at the age of 70 still have erections. Eventually there comes a point in time, where the PUA Lifestyle is NO LONGER SUSTAINABLE, or PRACTICAL.

This is What I Call Sustainable

I then looked at the Playboy I was trying to emulate, Hugh Hefner. He’s in his 80s, still dating beautiful women and with little effort. His lifestyle is obviously MORE SUSTAINABLE over the long haul. Hugh Hefner in his 80s does better than any PUA guru in the community ever has.

Another vital point I took notice of is this, Hefner is still receiving payments for his hard work in his 80s. In other words, all the hard work he inputted during his 20s and 30s to build Playboy Inc., his penis is still enjoying the payoffs of that input by banging 10 hot girls twice a week, at the old age of 80. On the converse, when I’m in my 80s, the input I put into pickup, specifically cold approaching, during my 20s will not be paid back comparable to that. If I were to continue with the PUA Lifestyle, the most I may be paid back with is perhaps a once-hot girlfriend who now is old, but is maybe a few decades younger than me.

People may be quick to note that Hugh Hefner is a celebrity with status and money. That is the point! If I am to invest an equal amount of inputs of time and opportunity cost into either lifestyles, the rational man would invest more in the Playboy Lifestyle for the higher outputs it produces, sustainability and higher quality payoffs over the long haul.

Let’s Apply Some Game Theory

If I have 10,000 hours to invest to become GREAT, the options boil down to this.

Invest 10,000 hours into pickup to reach a point where I consistently date average girls, with the occasional hottie every now and then. And once I get old, things start to drop off.

Or

Invest 10,000 hours into building a lifestyle like Hugh Hefner where I date nothing but hotties and top quality girls, and the payoffs never subside, even in old age.

In game theory, there is a tenet that says NEVER PLAY A DOMINATED STRATEGY.

Definition: DOMINATED STRATEGY

“A strategy is dominated if, regardless of what any other players do, the strategy earns a player a smaller payoff than some other strategy. Hence, a strategy is dominated if it is always better to play some other strategy, regardless of what opponents may do. So a strictly dominated strategy is a strategy that a player would never choose to play because that player has another strategy that will always yield a higher payoff than the dominated strategy. Assuming that a player is rational we no longer need to consider dominated strategies”

I clearly began to see that the Playboy Lifestyle DOMINATED the PUA Lifestyle. Being the rational man that I am, I made a decision to not focus on inputting a majority of my efforts in a dominated strategy. I decided to play the DOMINANT STRATEGY, and focus on building a lifestyle that will give me a higher payoff till the day I leave this earth.

Superman’s Future

Expanding My Superman Brand

So where does all this lead me to?

As I had previously mentioned at the beginning of the year, pickup, more specifically, cold approach pickup will not be the highest priority in my life. That is not to say I will no longer do it, but rather means it will be an afterthought. So far this year I've been cold approaching about once every 2-3 weeks.

I have given myself a Golden Rule so to speak. For every hour I spend cold approaching, I have to spend at least 2+ hours working on my lifestyle. These hours are accounted for whenever I work on my magazine and modeling agency, meet with models or designers, photo shoots, throw parties with our meetup group, and other things of that nature.

I have focused my efforts into continuing working on my fashion magazine, my modeling agency and other grand ideas we have in store. The sweat equity we have been putting in has been paying off, and we now have enough momentum that we barely have to do little work.

During the last fashion week, we shot a bunch of videos with high value people that will pay forward for us till the rest of the year. The game has gotten even easier because of that. I’ve been meeting up with the sexy girls I met during fashion week, including an exotic Indian model I picked out from the crowd. I grabbed drinks with her and talked about featuring her in my magazine and making her a host. I have a Maxim Magazine swimsuit model I’ll be having a drink with tonight. And that’s not even mentioning the photo shoots and video interviews we just finished doing of two “Miss USA” pageant winners for DC.

“I know of no better life purpose than to perish in attempting the great and the impossible.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

P. Diddy - The Black Playboy

But we aren’t gonna stop there baby! We have our eyes on doing it BIG! Prince P and I have been talking about expanding our magazine nationally, and then internationally.

Picture your boy traveling and doing this modeling and fashion game in NYC, Miami, Las Vegas, LA, London, Paris, Milan, Moscow, Sydney, Tokyo…no limits!

Now that is what I call a Playboy!

Due to the limitations of the pickup community, I have began drawing my inspiration not from PUAs, but from other men I consider Playboys of the 21st century. You already know Hugh Hefner, some others that I will draw inspiration from in helping me build this lifestyle include P. Diddy, The Dos Equis Man and various others.


The Future of the Blog...A Book?

Two Books in the Making

Due to the nature of the stuff I post about, especially the pictures and videos, I have had deep thoughts about posting and sharing the adventures I’ve been partaking in lately. I haven’t been posting as much this year, and that is partially one of the reasons. Another thought I've been thinking about is this, some of the shit I'm doing with my magazine, modeling agency, hacking online game, etc. is so baller, and no one else in the game is doing it, so why in the hell would I give it away for free on my blog...I might just be better off saving it for my book...but then again, I really love my blog and the people that follow me on my journey. These are the thoughts that go through my head. A true dilemma...Playboy dilemma.

The plan right now is to turn this blog into a book. I'm not just talking about a fuckin' PUA ebook, I'm talking about a motherfuckin' book on the same level as "The Game". That has been my plan from the onset, all the way back to my first ever post on this blog. Some cats would wonder why the hell my field reports were so fuckin' long and analytical. That's because I wasn't just writing a normal FR, I was writing a fuckin' piece of my book. I was thinking long term!

I'm still far from finishing my journey to a point that I would be satisfied with the book, but just wanted my readers to know. I already have two books in mind, one will be about my adventures, pretty much field reports, that one will be the solely-pickup based book. Think Tucker Max, only more strategic and technical.

The second one will be a book of grandeur proportions. It will be my system, philosophy and mindset towards a rational life. Encompassing everything I partook on in this journey, but not from the mindset of a PUA, but from the mindset of a Rational Playboy. It will encompass what I deem to be the fundamentals of life, how to hack reality, 7 sources of pussy, etc. Those are the chapters I have outlined, but it is still a far away process.

No One Will Intimidate Me

Weight of People That Will Have Issues With My Blog

While talking to Prince P he said, “Don’t fuck this up for me” in regards to sharing the stuff we’re doing on our blog and having people in the fashion industry find out.

I also think some of the women in the fashion industry probably already found out about my blog, which makes me think twice about things.

Theory of Intimidation

“The results a person achieves are inversely proportionate to the degree to which he is intimidated.” – Robert Ringer

But in the end, I cannot let people intimidate me into taking a choice of action that I do not want, nor believe in. I write my blog for my own personal reasons, reasons that are selfish in nature.

I am solely responsible for my own self-interests and will not let anyone, whether a wing, or women stop me from pursuing those interests. If some people in the industry don’t like my blog, then they can suck a dick! I don’t need them to achieve my happiness.

I’ll end this post by sharing the wisdom of John Galt that guides me:

“In the name of the best within you, do not sacrifice this world to those who are its worst. In the name of the values that keep you alive, do not let your vision of man be distorted by the ugly, the cowardly, the mindless in those who have never achieved his title. Do not lose your knowledge that man’s proper estate is an upright posture, an intransigent mind and a step that travels unlimited roads. Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won, it exists, it is real, it is possible, it’s yours.


But to win it requires your total dedication and a total break with the world of your past, with the doctrine that man is a sacrificial animal who exists for the pleasure of others. Fight for the value of your person. Fight for the virtue of your pride. Fight for the essence of that which is man: for his sovereign rational mind. Fight with the radiant certainty and the absolute rectitude of knowing that yours is the Morality of Life and that yours is the battle for any achievement, any value, any grandeur, any goodness, any joy that has ever existed on this earth."


“You will win when you are ready to pronounce the oath I have taken at the start of my battle-and for those who wish to know the day of my return, I shall now repeat it to the hearing of the world:


“I swear-by my life and my love of it-that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.”

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Black Men Dating White Women (Jungle Fever)

Via Assanova @ Real Made Men



You guys wanted me to write more about interracial dating, well I came across an interesting video that fellow blogger Assanova shared on his blog.

Thought I would share it here, as well as post my commentary.

Here are the points Dr. Johnson makes:

1. Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves
2. Most interracial relationships between Blacks and Whites are middle/upper class Black men marrying lower class White women
3. Never see rich White women marrying poor Black men
4. Black men marry White women for acceptance from White race
5. Do it to sooth inferiority complex in presence of White man
6. Black men who marry White women have low self-esteem
7. White women who Black men marry, are White women no other White men wanted
8. If White women could have White man with same socioeconomic status, they wouldn't marry Black men
9. Preaches against interracial relationships
10. Black men marry outside their race more than any other race put together
11. Views it as case of self-hatred

My Rational Take On It

While watching the video, what immediately jumps out at me was Dr. Johnson's blunt, eloquent and succinct speaking style. He speaks like Malcolm X, tells you nothing but the truths without sugar coating it. This immediately tells me he's a rational person.

I will respond to his points with my objective and rational take on them.

If you've followed my blog for some time you would know that I am generally not attracted to Black women. That doesn't mean I am never attracted to Black women, it just means I am attracted to them a lower percentage of the time compared to other races. In general, I am attracted to Japanese and Russian girls, but that's for a different post.

Some of the points he makes I agree with, but most I don't.

Chris Bosh and Wife

Point 1 - Disagree - I don't think Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves.

They date White women because that is the idealized version of beauty in the world. It is hard to escape it, even for someone like me who was born in Africa. It is subconsciously indoctrinated into you through the media.

Looking back in my past, when I was still growing up in Africa, I would say I began liking White women from seeing them on TV. They were very exotic and intrigued me. Even at that time, when I was about 7 years old, I was fascinated by them. I would see them in movies and my body not knowing what sex was at that time, would want to kiss them, thinking it would bring me closer to their mysticism.

State College = Nothing But White People

Fast-forward to me arriving in America in 4th grade, and their mysticism quickly disappeared, they were old news after seeing them all over the place. However when I moved to the states, I was living in State College, PA (Penn State), and that place was not diverse at all. From the moment I started 4th grade, till the time I left State College in the middle of 7th grade, I don't remember ever having any Black girls in my class, except for one bi-racial girl (mulatto) in 4th grade.

With numbers like that, they were no girls to like BUT White girls. It's human nature for men to make due with what they have. So I got used to White girls you could say, those where the only girls around.

I heard about a study, where they say that your preference in the opposite sex is discovered and developed before you're 12 years old and once you grow past that age, it's hard to change it. In other words, if you prefer dating Black, White, Asian, etc. from around 7-12 years old, it's going to be hard to all of a sudden change and start preferring another race.This needs to be looked into some more.

Anyway that's where I think I started to like White women, and it then shifted to Asian girls, and now I'm kind of neutral, I constantly keep fluctuating.

Michael Jordan and Wife (Model)

Points 2, 3 - Disagree - About his point of most interracial relationships being between upper/middle class Black men marrying lower class White women.

I think that's a general theme that reflects more on the sexual nature of men and women, that we learn from evolutionary psychology.

Regardless of race, the female species marries the male with the highest social status she can get. Males on the other hand marry for beauty, since it is a symbol of health and fertility. A woman marrying a male with low social status, regardless of whether she was rich, would be playing an evolutionary unstable strategy. Women who played that strategy were eliminated after many generations, and those that played the evolutionary stable strategy of marrying a man based on his social status, where allowed to have their genes propagated into future generations.

Points 4, 5, 6, 9, 10, 11 - Disagree - I don't know if this is necessary the case.

If White beauty is deemed as the highest standard of beauty and is subconsciously indoctrinated in Black men by media. Is it then not rational for a man to want to achieve what is viewed as the highest standard of beauty?

In addition, if a Black man is living in a predominantly Non-Black area, is it not rational for him to look at dating other races?

Points 7, 8 - Agree - This one I agree with, it is pure fact.

Obviously we're generalizing, but that tends to be the case. Most Black men who date interracially are dating women who are either not heavily desired compared to other girls of their race or lower in socioeconomic status. I think this has to do with the Plus 2 rule (+2), which I'll discuss below.

I wrote about it before, in my rants about women being racist when it comes to online dating. It had a study where it showed that if White women were to choose between two men they would deem to be equal in looks, but one was a White man and the other a minority, they would always take the White man. That's an obvious rational choice, due to the racial backlash. But the interesting thing was, that in order for a minority to overcome that, he would have to be +2 better in looks just to be on an equal playing field.

In other words, if we were to judge looks on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being really good looking. Two men who were both 8s, but one being a minority, would not be able to compete for the White woman's attention. The minority would have to be a 10, just to be considered.

The scale is for looks, but it can be changed to other representative scales such as socioeconomic status, or my favorite in this case, game.

I see the latter a lot, although I've never openly talked about it except to my wing Prince P, who also has experienced it, and feels this principle is true.

What we've both experienced from doing cold approach is that being minorities, we're automatically at a disadvantage when wanting to date White women, or even any other races.

We've both seen some White guys get approach invitations, girls numbers, dates, lays, etc. with what we both consider "mediocre" game. For example, using the same scale from above, a White guy's game could be an 8/10 and he would get the girl. If our game was an 8/10 or 9/10 we would most likely not get the girl. It's almost like our game has to be a 10/10 i.e. flawless to get her to consider dating interracially.

We both repeatedly experienced this so much, that we fundamentally PLANNED for it if we wanted to succeed in our ventures. Almost everything we do, we would include a White person in it, since it built more comfort with White women.

While doing our meetup group, we made sure one of the assistant organizers was a White guy. Otherwise, White women, who happened to make up the majority of women on meetup.com, would not come to a meetup with a Black guy and Indian guy leading it. That's just the plain truth. Same thing with our photo shoots with models. Having a White guy would just automatically build more comfort, to a point it became a rational choice. The times we didn't have a White person with us would just seem like self-immolation.

In pickup they say it's always better to pickup women when you can show you're pre-selected by women. We both learned a supplement to that, which was this: It's a lot easier to pickup White women if you can show you're pre-selected by White people. Example, when Prince P (an Indian guy) and me (a Black guy) invite two White girls to a party, chances of them coming are medium to low. However, if we have a White dude with us when we meet and talk to the White girls, chances of them coming to our party shoot up. This would happen a lot.

We never liked this one bit, but being the rational men that we are, we knew we could not blank-out reality. Reality is what it is, irrespective of what we think. In order to succeed with reality, we had to acknowledge it.

It seems like in order to date outside the race, you need to have a +2, whether you do it with game, social status or looks, you need to bring a +2 to the table to be considered. Obviously this my generalization, but it appears to to be true from Prince P and I's real world experience.

Anyway, that's my commentary on his video, which I thought was deep and made me think about this issue much more.

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Summary

• Superman turns 23!
• Birthday dinner with wings
• Thanking them for being there with me during my journey
• Officially started a modeling agency (YES!)
• Other agencies are soft! Mine is going HAM!
• Losing my mojo 
• Still going out, but not pushing myself in terms of cold approaching
• Easing up on online game, tired of fatties!
• Social circle and lifestyle game has made be get complacent with cold approach
• Still have lots of goals to achieve
• Want to achieve all the goals I set out to achieve
• Action Plan
• Greatness has already been defined
• Keeping goals private
• Getting closer to the finish line, have to run through the finish line
• Almost got emo (emotional), first down in a while, since the last month has been ridiculous
  
  

  

  Game is Cycle of Constant Ups and Downs

  
  
• Playboy Lifestyle Game
• Modeling Hugh Hefner
• Porn Casting Call
• Awesome experience despite failure
• Gonna try it again for sure!
• No Halloween weekend partying for me
• Broadcasting Live
• Inside joke for girls that love Big Black Cock (BBC)
• Joke for BBC the television station

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