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Indirect vs. Direct Day Game (Justin Wayne)

Justin Wayne is about to kill the game! Take notice!

This cat is about to murk these charlatans in the game when his product drops. It’s gonna change up the game immensely, like infield videos did when they first came out. Infield videos will be measured by higher standards, follow-up date videos will become the norm, especially in day game.




Great video! I learned a lot, it’s easy for me to establish social comfort, but have been having trouble escalating/flirting to a more direct vibe afterwards on a consistent basis. I was thinking and trying to reverse engineer how I successfully haphazardly did it in the past, in order to do it more consistently, and Justin Wayne comes out with this video that shows it happening haha.


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Black PUAs on Race

From Real Made Men and Justin Wayne's Blog

Money posts from Assanova and Justin Wayne on Black and minority guys in pickup

Assanova:

We all like to joke about being the token minority, and how if there is more than one, then the other needs to call the agency. Well, there is some truth to it. If you are a minority who games with other minorities, the game becomes infinitely more difficult for you. When I game with white wingmen, the game just becomes so much easier. It's almost as if I don't even have to try with women. They swarm me, and I always do better than the white guys I'm with, no matter how attractive they are. 

However, when I game with other minorities, unless I approach alone, and don't introduce my minority friends, it is incredibly hard to hook women. The only time women even hook when I'm with minority wingmen, is if they are into minorities; as in they don't like white guys. I've even had a few instances where I'd be invited somewhere, and women would blatantly tell my minority wingman that he couldn't come. It's as if they said "We can accept one of you, but not more than that.", as politely as they could...

Read full article here: How Minorities Make Things Harder

Justin Wayne:

Let’s take an American white girl who grew up with mostly white friends and dated mostly white men. She will be more easily attracted to what she already knows. Same, applies to other races.

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This is also the reason why minorities will experience difficulties trying to pick up girls outside of their race. I can lie to the world and say it does not matter what race you are… but that would be bullshit. Now, once the girl is very into the minority, then he can use that romantic connection to get her and keep her. However, interms of the “pick-up” aspect, they will have a harder time establishing BASIC SOCIAL COMFORT. Without it, there is no attraction. 

This is the reason why I never really liked online game as a means to pick up hotter women of other races. I can verify that all the girls in my ‘LAY REPORTs SECTION’ would not even respond to me if I messaged them online as a stranger. They would instantly ignore me and in rare cases message me back just because they were bored. However, I would not be able to get a date from them because they would have stereotyped me and there would be NO familiarity...

Read the full post here: Familiarity Breeds Attraction


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Qualification and Showing Interest

Another video from Psych about qualification.



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Black Men Dating White Women (Jungle Fever)

Via Assanova @ Real Made Men



You guys wanted me to write more about interracial dating, well I came across an interesting video that fellow blogger Assanova shared on his blog.

Thought I would share it here, as well as post my commentary.

Here are the points Dr. Johnson makes:

1. Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves
2. Most interracial relationships between Blacks and Whites are middle/upper class Black men marrying lower class White women
3. Never see rich White women marrying poor Black men
4. Black men marry White women for acceptance from White race
5. Do it to sooth inferiority complex in presence of White man
6. Black men who marry White women have low self-esteem
7. White women who Black men marry, are White women no other White men wanted
8. If White women could have White man with same socioeconomic status, they wouldn't marry Black men
9. Preaches against interracial relationships
10. Black men marry outside their race more than any other race put together
11. Views it as case of self-hatred

My Rational Take On It

While watching the video, what immediately jumps out at me was Dr. Johnson's blunt, eloquent and succinct speaking style. He speaks like Malcolm X, tells you nothing but the truths without sugar coating it. This immediately tells me he's a rational person.

I will respond to his points with my objective and rational take on them.

If you've followed my blog for some time you would know that I am generally not attracted to Black women. That doesn't mean I am never attracted to Black women, it just means I am attracted to them a lower percentage of the time compared to other races. In general, I am attracted to Japanese and Russian girls, but that's for a different post.

Some of the points he makes I agree with, but most I don't.

Chris Bosh and Wife

Point 1 - Disagree - I don't think Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves.

They date White women because that is the idealized version of beauty in the world. It is hard to escape it, even for someone like me who was born in Africa. It is subconsciously indoctrinated into you through the media.

Looking back in my past, when I was still growing up in Africa, I would say I began liking White women from seeing them on TV. They were very exotic and intrigued me. Even at that time, when I was about 7 years old, I was fascinated by them. I would see them in movies and my body not knowing what sex was at that time, would want to kiss them, thinking it would bring me closer to their mysticism.

State College = Nothing But White People

Fast-forward to me arriving in America in 4th grade, and their mysticism quickly disappeared, they were old news after seeing them all over the place. However when I moved to the states, I was living in State College, PA (Penn State), and that place was not diverse at all. From the moment I started 4th grade, till the time I left State College in the middle of 7th grade, I don't remember ever having any Black girls in my class, except for one bi-racial girl (mulatto) in 4th grade.

With numbers like that, they were no girls to like BUT White girls. It's human nature for men to make due with what they have. So I got used to White girls you could say, those where the only girls around.

I heard about a study, where they say that your preference in the opposite sex is discovered and developed before you're 12 years old and once you grow past that age, it's hard to change it. In other words, if you prefer dating Black, White, Asian, etc. from around 7-12 years old, it's going to be hard to all of a sudden change and start preferring another race.This needs to be looked into some more.

Anyway that's where I think I started to like White women, and it then shifted to Asian girls, and now I'm kind of neutral, I constantly keep fluctuating.

Michael Jordan and Wife (Model)

Points 2, 3 - Disagree - About his point of most interracial relationships being between upper/middle class Black men marrying lower class White women.

I think that's a general theme that reflects more on the sexual nature of men and women, that we learn from evolutionary psychology.

Regardless of race, the female species marries the male with the highest social status she can get. Males on the other hand marry for beauty, since it is a symbol of health and fertility. A woman marrying a male with low social status, regardless of whether she was rich, would be playing an evolutionary unstable strategy. Women who played that strategy were eliminated after many generations, and those that played the evolutionary stable strategy of marrying a man based on his social status, where allowed to have their genes propagated into future generations.

Points 4, 5, 6, 9, 10, 11 - Disagree - I don't know if this is necessary the case.

If White beauty is deemed as the highest standard of beauty and is subconsciously indoctrinated in Black men by media. Is it then not rational for a man to want to achieve what is viewed as the highest standard of beauty?

In addition, if a Black man is living in a predominantly Non-Black area, is it not rational for him to look at dating other races?

Points 7, 8 - Agree - This one I agree with, it is pure fact.

Obviously we're generalizing, but that tends to be the case. Most Black men who date interracially are dating women who are either not heavily desired compared to other girls of their race or lower in socioeconomic status. I think this has to do with the Plus 2 rule (+2), which I'll discuss below.

I wrote about it before, in my rants about women being racist when it comes to online dating. It had a study where it showed that if White women were to choose between two men they would deem to be equal in looks, but one was a White man and the other a minority, they would always take the White man. That's an obvious rational choice, due to the racial backlash. But the interesting thing was, that in order for a minority to overcome that, he would have to be +2 better in looks just to be on an equal playing field.

In other words, if we were to judge looks on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being really good looking. Two men who were both 8s, but one being a minority, would not be able to compete for the White woman's attention. The minority would have to be a 10, just to be considered.

The scale is for looks, but it can be changed to other representative scales such as socioeconomic status, or my favorite in this case, game.

I see the latter a lot, although I've never openly talked about it except to my wing Prince P, who also has experienced it, and feels this principle is true.

What we've both experienced from doing cold approach is that being minorities, we're automatically at a disadvantage when wanting to date White women, or even any other races.

We've both seen some White guys get approach invitations, girls numbers, dates, lays, etc. with what we both consider "mediocre" game. For example, using the same scale from above, a White guy's game could be an 8/10 and he would get the girl. If our game was an 8/10 or 9/10 we would most likely not get the girl. It's almost like our game has to be a 10/10 i.e. flawless to get her to consider dating interracially.

We both repeatedly experienced this so much, that we fundamentally PLANNED for it if we wanted to succeed in our ventures. Almost everything we do, we would include a White person in it, since it built more comfort with White women.

While doing our meetup group, we made sure one of the assistant organizers was a White guy. Otherwise, White women, who happened to make up the majority of women on meetup.com, would not come to a meetup with a Black guy and Indian guy leading it. That's just the plain truth. Same thing with our photo shoots with models. Having a White guy would just automatically build more comfort, to a point it became a rational choice. The times we didn't have a White person with us would just seem like self-immolation.

In pickup they say it's always better to pickup women when you can show you're pre-selected by women. We both learned a supplement to that, which was this: It's a lot easier to pickup White women if you can show you're pre-selected by White people. Example, when Prince P (an Indian guy) and me (a Black guy) invite two White girls to a party, chances of them coming are medium to low. However, if we have a White dude with us when we meet and talk to the White girls, chances of them coming to our party shoot up. This would happen a lot.

We never liked this one bit, but being the rational men that we are, we knew we could not blank-out reality. Reality is what it is, irrespective of what we think. In order to succeed with reality, we had to acknowledge it.

It seems like in order to date outside the race, you need to have a +2, whether you do it with game, social status or looks, you need to bring a +2 to the table to be considered. Obviously this my generalization, but it appears to to be true from Prince P and I's real world experience.

Anyway, that's my commentary on his video, which I thought was deep and made me think about this issue much more.

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2011 Tribute to Pickup

It’s the start of a new year, so I wanted to review and do a tribute to 2011. I had a lot of adventures and built a lot of memories that will be with me for the rest of my life. My last night in DC was almost as awesome as I envisioned it; it gave me the sure confidence in knowing where I had come from and where I was headed.

I barely was the same person when I entered the game. Although I still viewed myself as a young buck trying to make his way up the game, in 2011 I could not deny that I was no longer an upstart.

I’m getting ready to pack for a vacation in Africa for a few months, and when I return to the states will likely be moving from DC, to newer horizons. I don’t know where I’ll be taking my journey but wherever it is, I know that I will have no problem continuing with what I started.

I would like to take some time out and review some of the influential things from 2011. I’m making it in list form, since it makes for easier reading.

Top 5 Favorite Memories

I Could Get Used To This Lifestyle...Move Over Hugh Hefner

1. Becoming the Next Hugh Hefner - This one takes the cake, because I finally gathered the courage to try out something I had always thought about, but never had the audacity to attempt. I completely pushed myself out of my comfort zone by planning and hosting a model casting call, after reading about another person’s adventures in pulling it off. Once I tried and tasted the lifestyle of Hugh Hefner, I decided to pursue it with vigor.

“They sayin’ the sky is the limit. How bitch? I’m moon-walking!” – Big Sean

2. Swimsuit Models and Reality TV -  This was my 5th and last casting call and photo shoot for the year. I loved the way things culminated, with everything I had learned from the previous 4 coming together well. I continued pushing myself out of my comfort zone by recruiting swimsuit models, and even dabbled in porn, but that wasn’t as successful. I ended the year having a blast, and was offered an opportunity to appear on a reality TV show on behalf of the fashion magazine I started.

Hacking Online Game

3. Pulling My Dick Out in the Backseat – This was my first date from an online dating site using the online dating hack I had religiously worked on. It was also my first time trying out my new found rational self-interest and objectivist philosophy. I learned a lot in applying the philosophy and its strengths in keeping me grounded.

Accidently Sat in Paint Before Chasing Down Asian Girl lolz

4. What Would Superman Do? -  This was the time I pushed through my limiting beliefs and doubt from doing direct day game solo dolo. Thanks in part to watching the DJ Fuji 21 Convention Talk the day prior, for an entire day, I tasted what it was like to go direct on every hot girl I saw that day, without hesitation or needing a wing to push me.

Grand Central is the Spot

5. Push It to the Next Level -  Blue and I decided we were tired of not pushing ourselves when gaming. We decided to hold each other accountable and in the process, pushed our beliefs of what was possible from day and night game to a whole new level.

5 Wings I’m Grateful For

Mr. Hurgle's Small Penis

1. Mr. Hurgle – You’re wacky, crazy, kinda weird and most of the other wings on this list hated you. But I could care less, you were my main wing in 2011. My wings didn’t see your value, but I did. You were a fuckin’ master at breaking rapport, just like your role model Russel Brand!

You just lacked comfort, social calibration and intuition.  I helped you become more calibrated, and you in turn helped me work on breaking rapport and unstifling my self-expression. No matter how good or bad we would do during day game, one thing I can always say was that prowling the streets with you was always a lot of fun. By the end of the year we had built up so much chemistry and comfort, that we even attempted doing some gang bang pornos together with the models we were recruiting. I’ll end it by saying, I hope you get herpes on your vacation in Mexico you motherfucker, pun intended. How’s that for breaking rapport…looks like I’ll have to rebuild the comfort next time we see each other.

Daring Dave. Professional Approach Machine.

2. Dave – You were fuckin’ professional in 2011! I'm talking 1000 piece suit professional. You were the most consistent approach machine out of all my wings. I don’t think there ever was a day we went out and you had approach anxiety. While I would go through my ups and downs, you were like a steady wave always consistent. In 2011 I watched you grow and evolve from a reserved talker, to a smooth-rooftop-makeout-pulling talker in the span of a year. I have no doubt that out of the people I was winging with last year; you had the best drive and self-motivation to become great. I’ll see you again when we’re both pimps. I’m not a psychic or a mystic, but I think in the future we shall reconvene on a rooftop and philosophize about Ayn Rand and Ron Paul, surrounded with hot blonde cougars and Asian models. I’ll see you then.

Partners in Crime

3. Prince P – Great minds think alike! Out of all my wings, you were the only one who fully understood the tenet of “Perception is Reality”. And boy did we have a lot of fun in bending perception to create our own reality. Our mutual belief in rational self-interest took us to new bounds. From organizing a meetup group together and teaming up in starting a fashion magazine, very few people in pickup can say they were creating a perception, reality or lifestyle like ours.

You and your mutual belief in rational self-interest were my back support in helping me pursue the model casting calls. Where others bowed out due to fear or moral beliefs, you were the one who stood there with me and said let’s fuckin’ do this! Although I’ve left DC, I know we’ve left each other on good footing in building a lifestyle similar to Hugh Hefner, and will continue to do so. I have been working on some new shit that will take our fashion game to a whole new level. Get in touch with me when you read this and we’ll take about it.

BBC Crew Broadcasting Live!

4. John Panam -  I've known you for some time, but you just recently turned 21 late in the year, so that’s when our awesome adventures really started. Having another fellow Black guy, who brought that Black guy vibe when out infield was dope, and was something I missed. You understood the lingo, the swag, dat BBC right dere! Hanging out with you at the Asian happy hour pouching on Asian bunnies while Asian dudes were mean muggin’ was a memory to remember. That Ninja Kawasaki motor bike you got is steaming with swag. You definitely can use it to pull in some BBC bunnies. I'll see you when I see you, and you best believe I’ll be Broadcasting Live!

Knee Deep in the Fashion Game

5. Lifestyle Game  -  Coming in a tie is lifestyle game; this had a huge influence on me in 2011. Fashion opened up new possibilities and the rest is history. In terms of lifestyle, I found an identity that I was congruent with, and had the type of women I wanted to meet, beautiful and feminine. The magazine was like fishing with dynamite, when I met these type of women. I later added on a modeling agency, which was a form of me, just show boating in the endzone. Add on the social group we started, and meeting, talking and inviting girls out became less work.

Portable Wingman

5. Gum Camera - The gum camera was the portable wingman. Whenever I was out, I would press the record button and two things would happen. Either I would look like a pussy on camera, or I would look legendary! A basic simple fight or flight response. Having the spy camera motivated me to approach more consistently, and that’s not even mentioning the vital feedback to my game I received from going over the videos after the approach.

This post is becoming long, so I’ll wrap up the other influences on me in 2011 succinctly.

Top 5 Most Influential People

When You Want to Succeed as Bad as You Want to Breathe

1. Eric "The Hip Hop Preacher" Thomas – My daily dose of motivation and inspiration.
2. Ayn Rand – Objectivism and rational self-interest philosophy
3. Partytime and Gringoed from Roosh V forums – The inspiration for Model casting calls
4. Robert Ringer – Rational self-interest, moral code and reality
5. Hugh Hefner – Lifestyle game

Top 5 Most Influential PUAs

"You Don't Wanna Talk About Game, You Wanna Be Game" - Adam Lyons

1. AFC Adam – Proud DC Bootcamp alumni…thanks for everything Adam!
2. DJ Fuji – Responsible for my 2011 Action Plan
3. Sinn - Dates
4. Jeffy (RSD) – Beast mode and not being half a gangsta
5. Tyler (RSD) – Congruence and neediness

Top 5 Most Influential Books

"I wished to come here and state my terms. I do not care to exist on any others" - Howard Roark 

1. The Fountainhead – Opened my eyes to dangers of collectivism and introduced me to reason being an absolute

2. Autobiography of Malcolm X – Helped me apostate from western forms of religion
3. The Selfish Gene – Meaning of life, Game Theory and Evolutionary Stable Strategies
4. Talent is Overrated – Hard work beats talent. It’s all about “Deliberate Practice”
5. Atlas Shrugged – Moral code and Philosophy

That officially wraps up 2011! On to 2012, which I'll call "The Year of the Hustle!"

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Swimsuit Models and Reality TV

“They sayin’ the sky is the limit. How bitch? I’m moon-walking!” – Big Sean

Quick Update

Alright, I know this write up is coming late, but this is my last field report from 2011. Heck, it’s gonna be my last field report write up for a long ass time.  I’m no longer in DC, done with grad school and won’t be writing field reports for a while. No, the broad that wanted to sue me for posting an infield video hasn’t intimated me from posting; I will still be working on my lifestyle game. As a matter of fact, I am looking into buying my very own DSLR camera in 2012, that way I can cut out all the photographers and finna do it BIG by myself.

This post will be a great summation of the lifestyle I have been working on, and where I plan to take it in the future. Since it is my last post from 2011 and I have been receiving a lot of questions as to how I’ve been running and operating things, I will do an INTENSE break down of everything entailed in setting this up. So if you are one of the people who have been asking me about starting your own fashion magazine or modeling agency, this is the post you should read.

Let’s get it!

Background

For those who haven’t been following my lifestyle game, let me get you caught up to speed.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants” – Isaac Newton

I started a fashion magazine with two wings after being inspired by a post on the Roosh V forum. In essence, it’s a simple wordpress blog with a magazine theme template where we post images and videos of us at local fashion events. One of my wings, Psykat is a professional videographer so the video we were shooting was high quality and made us look legit! I am a smooth talker and was responsible for recruiting the models. And last, Prince P had a corvette convertible, which came in handy for the photo shoots we hosted and he would buy drinks and snacks for the shoots.

"Hell, there are no rules here - we're trying to accomplish something" – Thomas Edison

So I hit the ground running, with nothing but my rational self-interest in building a lifestyle and social circle filled with models. I threw all the rules out the window. If you play by the rules, your results will only be as good as the rules let you be. If you play with no rules, the universe becomes your oyster, the possibilities are endless.

I Am Modeling the Best

I have learned that whenever I want to do something new, the fastest way to shortcut the matrix is to find someone who has already done it and follow C.P.M., which stands for Copy, Paste and Modify. Whoever has already done it has gone through most of the trials and errors and has probably spent lots of $$$ in refining the systems. So I steal whatever he’s done and build from there. In my case I used Hugh Hefner of Playboy as the role model of the lifestyle I was aiming at, including stealing some things from him.

Fast-forward…After being banned from craigslist, where I used to post casting call ads for my magazine’s photo shoots, I decide to graduate to the big leagues and join a model specific site to post my casting calls. It’s not model mayhem or one model place, this one is free and is friendly to casting directors.  What makes it even more awesome, some of the models on there pay $50 a month for premium membership and first dibs in being contacted by self-proclaimed casting directors like yours truly. This means some of the models on there are HEAVILY INVESTED and less likely to flake when I send them my casting calls since they’re paying to get first dibs. We call that FLIPPING THE SCRIPT.

I setup a personal profile as a casting director and put up my first ever casting call ad that I’ve refined over the course of 4 previous photo shoots. In scientific terms, it has EVOLVED through trial and error to become as optimum as possible in reeling in models and making sure they show up to my shoots. Even the follow up messages I send have been tested and scrutinized with excruciating detail as well as copied, pasted and modified from some of Playboys very own casting calls. Word!

Fast-forward, my inbox is flooded with 50+ models sending me emails attached with their photos and phone numbers saying they’re so eager to work with me. We filter out the ones we like and hold one-on-one interviews with the one’s we like, either in a bar or Starbucks, where we interview and ineffectively try to hit on them.

Almost No Shoot

Fast-forward, so the year is wrapping up and I had just finished doing the model interviews and was wondering to myself. Wednesday would be my last day in DC, and I have all these new models from the new site and haven’t yet done a photo shoot with any of them.

The thing that was holding everything back was finding a venue. We normally hold the shoots in a public location but I had planned to make things sexier by making the last shoot a “swimsuit/lingerie” shoot. I couldn’t host that outside because of the cold weather and pervs that would intrude and leer at the models.

After mass texting a bunch of girls in my phone asking about a venue, a girl that I met during fashion week months back and had been to one of our photo shoots says we can use the lounge in her apartment complex. I head there to check it out with Dave, and it is a dream come true.

The Perfect Venue

If I could have envisioned a perfect place for a shoot this would have been it, it was a legitimate lounge. It was decked out with a bar, pool table, xbox 360 and kinect, 4 flat screen TVs, a private lounge inside and a music system throughout the entire place. I laughed and reminisced in the futile venues we had used in the past. I knew I was officially graduating to the big leagues.

Logistics

I arrived there with my wing and talent assistant, Mr. Hurgle. Every detail was planned out, including the ratio of guys to girls. No guys would be there unless they had a specific purpose.

Guys:

1 – Me (Talent Director) – I ran the whole thing and told the models what we were doing.

2 – Mr. Hurgle (Videographer and Assistant) – I needed an assistant to add to my posture, the more people you have working under you, the more important you look. In addition, Mr. Hurgle has a video camera and I wanted to capture the whole thing on video. The video footage we took ended up being pathetic because he’s camera was a piece of shit.

I have been going through photographers like condoms during these shoots. The first photographer, also our wing and partner in the magazine, was uptight when it came to shooting and us being unprofessional with trying to flirt with the models. He was more concerned with the “professionalism” of the magazine, and we were more concerned with trying to bang the models. So there was a conflict of interest. He pulled a fast one on us by trying to cancel a shoot because we didn’t have an ideal venue.

Always planning a few chess moves ahead, I had a backup photographer in tow, an Indian friend of mine from school, so we ended up using him. He was a lot easier to work with and did everything we told him to. However, he was a dick in sending us the pictures and videos at a reasonable time. Before the shoot he was eager and friendly, then after he’s done shooting our models, he acted like I didn’t exist and I had to pester him for the pictures and video.  So by principle, I didn’t let him shoot the next shoot and moved on.

3 – Prince P (Photographer) – We needed a photographer and Prince P had just bought a DSLR camera. I decided to invite him as the main photographer, however after mulling it over, I remembered that Prince P is reliably unreliable when it comes to showing up to photo shoots on time. I needed to have a backup. Once again, always planning a few chess moves ahead, I had been talking to a photographer from the dc lair on twitter, and had told him to be on standby. The day of the shoot comes, and as suspected, I end up moving him up to main photographer. Good thing I prepared and had a backup otherwise we would have had a repeat of the last shoot, and have waited over an hour for a photographer to show up.

4 – Sheeno (Photographer) – Our initial backup, later moved up to main photographer, played the part well considering I invited him last minute.

5 -  PTR (Snacks and Wine) – A wing of mine, I told him he could come as long as he brought girls or food and drinks. One thing these photo shoots need is alcohol, it loosens everybody up. A shoot without alcohol is doomed to fail. We always go with $3 wines, it’s cheap and still gives us the posture of appearing classy.

Girls:

8 Models – I had 10 models confirm for the shoot, and 8 showed up. As always, they will always be flakes for every photo shoot. This was the lowest percentage to flake out of all the shoots, and I attribute it to the new modeling site I was recruiting from, my highly refined follow up messages and doing the one-on-one interviews.

2 Girls – The hot girl lending us the venue was there, as well as a photographer girl I met at Mad Hatters during a fashion event. I invited her to help out; she played the photographer’s assistant, and was responsible for telling the models what poses to strike. Having her there was more valuable than I could have imagined! The pre-selection she gave us was insane compared to our previous shoots. The models felt comfortable having a girl tell them what sexy poses to strike. This completely removed the creepy photographer stereotype that we’ve run into in the past and were trying to avoid.

Game Time

So it’s Wednesday 6pm, game time rolls around, and the models start arriving. My phone starts blowing up with more than 3 models trying to call me at the same time. I have to put each one on hold to talk the other one. I start picking them up from the lobby and bringing them to the lounge. I had borrowed from Playboy’s casting calls, and told all the models to bring evening dresses and high heels. So during the course of an hour, the clerk at the lobby sees me go up and down the elevator bringing in hot girls wearing dresses and high heels and wonders what I’m up to. She’s cool with it and I extend the invitation for her to come to our shoot. Fast-forward an hour later and we have 8 models ready to shoot.

I lost two models on the way, I forgot to pick one up from the lobby since I was so busy and she left, and another claimed she couldn’t find the place so she left after waiting. She called me to bitch to me about not being able to find the place and said she would be leaving. I simply told her “Okay, take care”. She was speechless; she thought I was going to beg her to stay. I was in ultimate abundance; I had 8 models upstairs waiting for me, I could care less if she left.

Warming Up

Getting Warmer

I instruct the girls to start out by doing individual shoots with the photographer and his assistant in the private lounge. I make small talk with the rest of the models while they’re waiting in the main lounge. I was trying to be cheeky, or rather, break rapport and loosen things up, but was too buttoned up and in professional mode.

The good thing, Mr. Hurgle had no problem doing that. He loosened things up a bit and was joking with the models. The music we had playing in the background definitely helped with that. We shoot for about an hour.

After an hour and a half, I laugh and tell Mr. Hurgle and Prince P we’re going to start the swimsuit shoot next. I tell the models to change into their bikinis or lingerie and meet us in the private lounge. About 15 minutes later they start rolling in and we get to shooting.

Heating Up

On Fire!!!

This was definitely more fun and sexier than the previous shoots. I wondered to myself, why the hell did I wait so long to do this. I guess it just took being more confident in pulling it off, as AFC Adam says, “Confidence comes with competence”. Now that I’ve done a swimsuit photo shoot, I don’t think I could ever go back to a regular shoot. The only way to go is up, by stepping it up to nude shoots…maybe that will be the plan for 2012.

In between the shoot I was flirting and trying to make moves on some models, but I appeared to be doing better with the married hot girl that let us use the venue. Some of the models had husbands or boyfriends, so I had written them off since it would be harder, and I had my eyes on two girls, a short snow bunny and a juicy black girl that is bound to end up in KING Magazine with a body like hers. Since I interviewed them one-on-one weeks earlier, it was easier to start flirting with them. There was an already established “Comfort” between us.

Since the shoot was on a Wednesday night, some of the models I interviewed couldn’t make iIt, so I had invited two models at the last minute that I did not interview. I noticed it was harder for them to fit in with the rest of the models, as well as for me to hit on them. We had not established any “Comfort” before the shoot, so they were still getting situated into everything; they kind of had the deer in the headlights look.

There was definitely something going on between me and the married hot girl. She’s really into fashion and with me running a fashion magazine and prancing around her lounge with swimsuit models in my fancy clothing and tie must have been flipping a million attraction switches. Her husband was supposedly coming to the shoot but her never showed up, he was late or something. I would just banter with her and resisted from trying to hit on her. I did not want to fuck up a good thing; having her let us use the lounge now, and possibly for future shoots, was worth too much to cough up.

Poppin' Bottles

Stay Thirsty My Friends

The Most Interesting Men in the World

PTR eventually arrives with the food and wine, although over an hour late. We wrap up shooting and start to pop the wine bottles. We pour each model a glass of wine and toast to our magazine. Things became more loosened up once the wine started going around, including myself. I needed it the most, I normally don’t use alcohol as a crutch, but in this case I was. Trying to appear professional in directing the photo shoot as well as flirt with models was a hard task for me.

Mr. Hurgle had no issues and was just being his normal crazy self. He fared best out of all of us. During the shoot he dragged the model he was going for outside to the bushes were something happened, but I don’t know exactly what haha. He ended up being driven home by her.

Since it was a Wednesday night and some models had to work tomorrow, some models start leaving. We chill out and party with the rest for a while, and proceed to start hitting on them, with wine acting as the excuse for our behavior. The short model I was going for ended up having to leave because her mom was waiting outside to drive her home.

We end up wrapping up and start to clean up. All in, I can say I had a lot of fun. Definitely the most fun thing I did in 2011, and a good way to end the year. If we stuck to a routine of doing these swimsuit-shoots every 2-3 weeks, like we had set out before, this would absolutely be a brilliant way to build a lifestyle filled with beautiful women.  I have experienced how Hugh Hefner lives and I can say, once you do, it’s hard for you to go back.

I’m taking a short break from the game, but plan to return and continue with building the Playboy lifestyle, and finna do it BIG! This time when I return, I expect to have my own crib, so the expectations will be huge.


Reality TV Show Offer?!?!

So I received a voicemail from some lady saying something about my fashion magazine, and since I’m a Black guy doing it BIG, she was asking if I wanted to appear on a reality TV show for TV One. It’s a lifestyle and entertainment channel for Black people with it's headquarters in Maryland.

Although I would have loved the posture, credibility and swag it would give me in building my Playboy Lifestyle, I am not in the stage where I can or want to be on a reality TV show right now. I chose not to take the offer…maybe down the line I might reconsider it.

But it did reaffirm the hustle I have been putting into this shit. Last year, I declared 2011 "The Year of the Blow Up!" Having a girl find my infield video, ending 2011 partying with swimsuit models and receiving an offer to be on a reality TV show I think qualifies as blowing up. I’m gonna keep it moving in 2012.

I’m thinking of calling 2012 “The Year of the Hustle!”

My next post will be an infield tribute to 2011 and wrapping up the year. Until then...

Hustle Hard!

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AFC Adam Lyons Bootcamp Review

I took Adam Lyon's Washington DC Bootcamp on September 16-18th, 2011. I wanted to wait for a while, after the bootcamp high effect was over and I had applied what I learned for a few months before posting a review.

Well the long awaited review is officially here. Let's first start with the background story.

Background

I was practicing game for a while, about 2 years, and Adam Lyon’s game system for the last 1 year before taking a bootcamp with him. I had learned about Adam from a talk he did for the Washington DC lair a year ago. I was by no means a newbie, I had done about 1-2,000+ cold approaches prior to taking his bootcamp. I would have classified myself as intermediate.

Although I wasn’t a beginner, I still had a lot of sticking points and had reached a plateau that was stopping me from taking my game to the next level. Specifically I had a flaking issue, I would accumulate a lot of numbers and a low percentage of the girls would meet up with me. The girls that did meet up with me, most of them would not want to meet up a second time.

After studying Adam’s home-study course for a year, I was disappointed with the results. Although it helped me achieve some spectacular things, overall I felt like I was not where I had hoped to be. I started to question his system. Being entrenched in the pickup community, I would receive word from other people, some who I respected because of their ability to pick up women, who told me Adam’s system for meeting women through cold approach was not good or optimal.

Despite being a long time follower of Adam, I began to blame him for the lack of success I was receiving. I felt cheated and wronged and decided to let him know when he posted an infield YouTube video about direct game that I felt would just lead to a flaky number.

"This is complete bullshit! So what, he got a flaky phone number. Any body whose been doing day game for a while can do that. The question is what happens after that" 

"I'm honestly disappointed in you Adam. I'm starting to see you for the phony you are. Sure you may get laid like a rockstar, but not from day game"

To my surprise, Adam responded to my criticisms of his teachings by posting a video for me a week later specifically dealing with the issue I had with the last video, a video that I couldn’t argue with.

Despite the prior flame war from the first video, I was surprised when Adam reached out to me through my blog by personally emailing me. We exchanged emails back and forth and I confided in him in the plateau I had reached while studying his home-study course. I told him I realized that I would not be able to get past this plateau from just reading an ebook, listening to an audiobook and cold approaching on my own. I told him I was in school and didn’t have much money, but was willing to find a way. Adam was able to make a special arrangement to have me join the Washington DC bootcamp that would be coming to my area a couple of months in the future. I was shocked at the genuine interest he showed, despite me having dogged him a few weeks earlier. It truly is a testament to his character; he really wants to see his students become great at meeting and picking up women.

Friday

Introduction

I showed up to the bootcamp ecstatic like a kid on his first day in school. I brought my pickup notebook and pen, ready to soak in the game from one of the best pickup artists in the world.

From the moment Adam walked in with his instructors, I could tell he was the real deal; he had that rock star aura. One thing I’ve noticed from being in the game for a while is that most of the guys, who are incredibly good with women, whether they are world class PUA gurus or super naturals, are they have insane rock star aura, also known as charisma. Their body language is so dialed down that it simply makes people gravitate to them. I think it comes from the massive experience they have from cold approaching and interacting with thousands of women.

Seminar

We went through the first day material and I took notes throughout. He properly covered the initial fundamentals, from body language, how to properly open, build commonalities and number close. I appreciated the demonstrations on body language and building commonalities that he did. Right off the bat, he specifically addressed why few girls were meeting up with me. It had something to do with congruence and I would learn how to adequately fix that throughout the bootcamp.

He also covered how to create a lifestyle with the type of women I want to meet, by having commonalities attractive to them.

No Sugar Coating...I'm Here to Learn to Pickup Hot Girls

Another thing I appreciated with the bootcamp right off the bat, was the blunt honesty with why we were there. I was there to learn how to pickup hot girls. There were no disingenuous remarks as to why we were there. They did not try to pretend that we were there to work on things that were irrelevant to our main objective. No impractical inner game or becoming a better person fluff speeches and sugar coating, just hardcore, practical and immediately applicable lectures on how to pickup hot girls.

Saturday

Seminar

The material we covered on Friday was just the tip of the iceberg. On Saturday we delved deeper into the meat of the bootcamp. One of the instructors, Alex, gave a talk on what attraction is. I’ve heard spiels about what people think attraction is, but Alex was able to solidify my understanding of it by telling us the fundamentals that create attraction. He simplified it into two ways to be attractive, the first one being having a lifestyle where you don’t need game, like that of Brad Pitt, and the second one, where you use game that you learned from the bootcamp.

Can't See the Forest for the Trees

What really helped me out was how Alex was able to explain the game of pickup from a bigger perspective, on a macro-level. This made me realize how incomplete my view on game was prior to the bootcamp, I was thinking on a micro-level. My head was so deep inside the forest, that I couldn’t see that it was a forest; all I was seeing was green. Throughout the bootcamp all the instructors helped me get my head out of the trees, and take notice that I was in a forest and understand how and why things worked in game on a macro-level.

In addition, he covered how to get hot girls, the 8s, 9s and 10s. He discussed the three different levels of game, and how to punch above your weight if you’re not an 8, 9 or 10. The best part was him applying an 80/20 perspective, and telling us the three fundamentals, T.L.C., that if you focused on, would increase your game and results the fastest.

The second talk Alex did on conversation skills and building comfort was incredible. I learned why I was having a low percentage of women want to meet up with me. I had completely written off comfort and thought all I needed to do was "just talk" for a while and women would naturally feel comfortable and want to meet up. Alex completely unraveled the errors in my thinking by breaking down specifically what "comfort" is and how to confirm that I have it. He gave practical demonstrations on how to build comfort and how to apply it to increase your results.

Being Fun and Playful

The next talk was by Zac, it covered breaking rapport, also known as "flirting". This was also a beneficial talk, since I was not as good as I liked at making interactions "fun" and "playful" with girls. Zac covered how to flirt and start generating attraction and stay out of the friend zone with girls. He followed that up by giving talks on Qualification and Sexual Escalation, both phenomenal in their own right.

Alex closed the day up by talking about how to overcome objections and handling logistics. He recapped all the material we had learned so far and showed us how to specifically apply all of it in a pickup scenario before we proceeded.

We wrapped up the seminar portion of the bootcamp and I went home to marinate on what I had learned so far, I felt like Neo having entered The Matrix and gaining a better understanding of game.

Sunday

Day Game Infield

Because of family obligations I was not able to attend the night game infield portions of the bootcamp, only the day game.

This was the only infield portion I took, so I knew I had to go all out and receive as much feedback as possible. To motivate his students, Adam has a challenge where any students that get 5+ contact details in the 3 infield sessions, get to join him for lunch and pick his brain. I wanted to join him for lunch and learn more, so this provided an extra boost of motivation.

Initially I was paired up with Alex for my approaches, but Adam came over and started giving feedback, and it ended up being me and him one-on-one. We played the veto game, where he would point out random girls and give an opener, and I would go approach. I’m not gonna lie, it was kinda of awesome having the #1 Pickup Artist in the world critique and give me feedback on my approaches. We day gamed for about 90 minutes, I got 1 number, 2 emails and insta-dated two girls but that ended up falling apart when their other friend came and wanted to go elsewhere.

Adam said I showed a lot of understanding and skill, so I could come to the "Advanced Game Lunch". I can’t talk about what happened on this lunch, but all I will say is Adam simplified the entire pickup process by breaking it into a few fundamental parts that he doesn’t teach anywhere. Looking back, all I think about is how ingenious Adam is to have come up with the concepts he taught us at the lunch.

Seminar

We reconvened for an hour long feedback session and Adam elaborated on the myths of good game on the internet and being persistent with your approaches, rather than ejecting or quitting.

Some quotes that stand out from the feedback session where:

• "Good game is having things fuck up and you keep on going with the set"
• "Good game is ugly and slow"
• "When you get good, you don't eject, you disqualify and stay in set"

Rocking My New Signature Look...Bold Ties

We had some time before the next talk, so I asked Adam for his take on fashion and how to be memorable. He gave practical advice that I’ve been applying with great results since, specifically adding BOLD colorful ties as a signature look to my style.

It has made opening with compliments much easier, especially since I'm now in the fashion industry. I would say 70% + of the time I open girls with compliments on their style, they return the compliment by saying the love my look as well. It makes everything so much easier! Prior to wearing bold colorful ties, less than 20% of the girls I talked to would return the compliment. They loved my style prior to rocking ties, but having BOLD ties as an accent piece, gave them an easy excuse to start hitting on me. Thanks Adam!

Zac then talked about Phone and Text Game. He emphasized the different ways to go about it and how to ensure you convert a higher percentage of those numbers into dates and day 2s, which was his next talk.

Shortly thereafter, he talked about Social Circle Game, which we all is one of the main things that draws people to Adam’s style of game.

My Magazine's Swimsuit/Lingerie Model Photo Shoot

He talked about how to build a social circle with the type of women you want, and how to go about finding them and gaming women for friends to build the circle up. This was one of the best talks of the bootcamp and inspired me to do a lot of work on my lifestyle after the bootcamp.

Adam wrapped things up by discussing confidence and the importance of practicing, which comes from the tenet, "Confidence comes with competence". In terms of practicing and receiving feedback, he recommended recording your approaches and going over them if you don’t have access to an instructor all the time. This was one of the motivations that made me go out and get a gum spy camera to record my approaches. All I can say is Adam is right, I’ve learned a lot from watching my approaches on camera.

The bootcamp was officially over, and I bid my farewells and went back to life with a new found perspective of the game.

Life After the Bootcamp

My Magazine's 3rd Photo Shoot

One of the things I had begun working on prior to the bootcamp was creating a playboy lifestyle, similar to that of Hugh Hefner of Playboy. Adam Lyon’s bootcamp provided more inspiration for me to do that and was able to push me in the right direction to achieve that.

Interviewing Model for My Magazine

I came into the game to learn how to pickup hot girls, the model looking girls, like fashion and swimsuit models. So I set out to do just that. I continued working on the online fashion magazine my wings and I started, and this allowed us to attend all the local fashion events, which happen to be 95%+ women, beautiful women I might add. The week after the bootcamp happened to be fashion week in DC, so it provided the perfect environment to test out my newly acquired skills.

I followed Adam’s practice advice and have been going out 5-6 times a week, consistently.

Insta-Date from Accent Transition Adam...Aye!!

In the first week after the bootcamp, I got over 20+ phone numbers (I had to stop counting after 20). Had a married woman makeout with me while her husband was in the bathroom. I also met up with 4 girls that same week, so my flaking issue was solved right out of the gate. I finished the week off by having a barbecue on my wings’ rooftop with two girls I met that week.

Hosting Happy Hour for Our Meetup Group

I am now an organizer of two meetup groups along with my wings, and combined we have over 1,000 members in them. We host happy hours, parties and other fun stuff like salsa lessons, etc. Whenever I go there I am "The Man" and gaming is almost effortless. I’ve met and gone on dates with a few women from their and it provides a steady supply of new women for me.

In addition to doing the fashion magazine, meetup group, I also spun off a modeling agency to compliment the fashion magazine…yes you read that right! Except the only difference is we don't hire models and are not concerned with making money. I use it to recruit and invite models for interviews, photo shoots and parties. It's simply a means to an end. A justified one I would say.

I can definitely say that taking Adam’s bootcamp has helped me understand the sticking points I had, and I am now able to get a larger percentage of women to hang out with me and I am creating a lifestyle that surrounds me with incredibly beautiful women to a point that I don’t have to game or cold approach as much. I went an entire week without doing a cold approach because I was meeting so many different women from my magazine and meetup group events.

I finished the year by holding our final photo shoot for the year. The way it happened summarizes how I've been applying Adam's game. I met a hot married girl during fashion week. I took down her number and invited her to our photo shoot on the weekend. After the shoot we had a barbecue with my wings. Fast forward a few months later we're looking for a venue to host our end of year swimsuit/lingerie photo shoot. Having been to our photo shoot a few months earlier, I had built up so much comfort, that she volunteers for us to use the lounge in her apartment complex. The lounge is decked out, legitimately looks like a real lounge with a game room, pool table, Xbox, and multiple flat screen TVs. If you could dream up an ideal venue to host a photo shoot party this would be it, and it was free thanks to being friends with her.

She says she's looking forward to it and loves how we'll have a lot of girls there, since we're always rolling with girls. I smile and laugh, fully understanding and grasping the value of pre-selection that Adam teaches.

I Could Get Used to This Lifestyle

We end the year in a blast, having a photo shoot party with 4 of my close wings, and 10 girls, eight of whom were models, the other two I picked up from fashion events. One thing to note, I single-handily brought all the 10 girls, and all the models and non-model girls that would come to the 5 photo shoots we had this year. Although I love my wings, they consistently had trouble bringing other girls to the shoots and meeting up with them. On the other hand, I would consistently have other girls I met from cold approach coming to every one of our photo shoots and seeing them again, and I can unequivocally say it was thanks to the tactics and techniques I learned from Adam.

Am I the world's greatest pickup artist from taking this bootcamp? That's an emphatic no! However, I have learned the proper fundamentals of game and how to effectively build a lifestyle that surrounds me with the beautiful women I desire to a point that I can still be getting laid with hot models when I'm 80 years old...just like Hugh Hefner!

I have achieved this lifestyle without spending a dime. I'm a broke grad school student, living at home with his parents, no cars and shitty logistics, but still finding a way to create a Playboy Lifestyle. Whenever people ask me how I am achieving this, I will resoundingly tell them it's because of GAME! Specifically, Adam's Lyon's teachings.

Takeaways


Adam Lyons Knows His Shit - From being a loyal follower of his teachings, to becoming an apostate, I am now a believer again. Adam unequivocally cares about seeing his students succeed. I am a testament to that. The generosity he took in contacting me and letting me sit in on his bootcamp, despite the animosity I initially showed, is a testament to his amazing character. I have the utmost reverence for him. He is able to break down game into a technical structure and still make it easy to learn.


Don't Put Off Taking a Bootcamp - Being someone who thought that they could become great at pickup from just illegally pirating pickup products from torrent sites, I will tell you what I learned. You won't! As much as you may not like to hear this, there is shit that they don't teach in the products, that they ONLY teach on bootcamps. A lot of the meat that will take your game to the next level is only taught on bootcamps. From a business perspective it makes sense, if pickup instructors taught everything in their ebooks, audiobooks or videos, then they wouldn't be a need to teach bootcamps. To counter this, most products only touch the tip of the iceberg. Bootcamps are where it's at. Don't procrastinate, take one, having no money is not an excuse. If you are dedicated you will find a way like I did.

No One to Blame But Myself - I realize that before taking the bootcamp there was no one to blame for my hindrances but myself. I was trying to justify my problems by blaming Adam's system. I think this is what happens with people who bash pickup gurus. Granted there are some charlatan teachers out there, at the end of the day I was not fully practicing and pushing his system to the point of failure.

Lifestyle Game is Worth It - Putting in the time to build a lifestyle that gets you women with ease is worth every single ounce of sweat equity. As Adam says, very few people do it, but it reaps you the biggest rewards.

I would like to end this review by saying I owe Adam Lyons a lot. He has changed my life and will forever be a staple in my journey. The only regret I have is that I didn't take a picture of us together from the bootcamp, then I would have heard a photo for my journal haha.

Thanks for everything Adam. You fuckin' rock!

If you want to take your game to the next level as well, you can check out Adam's bootcamps on his website, by clicking the link below. Tell him Superman sent ya ;-)

Adam Lyons Bootcamp

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