Showing posts with label kino escalation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kino escalation. Show all posts

Indirect vs. Direct Day Game (Justin Wayne)

Justin Wayne is about to kill the game! Take notice!

This cat is about to murk these charlatans in the game when his product drops. It’s gonna change up the game immensely, like infield videos did when they first came out. Infield videos will be measured by higher standards, follow-up date videos will become the norm, especially in day game.




Great video! I learned a lot, it’s easy for me to establish social comfort, but have been having trouble escalating/flirting to a more direct vibe afterwards on a consistent basis. I was thinking and trying to reverse engineer how I successfully haphazardly did it in the past, in order to do it more consistently, and Justin Wayne comes out with this video that shows it happening haha.


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How To Sexually Escalate




Psych breaks down sexual escalation well in this video. Was watching it after I didn't seize the moment to escalate on an insta-date I had with a tall German girl yesterday.

If you're a brotha, and a fellow brotha never told you this, I will tell it to you right now. German girls LOVE BLACK GUYS! Never forget that.


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6 Models in 3 Days

As I mentioned before in my last post, I was blacklisted from Craigslist, which is where I used to post my model my ads. Now all new ads I put up are ghosted.

I decided to look around for some modeling sites to post on, and came across this site that was free. I setup a casting director account, and within a few days my account gets approved by their staff, hehehe, suckers!

I browse their catalog, and post a casting call that has an expiration date for next year, that way I can have models applying almost indefinitely. I put in the criteria I want for the model such as race, height, weight, age, etc. and 295 models meet my criteria.

There’s a choice to contact each model on there, and after contacting a few I realize I’m not acting rationally. As I suspect, I find at the top of the page that I can just  click a button to select all the 295 models and spam them my casting call…and that is exactly what I did haha.

Over the next few days I sat back and watched as my inbox was flooded with models responding with their pictures, and phone numbers telling me how eager they were to meet and work with me. I see Charlie Sheen in the background saying “winning!”

After a few days I had over 50+ emails from models in my inbox. In addition to that, the quality in terms of hotness was superior to craigslist. I realize that sifting through and selecting the ones we wanted to interview would be hard work. I recruit my new assistant talent director and wing Mr. Hurgle, and we sit down for 4 hours picking and arguing over the girls we each want to interview. We had so many babes that we realized that we could do an interview every single day of the week.

We created a document that organized each model by their availability and matched it up with ours. I end up lining up 8 model interviews in 5 days. That meant I had 2 on Monday, 1 on Tuesday, 3 on Wednesday, 1 on Thursday and 1 on Friday. We joked and called it the “8 models in 5 days”. We had so many models left over that I set my boy Dave up with one model as well, and told the rest we would schedule them for next week.

I’ll go over a brief overview of how each interview went. As I mentioned in my last post, I did things a little different this time, and rather than doing the interviews at Starbucks, I did them in a bar, I thought it would be more conducive for me.

Monday

5pm Native American Broad


This was a sexy Native American broad, fine as hell. We meet at the usual bar in Georgetown, and I pull out my questionnaire and we talk about her modeling career and ability. I order sangria, and she just orders water, not good, there goes my idea of getting her tipsy. We’re seated at the bar and she pulls out her look-book and we start going through her photos. She had some nudie pics so we start looking at those and talking about if she does nude modeling. I saw a ring on her finger and would later find out she has a husband. She was dressed real sexy and I was glancing at her boobs during the course of the interview. After a bit, I wrap up the interview and get ready for the 7pm girl.

I recorded the interview with my gum cam, but it was too dark to see shit, since it has on flash and is a spy cam.

7pm Indian Broad


She shows up and we sit at the tables and she’s not dressed that sexy compared to the last model. She has no experience modeling, and is an amateur, so the interview goes by fast. I didn’t bother ordering any drinks, and neither did she, since I was trying to save my money.

Tuesday & Thursday

I realize that I had a final exam this day, and end up having to cancel my interviews for this day, and Thursday.

Wednesday

3pm White Lingerie Model



I meet this model in Starbucks like in the past. We talk about the questionnaire stuff and after we’re done she just wouldn’t shut the fuck up! She was qualifying herself out the ass. It’s like she knew an awkward silence would end the interview, so she kept on talking. We talked about her boyfriend, who she mentioned he was a model as well, while I rolled my eyes. We talk about nude modeling for a bit as well. After that I go for an insta-date and ask her where to find some good tea. She walks me to a tea and cupcake shop in the area leading the way like her life depended on it. I got to see her full body standing up for the first time, and began getting wood. She ends up going shortly after that, since her boyfriend had dropped her off and would be picking her up.

I thought I got this one on my gum cam, but as soon as I was done, I saw that I had never turned it back on…fuck!


5pm Snow Bunny from PA



I get ready for my interview with another snow bunny, and this one I was meeting her in the usual bar. She shows up and we sit at the bar and begin the interview. I find out this girl drove 2 hours from PA with her boyfriend for this interview. Two fuckin’ hours??? I mentally tell myself, “No Guilt in your game!” and tell her she must be really dedicated. Didn’t like the fact that she had her boyfriend waiting outside though.

I order sangria as usual, and she just orders a coke, fuck! We talk about modeling, nude modeling, and sleazy photographers she’s worked with, etc. I have her critique the photos of the hot models I’ve interviewed so far, to build credibility that I am legit, haha. She liked it as well.

After a while we wrap up, this was the longest interview I did this week. To my surprise I find out that her boyfriend was in the corner of the bar waiting, wtf!!! He comes introduces himself and they head out.

7pm Swimsuit Model w/Boyfriend



After being surprised that the last model’s boyfriend was in the bar hiding without me knowing, I didn’t think it could get any worse.

This next broad from craigslist had the audacity to bring some dude, never found out who he was, likely her boyfriend or brother, to the bar for the interview. I decide I’m tired of this shit, and was going to go through the questionnaire as fast as possible.

But before that happens, I end up getting kicked out of the bar by the staff haha. They tell me I can’t have business interviews in their bar, and that they’re a business trying to make money as well. Made no sense, since I was ordering drinks most of the time I was there, but I think they didn’t like that I was buying cheap wines on their happy hour menu and were hating on me with these models.

One bar tender was looking at me after the last interview, maybe because I didn’t tip him. Regardless, I don’t argue, since I was not about to waste money drinking with a broad and some other dude with her. We bounce to Starbucks and finish the interview in break neck speed and I dip out. Astla vista!

Friday

7pm Black Lingerie Model



I skip the bar interviews having learned my lesson, and meet this lingerie babe from Craigslist in a bookstore. To continue on with the surprises, this chic brought her mom to the interview!!! She waited around the bookstore as we did the interview in the coffee shop inside the bookstore. We go through her lingerie pics and talking about her modeling shit and some go-go dancing she did. I wrap up the interview, she says she wants to meet me again to give me some more photos since she didn’t bring any, and I agree, pending that she doesn’t bring her mom next time.

Overall Takeways
  1. Model Specific Sites Better
  2. Models Are Not Single
  3. No Bar Interviews, Coffee Shops Better
  4. Don’t Let Models Bring People to Interviews
  5. Insta-Date, Break Rapport and Escalate
  6. Have Models Critique Other Models
Model Specific Sites Better – After posting my ad on the modeling site, I can unequivocally say it was superior. On craigslist the models where more suspicious and hesitant since it’s haven for a lot of creepy photographers…like I’m one to talk haha. With this site however, I don’t receive that negative association and the models are eager to meetup.

Models Are Not Single – To my dismay, the models I’ve interviewed so far have had husbands or boyfriends. Now it looks really obvious, that if a girl is hot enough to be a model, it would be an anomaly for her to be single since she can have her pick of the litter in terms of guys.

No Bar Interviews, Coffee Shops Better - Models will not order drinks during the interview. Come to think of it, what person would drink on a job interview? They’re trying to get a job and want to come across as professional. I realize that meeting in Starbucks was a better idea, since I save my money and only use it when I’ve successfully insta-dated them, and know that they didn’t bring anyone with them.

Don’t Let Models Bring People to Interviews - Models bringing their husband, boyfriends and moms to the interviews is not kosher! Same thing happened to the interviews I set Dave and Mr. Hurgle up with. I tried in the past casting calls, to tell models not to bring people to the shoots. Two things would happen, either they would not show up thinking we were creepers, or they would still bring someone and have them hangout somewhere in the area for a few hours. Then when the interview was over, you would see their husband or boyfriend pop up to drive them home. I think this might be a better strategy, and I might have to go back to it, regardless of if I lost some models.

Insta-Date, Break Rapport and Escalate - Just like in regular cold approach, insta-dates change the dynamics between me and the models and make it more conducive to what I’m trying to do. In cold approach, it changes it from us two being strangers, to being friends with a dating frame. With the two insta-dates that I’ve done so far, the dynamic changed from being very professional, to being more laid back and friendly, making it easier to start flirting with them.

After thinking about it, it’s hard to escalate the interaction when they’re uptight and trying to put their best foot across. In order to make things easier, I need to start breaking rapport more during the interviews, to loosen them up. Mr. Hurgle and I talked about it, and comfort is already assumed since they’re there for the modeling interviews. We have a commonality in common that interests them, and they want a job from us.

We could try really hard and the comfort would not break because they really want the jobs. That means we can go hard core with it, and push things to the limit. Qualification is already taken care of since we’re interviewing and qualifying them on their modeling careers. Come to think of it, the two main things that need to be done are breaking rapport and escalating. That’s pretty much the game...and logistics, the dreaded logistics.

Have Models Critique Other Models – When I did this with the model from PA, it made everything more fun and helped escalate the conversation. I should start doing it on every interview. It might be a great way to take the conversation sexual. I could ask them if they think the model is hot, whether they would kiss or bang her if they were a guy….I think I’m onto something here. Exactly how AFC Adam talks about escalating verbally.


Well that's pretty much it, setting up more interviews for this week, and will work on applying the new findings I had from the previous ones' I've done so far. Mr. Hurgle and I are interviewing a model that wants to do porn today, this might be interesting.



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Scouting for Virtual Offices

Awesome quote right here, courtesy of Kanye. This captures the ultimate goal of the Playboy Lifestyle Game I'm working on.
"Bullet proof condom when I’m in these hoes
Got staples on my dick (why?) fuckin’ centerfolds
And I swear to God they so cold
Got a nigga in Miami wearin' winter clothes
" - Kanye West
Haha, straight fire! On to the post.





Asian Happy Hour

Went to an Asian happy hour with my fellow BBC wing John Panam, and the organizer douche was mean muggin' us the entire time, since we were two black dudes, and I always stiff him whenever they ask us for donations at the door. 

Keeping it short, only notable thing was escalating fast on this Half-Asian broad to a point I didn't know what to do since things happened so fast. Opened her by asking about her elephant necklace, did a cold read about her having traveled to India, and was spot on. She was immediately in a trance, went deeper by mentioning Japan, and she had been there too. I tell her she's awesome, and link arms with her. Next thing you know we're locked arm-in-arm and she's giving me the doggy dinner bowl look.

I can tell she's ready to be kissed, and all of this happened in less than a minute. The sexual tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife. This was some 60 YoC type shit, escalating right from the opener. But I proceeded to fuck up. I felt like it was too fast to makeout with her, especially in front of everyone. I also felt it was too early to isolate, I was talking to her for less than a minute. 

The BBC Crew Broadcasting Live!
I start spinning wheels, and kill the sexual tension by going back to regular talk. Some Asian dude comes up to her and asks her what the hell she's doing haha. I think he was some chode that brought her there trying to make a move on her or w/e, I turn around and let them talk, and pretend to be busy with my phone. The chode leaves and we go back to talking.

I talk to her for a while, but eventually some other guy gets into a conversation with her. I was a pussy and didn't go back in there to claim the prize I had earned. FML!

Takeaway: It's never too early to escalate or isolate. I should know this since I got a 10 second insta-date a while back, the proof is in the pudding. If I'm not comfortable making out with a girl in front of her friends, it means I should isolate her away. But in order to do that, I should know my isolation spots before I start talking to girls.


Scouting for Virtual Offices

After doing the modeling photo shoots and interviews for a while, I figured that I need to get legit offices. I'm loosing a lot of models because they smell bullshit when I tell them to meet me in a coffee shop or a public place for the shoots. I know if we had legit offices, our credibility and posture would be on a whole different level.

Being of a follower of the rational author and businessman Robert Ringer's Theories, I take his "Posture Theory" to heart:

"It’s not what you say or do that counts, but what your posture is when you say or do it" - Robert Ringer

One thing I've been great at so far has been posturing my model game to be more credible. I dress up in suits, Prince P has a corvette, getting real photographers and designers, all the shit has been on point. But I can't stop there, gotta keep on pushing things to new levels. I think getting offices will do just that. The only problem is we don't have money to throw into this lifestyle game, we want to do it by spending as little money as possible.


Peep this:




I do some research, and find out that you can rent offices by the hour, they call it "Virtual Offices". I am floored...you mean to tell me I can rent out swag and posture by the hour. Yes sir!!! I'm in.

I find a place with virtual offices for a reasonable amount of $165 on K Street. For those who don't know, K Street is infamous as the street where all the top lobbying firms and lawyers in DC reside. It's less than 5 blocks from Obama in the White house, the world bank and the IFC. Talk about swag!!! I am thrilled at the potential. Here's what the price gets us according to their site.

This plan includes all the fundamental components to have fully functional office support. Your phones will be answered by our courteous receptionists, we collect and sort your mail and you have prepaid access to sixteen hours of conference and meeting rooms per month, with additional hours available and billed at month's end. You have access to all the office equipment which includes fax, copiers, mail machines and computers. Evening and weekend use is also available.

I decide to check it out the very next day. The video at the beginning of this post is of me being given a tour of the facilities. After taking a tour of the facilities, I am impressed for the most part, but have to now deal with the issue of money. They have cheaper packages, that start at $55 for five hours of using the virtual offices. I spoke with Prince P and Mr. Hurgle about it, and they're interested. Going to seriously consider this, perhaps for our next porn casting call haha.



International Happy Hour

I head to another couch surfing happy hour, and this time do better than last time. Last week I did well, but didn't bother getting any girls numbers. This time I did, got a three numbers and got a lot of practice in. I've noticed the last couple of weeks, my breaking rapport, or flirting if you wanna call it that, has gotten really good. I've also been doing a lot of sexual tension shit, did some more of that this week. Kudos to Dave for giving me some pointers on being physical, such as playfully punching girls. It's been working well with my style.

Just need to remember to isolate and keep on progressing the interactions, will make that my goal for next time. Didn't bother recording any video since I almost got busted last time and have yet to figure out a way to hide the flashing lights on my gum camera when in bars.

Peruvian Broad

There was this Peruvian broad that I number closed from a couch surfing language group. She flaked when I invited her for a happy hour, I deleted her number. I meet her again a few weeks later and she's surprised that I deleted her number. I get it again and invite her out, she shows up this time, but isn't down for the cause when I try to bounce her to another bar, we leave without her. 

She chats to me on facebook, and we plan to go biking together. I flake on her b/c I was doing a porn casting call haha. I invite her out for salsa a while later, she flakes but chats to me on facebook. I see her randomly on the street with another cute Peruvian friend of hers when I'm out with Dave. We bounce them to a bar for drinks and chill for a bit. I talk to her cute friend and eventually they have to go. I invite her out for our happy hour a few days later, she doesn't even bother responding to my text. I delete her number again since I see that she has never been down for the cause, and is merely leeching me for my social value whenever she wants to. 

I'm in the process of finishing Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged, and have been re-evaluating my moral code. One of the principles I have not been living up to is only interacting with women who live up to my standards of value.


One of the values I despise are time wasters, aka the "may be" girls.  I understand that women will be flaky till the end of time, but what I refuse to tolerate are the women who do not even bother to let you know that they won't be able to make it, or reschedule, they go cold on your phone calls or texts. 

If a woman is truly interested, she will have the courtesy of responding to let you know she can't make it, if she doesn't she will learn otherwise. Tit for tat, I am merely conditioning the women that I interact with that if they deal with me in a manner I value, they will be rewarded with my interest, if they do not, they will receive no interest.

So fast forward, a few weeks later I get a text from some random broad asking where we're hosting salsa lessons. I find out it's the Peruvian girl, and ignore her texts. Later at night she sends me chats on facebook surprised that I deleted her number again, I ignore her ass. I do not need to deal with this shit, I'm fuckin' having drinks with swimsuit models that kiss my ass, I don't need mediocre girls wasting my time if they're not down for the cause as Solo says.

I'm done with her, and hand her off to Prince P, who has been sweating her for a while. I already knew he was trying to setup a date with her behind my back, but now that I'm done with her, we put shit in the open and he can have her.

Peruvian Broad's Friend on Facebook

Ironically, one of the reasons I didn't care for the Peruvian broad was that I was try to switch up, and make a move on her friend. She was more "Americanized" and I was peeping some interest on her part. While talking to Prince P on the phone, whose telling me that he's meeting with the girl I ditched that week to help her with finding a job, I'm chatting to her friend on facebook. Here's the chat log:

Superman:
salsa today!!!
you should join us!

Her:
hola! i cant today 
rain check for next week

Superman:

cool
hows life

Her:
have fun tonight!
life is good, can't complain
how have you been?

Superman:
amazing!
partying a lot, saving the world

Her:
niiice
hahahha great motto to live by

Superman:
yea, what are you up to for thanksgiving

Her:
spending it with the fam. and working black friday 

Superman:
haha. I'm ready to get some deals
you should live it up

Her:
are you going shopping at 5am?

Superman:
nope, online on my couch lolz
amazon.com

Her:
perfect
avoid the crowd

Superman:
did you tango yet?

Her:
i went to check it out, but did not take the class

Superman:
we're planning on doing more dancing events. tango, and also looking into karaoke 

Her:
both would be super fun

Superman:
no way! you karaoke???

Her:
i havnt, but i want too
i hear its such a fun time

Superman:
yea I haven't done it either. I wanna sing some michael jackson hits lolz.
what song would u sing? 

Her:
hmmm maybe katy perry or some kesha lol

Superman:
haha I am totally judging you now!

Superman:
all this karaoke talking is getting me pumped up

Her:
lol

Superman:
lets go karaoke!


Her:
yeaaa

Superman:
when do u get back again?

Her:
i live in the area

Superman:
cool, I'll see if some of my friends are around as well and let you know

Her:
ok sounds good!

Superman:
whats the best way to get in touch with you, I'll be away from fbook for while

Her:
text mssg works

Superman:
alright I'll text you, whats your phone

Her:
*** her number ***

Superman:
got my text? (I text her a joke)

Her:
hahhaha yess

Superman:
yes you are going down!
you cheated last time during trivia

Her:
how??

Superman:
lol we can talk about it later. hey I gotta run to the post office before they close at 5, talk to you later
deuces!

Takeaway: Karaoke seems to be a really good day 2 idea. That's the third girl that gave me a number to do karaoke in the last couple of weeks. Interesting!

That's it for now, happy thanksgiving y'all! Get that turkey, and smash that gravy!





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