Superman Returns As A Playboy

“He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you” – Friedrich Nietzsche

Death of a PUA

As I mentioned in my last post, Superman the PUA has died. But I am not talking about a physical death; I am speaking in figurative terms, my consciousness and outlook has graduated to a higher level. I realized that pickup was a stepping stone, but was never the FINAL step. I had always aspired to be a great PUA, being able to cold approach random hot girls and bed them. I always felt that pickup was the ULTIMATE path to dating hot girls. I thought it was far superior to the typical dogmas of just find someone from your mediocre social circle.

Yes, pickup is far superior to hopelessly waiting for a beautiful girl to drop into your lap. Pickup helps you become accountable for your dating life, making you an active participant, rather than a passenger to random chance. But in the last 6 months I have discovered a more PRACTICAL WAY. I have tested the waters with it, and it has come to a point that I can no longer ignore it, and I must chase it with every fervor in my being. In order to do so, I have to graduate from my PUA mindset and take the next step in my glorious journey.

Birth of a Playboy

Porfirio Rubirosa - The Ultimate Playboy

The higher form of consciousness I speak of is that of a Playboy; specifically, the Playboy Lifestyle. I have realized that a PUA is no competition for a Playboy when it comes to dating beautiful women. As a PUA I never grasped, or rather I consciously decided to blank out the fact that a higher level of pussy getting existed. I overlooked the long term mindset, only measuring the time and opportunity cost for the short term mindset I was a slave to, but never doing the same for the long term mindset. As a PUA, I continuously unknowingly invested my time and opportunity cost into options that were not the best strategies. I was misinformed in thinking that the higher forms of pussy getting that do exist, took too much time and effort, and were too hard to reach. This rationalization helped comfort me in my short term mindset, and blanked out the real facts of the long term mindset I was neglecting.

I didn’t have this eureka moment until I had tasted the Playboy Lifestyle and started to apply Game Theory to compare the lifestyle of a PUA to the lifestyle of a Playboy. I’ll go over the critical factors that lead me to this decision, but before I do that, I have to CLEARLY define what a Playboy is.

Defining the Playboy

“The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

A lot of people have a misconception of what a Playboy is, including me prior to this. I have been and continue to do my research and I’m learning a lot about Playboys and their lifestyle.

What is a Playboy?

The Most Interesting Playboy in the World

“A playboy is a modern version of a public Casanova — a man of means with ample time for leisure, who demonstratively appreciates the pleasures of the world.” – Wikipedia

Playboy Entails the Following

• Public Image (Perception/Fame)
• Man of Means (Money)
• Time (Doesn't work 9-to-5)
• Leisure and Pleasures (Seeks Own Happiness)
• World (International Traveler and Cultured)

My Definition of a Playboy

“A sociable man with game, who decides that rather than arbitrarily chasing mediocre women while playing the numbers game, works on living an exquisite lifestyle that attracts an abundance of the caliber of women he loves, and once these women are in his life, uses his charm to conquer them” - Superman

From now on, when I refer to a Playboy, I shall be referring to my definition of a Playboy.

The PUA VS. The Playboy

Before I start, I would like to state that this is not comparing “Apples to Oranges”. These two mindsets can be explicitly compared, on the following basis. They are both viewed as lifestyles that have inputs and outputs. The inputs are represented by time and opportunity cost, and the outputs are represented by the payoffs, quantitatively and qualitatively received from your inputs, and how relative you are to achieving your dreams.

“Your game determines the quantity of girls you get. Your lifestyle determines the quality” – Brad P

My thoughts on both lifestyles; I hate the rating system, but for comparative posts like this, it bodes well.

The PUA Lifestyle

PUA Doing Day Game

• Aspires to consistently date 8s, 9s and 10s (i.e. hot girls)
• Cold approaches as many women as possible, almost a numbers game
• Most 8s, 9s and 10s reject the PUA outright, never CONSISTENTLY gets them
• Settles and has to work uphill to convince women that are average or below for phone numbers, dates, lays, etc. since they are the ones that he has a CONSISTENT success rate with
• If he ever does become good at pickup, he is CONSISTENTLY dating women that are for the most part 7s and gains comfort in OCCASIONALLY getting an 8,9 or 10

The Playboy Lifestyle

Playboy at Play

• Aspires to CONSISTENTLY date 8s, 9s and 10s (i.e. hot girls)
• Builds a lifestyle that surrounds him with as many hot girls as possible
• Most 8, 9s and 10s are drawn to the Playboy’s lifestyle outright, and CONSISTENTLY want to be a part of it
• Doesn't have to settle or convince, has to work downhill for hot women and CONSISTENTLY and EASILY gets phone numbers, dates, lays, etc. since they are drawn to his lifestyle
• If he ever does become a great Playboy, he is CONSISTENTLY dating women that are for the most part 8s, 9s and 10s and gains comfort in RARELY, if ever, having to date anything below an 8

That is my raw and unfiltered take on both lifestyles, and it took me long time to concede those points of the PUA lifestyle. I had to be really honest with myself; Robert Ringer’s theories have been vital in helping me with that.

Theory of Relativity

“In order to settle on a rational course of action (or inaction), one must first weigh all pertinent facts in a relative light and carefully define his terms.” – Robert Ringer

Theory of Relevance

“No matter how true something may be or how much it may please you, the primary factor to take into consideration is how relevant it is to your main objective.” – Robert Ringer

I went over the main objective that made me enter the community. I had come into the pickup world for one sole reason, to bang and date hot girls. However, during the course of my journey, I sacrificed my main objective, values, and lowered my standards. I became a whore, willing to seduce nearly any girl that would want me as a conquest.

Brown Paper Bag

It wasn’t until I was hooking up with a girl I deemed of lower quality, that I saw the reality of the moral code I had broken. Despite her attempts to get me to cum, I could not do so. I stared at the bare naked ass of the girl I abhorred, and the thought of my Big Dick entering her ass repulsed me, to a point that stunned me beyond any means I would have ever imagined. I then made up my mind that I could not be a sacrificial conquest, and decided not to push through the resistance to lay this woman that I reviled. I resorted to picturing my ideal girl, at that time a hot Asian girl, blowing me. I nutted and shot a monstrous load in the loathsome girl’s face in less than a minute.

It was at that time, that I learned that I had to return back to my main objective. I did not enter the game to be laying these types of women, and waiting for the hot girl to occasionally fall in my lap. I made a volitional choice to start aiming high, and pursued the types of women I came into the game for.

Lack of Consistent Quality

One thing that kept on being preached in the community was the myth of quality. Everyone, even the gurus would preach the following tenet.

“No one CONSISTENTLY fucks or dates ONLY hot girls. Anyone telling you that, is bullshitting you” – DJ Fuji and others

I bought this tenet hook, line and sinker. But in the latter days while researching Playboy legends like Hugh Hefner, I saw that this was not the case.

Hugh Hefner CONSISTENTLY fucks and dates ONLY hot girls! As a matter of fact, he fucks 10 of them at the SAME TIME! Twice a week!

I realized there was a contradiction here, and as Ayn Rand says…

“Contradictions do not exist. Whenever you think you are facing a contradiction, check your premises. You will find that one of them is wrong.” – Ayn Rand


What I discovered was that their premise was wrong. What they in fact meant was this:

“No ***PUA*** CONSISTENTLY fucks or dates ONLY hot girls. Any ***PUA*** telling you that, is bullshitting you”

I saw the objective reality of my experiences, and those of the people I had come across in the PUA community. I have witnessed wings tell me they’re in this game to get beautiful women, and see them dropout and settle with women that if you had asked them when they first came into the game if that was the girl they got into this for, they would have emphatically have said no! This thought perplexed me; perhaps there is something I still do not get. Regardless, I will continue to weigh the pertinent facts.


Hugh Hefner VS. The PUA



I will make it known, that I think Tyler of RSD has some SICK GAME! This is by no way a diss of Tyler, it just perfectly illustrates the PUA Lifestyle. I was watching this Tyler infield video, where he just came back from the airport late at night. He then proceeds to head to the club and do cold approaches, and struggles for a while before finally receiving some success. I thought about it, and Tyler is in his 30s.

"At age 70, more than 70 percent of men are still potent!" - Scientific Study

I asked myself do I still want to be doing that when I’m in my 30s, or even later than that. I don’t plan on getting married, so if I’m gonna be banging girls till I’m an old man, that kind of lifestyle is not sustainable. What the hell am I gonna do when I’m in my 40s, 50s and beyond. It’s not going to be practical to be prowling the streets or clubs at the age of 70 trying to pickup young girls. Not that I necessarily want to be pursuing girls at that age, but I would still like to leave that option open in case I decide to do so. Studies show that 70% of men at the age of 70 still have erections. Eventually there comes a point in time, where the PUA Lifestyle is NO LONGER SUSTAINABLE, or PRACTICAL.

This is What I Call Sustainable

I then looked at the Playboy I was trying to emulate, Hugh Hefner. He’s in his 80s, still dating beautiful women and with little effort. His lifestyle is obviously MORE SUSTAINABLE over the long haul. Hugh Hefner in his 80s does better than any PUA guru in the community ever has.

Another vital point I took notice of is this, Hefner is still receiving payments for his hard work in his 80s. In other words, all the hard work he inputted during his 20s and 30s to build Playboy Inc., his penis is still enjoying the payoffs of that input by banging 10 hot girls twice a week, at the old age of 80. On the converse, when I’m in my 80s, the input I put into pickup, specifically cold approaching, during my 20s will not be paid back comparable to that. If I were to continue with the PUA Lifestyle, the most I may be paid back with is perhaps a once-hot girlfriend who now is old, but is maybe a few decades younger than me.

People may be quick to note that Hugh Hefner is a celebrity with status and money. That is the point! If I am to invest an equal amount of inputs of time and opportunity cost into either lifestyles, the rational man would invest more in the Playboy Lifestyle for the higher outputs it produces, sustainability and higher quality payoffs over the long haul.

Let’s Apply Some Game Theory

If I have 10,000 hours to invest to become GREAT, the options boil down to this.

Invest 10,000 hours into pickup to reach a point where I consistently date average girls, with the occasional hottie every now and then. And once I get old, things start to drop off.

Or

Invest 10,000 hours into building a lifestyle like Hugh Hefner where I date nothing but hotties and top quality girls, and the payoffs never subside, even in old age.

In game theory, there is a tenet that says NEVER PLAY A DOMINATED STRATEGY.

Definition: DOMINATED STRATEGY

“A strategy is dominated if, regardless of what any other players do, the strategy earns a player a smaller payoff than some other strategy. Hence, a strategy is dominated if it is always better to play some other strategy, regardless of what opponents may do. So a strictly dominated strategy is a strategy that a player would never choose to play because that player has another strategy that will always yield a higher payoff than the dominated strategy. Assuming that a player is rational we no longer need to consider dominated strategies”

I clearly began to see that the Playboy Lifestyle DOMINATED the PUA Lifestyle. Being the rational man that I am, I made a decision to not focus on inputting a majority of my efforts in a dominated strategy. I decided to play the DOMINANT STRATEGY, and focus on building a lifestyle that will give me a higher payoff till the day I leave this earth.

Superman’s Future

Expanding My Superman Brand

So where does all this lead me to?

As I had previously mentioned at the beginning of the year, pickup, more specifically, cold approach pickup will not be the highest priority in my life. That is not to say I will no longer do it, but rather means it will be an afterthought. So far this year I've been cold approaching about once every 2-3 weeks.

I have given myself a Golden Rule so to speak. For every hour I spend cold approaching, I have to spend at least 2+ hours working on my lifestyle. These hours are accounted for whenever I work on my magazine and modeling agency, meet with models or designers, photo shoots, throw parties with our meetup group, and other things of that nature.

I have focused my efforts into continuing working on my fashion magazine, my modeling agency and other grand ideas we have in store. The sweat equity we have been putting in has been paying off, and we now have enough momentum that we barely have to do little work.

During the last fashion week, we shot a bunch of videos with high value people that will pay forward for us till the rest of the year. The game has gotten even easier because of that. I’ve been meeting up with the sexy girls I met during fashion week, including an exotic Indian model I picked out from the crowd. I grabbed drinks with her and talked about featuring her in my magazine and making her a host. I have a Maxim Magazine swimsuit model I’ll be having a drink with tonight. And that’s not even mentioning the photo shoots and video interviews we just finished doing of two “Miss USA” pageant winners for DC.

“I know of no better life purpose than to perish in attempting the great and the impossible.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

P. Diddy - The Black Playboy

But we aren’t gonna stop there baby! We have our eyes on doing it BIG! Prince P and I have been talking about expanding our magazine nationally, and then internationally.

Picture your boy traveling and doing this modeling and fashion game in NYC, Miami, Las Vegas, LA, London, Paris, Milan, Moscow, Sydney, Tokyo…no limits!

Now that is what I call a Playboy!

Due to the limitations of the pickup community, I have began drawing my inspiration not from PUAs, but from other men I consider Playboys of the 21st century. You already know Hugh Hefner, some others that I will draw inspiration from in helping me build this lifestyle include P. Diddy, The Dos Equis Man and various others.


The Future of the Blog...A Book?

Two Books in the Making

Due to the nature of the stuff I post about, especially the pictures and videos, I have had deep thoughts about posting and sharing the adventures I’ve been partaking in lately. I haven’t been posting as much this year, and that is partially one of the reasons. Another thought I've been thinking about is this, some of the shit I'm doing with my magazine, modeling agency, hacking online game, etc. is so baller, and no one else in the game is doing it, so why in the hell would I give it away for free on my blog...I might just be better off saving it for my book...but then again, I really love my blog and the people that follow me on my journey. These are the thoughts that go through my head. A true dilemma...Playboy dilemma.

The plan right now is to turn this blog into a book. I'm not just talking about a fuckin' PUA ebook, I'm talking about a motherfuckin' book on the same level as "The Game". That has been my plan from the onset, all the way back to my first ever post on this blog. Some cats would wonder why the hell my field reports were so fuckin' long and analytical. That's because I wasn't just writing a normal FR, I was writing a fuckin' piece of my book. I was thinking long term!

I'm still far from finishing my journey to a point that I would be satisfied with the book, but just wanted my readers to know. I already have two books in mind, one will be about my adventures, pretty much field reports, that one will be the solely-pickup based book. Think Tucker Max, only more strategic and technical.

The second one will be a book of grandeur proportions. It will be my system, philosophy and mindset towards a rational life. Encompassing everything I partook on in this journey, but not from the mindset of a PUA, but from the mindset of a Rational Playboy. It will encompass what I deem to be the fundamentals of life, how to hack reality, 7 sources of pussy, etc. Those are the chapters I have outlined, but it is still a far away process.

No One Will Intimidate Me

Weight of People That Will Have Issues With My Blog

While talking to Prince P he said, “Don’t fuck this up for me” in regards to sharing the stuff we’re doing on our blog and having people in the fashion industry find out.

I also think some of the women in the fashion industry probably already found out about my blog, which makes me think twice about things.

Theory of Intimidation

“The results a person achieves are inversely proportionate to the degree to which he is intimidated.” – Robert Ringer

But in the end, I cannot let people intimidate me into taking a choice of action that I do not want, nor believe in. I write my blog for my own personal reasons, reasons that are selfish in nature.

I am solely responsible for my own self-interests and will not let anyone, whether a wing, or women stop me from pursuing those interests. If some people in the industry don’t like my blog, then they can suck a dick! I don’t need them to achieve my happiness.

I’ll end this post by sharing the wisdom of John Galt that guides me:

“In the name of the best within you, do not sacrifice this world to those who are its worst. In the name of the values that keep you alive, do not let your vision of man be distorted by the ugly, the cowardly, the mindless in those who have never achieved his title. Do not lose your knowledge that man’s proper estate is an upright posture, an intransigent mind and a step that travels unlimited roads. Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won, it exists, it is real, it is possible, it’s yours.


But to win it requires your total dedication and a total break with the world of your past, with the doctrine that man is a sacrificial animal who exists for the pleasure of others. Fight for the value of your person. Fight for the virtue of your pride. Fight for the essence of that which is man: for his sovereign rational mind. Fight with the radiant certainty and the absolute rectitude of knowing that yours is the Morality of Life and that yours is the battle for any achievement, any value, any grandeur, any goodness, any joy that has ever existed on this earth."


“You will win when you are ready to pronounce the oath I have taken at the start of my battle-and for those who wish to know the day of my return, I shall now repeat it to the hearing of the world:


“I swear-by my life and my love of it-that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.”

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How Science Helps Us Be More Rational About Morality

From Psychology Today: How Science Can Help Us Be More Rational About Morality

Excerpt:


Alexander notes that people strive for goals that would have promoted their individual genetic fitness (survival and reproduction) in ancestral environments, and that an important way in which they do so is by cooperating in groups of people with whom they share common interests. By cooperating in groups, individuals can achieve their goals better than they could by acting alone, so it's in the individual's interest to cooperate. (Cooperation also presents individuals with dilemmas like the "free rider problem", but we can leave these aside for now). While cooperating in groups, people use moral rules in order to influence the behavior of group members in ways that will promote group success. This, Alexander argues, is a primary evolved function of moral rule-making: it enables individuals to more effectively pursue the interests they share with others in their group. For example, if people are cooperatively building a dam to protect their village from a flood, they might use rules like "all adult villagers should work on the dam for a minimum of X hours per day", "those who contribute above this minimum should be honoured", and "those who contribute below this minimum should be shunned". (Note that the promotion of shared interests is not the only evolved function of moralizing. Another important function is to signal to other people--honestly or not--that you have an altruistic or otherwise upstanding disposition. But that's a topic for another post).

If people use moral rules to better pursue their group interests, then it starts to become clear why Harris' proposal--that rational morality ought to promote the well-being of conscious creatures--will not generally apply. People use morality to pursue their own coalitional interests, not the interests of people in general, let alone conscious life in general. From this perspective, people judge the rationality of a moral rule not by how much it benefits conscious beings, but by how much it benefits their interest group. Now sometimes, the interests of the group may overlap with those of conscious creatures in general. For example, building the dam mentioned above would not obviously harm any conscious entity, and it would benefit the villagers, so it would seem consistent with the goal of promoting the welfare of conscious life. Another example where group interests overlap with those of conscious beings in general would be a group's effort to eradicate a disease like smallpox. However, situations such as these--where everybody has an interest in the same goal, and nobody has an interest in a conflicting goal--do not pose moral dilemmas, because they don't involve conflicts of interest between competing human coalitions.

In situations that do involve coalitional conflict, moral dilemmas cannot be solved by applying the "welfare of conscious creatures" rule. A primary reason why people cooperate in groups is so that they can compete more effectively against external groups, and moral disputes tend to arise out of these coalitional conflicts. In these contexts, you can't resolve moral debates by identifying the solution that would benefit all conscious beings, not only because this will often be difficult if not impossible, but also because that's not the goal that either side in the conflict will actually be fighting for. Consider, for instance, a conflict between loggers and hikers about whether the loggers should be allowed to cut down trees in a particular forest. The hikers might argue that this deforestation is morally wrong because it would deprive families of opportunities to enjoy nature, whereas the loggers might argue that it is morally good because it would create jobs for the support of families. Even if identifying the solution most beneficial to conscious life were possible in this situation, it wouldn't be the goal that either coalition would really be seeking. The loggers would be seeking the solution that most benefited loggers, and the hikers would be seeking the solution that most benefited hikers.


Read the full article here: How Science Can Help Us Be More Rational About Morality


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Sex and Morality (Francisco D’Anconia’s Speech)

"Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy on life" - Francisco D'Anconia

Before reading this post, I want you to visualize your ideal woman. The woman that most turns you on...in my case it would be Japanese and Russian women.

Then read this speech to see what that says about your philosophy on life.

From Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand

“Do you remember what I said about money and about the men who seek to reverse the law of cause and effect? The men who try to replace the mind by seizing the products of the mind? Well, the man who despises himself tries to gain self- esteem from sexual adventures–which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value.”

“You’d better explain that.”

“Did it ever occur to you that it’s the same issue? The men who think that wealth comes from the material resources and has no intellectual root or meaning, are the men who think–for the same reason–that sex is a physical capacity which functions independently of ones mind, choice or code of values. They think that your body creates a desire and makes a choice for you just about in some such way as if iron ore transformed itself into railroad rails of its own volition. Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a man’s sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions. Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy on life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself. No matter what corruption he’s taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which he cannot perform for any motive but his own enjoyment–just try to think of performing it in a spirit of selfless charity!–an act which is not possible in self-abasement, only in self-exaltation, only in confidence of being desired and being worthy of desire. It is an act that forces him to stand naked in spirit, as well as in body, and to accept his real ego as his standard of value. He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience–or to fake–a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer — because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut. He does not seek to . . . what’s the matter?” he asked, seeing the look on Rearden’s face, a look of intensity much beyond mere interest in an abstract discussion.

“Go on,” said Rearden tensely.

“He does not seek to gain his value, he seeks to express it. There is no conflict between the standards of his mind and the desires of his body. But the man who is convinced of his own worthlessness will be drawn to a woman he despises–because she will reflect his own secret self, she will release him from that objective reality in which he is a fraud, she will give him a momentary illusion of his own value and a momentary escape from the moral code that damns him. Observe the ugly mess which most men make of their sex lives–and observe the mess of contradictions which they hold as their moral philosophy. One proceeds from the other. Love is our response to our highest values–and can be nothing else. Let a man corrupt his values and his view of existence, let him profess that love is not self-enjoyment but self-denial, that virtue consists, not of pride, but of pity or pain or weakness or sacrifice, that the noblest love is born, not of admiration, but of charity, not in response to values, but in response to flaws–and he will have cut himself in two. His body will not obey him, it will not respond, it will make him impotent toward the woman he professes to love and draw him to the lowest type of whore he can find. His body will always follow the ultimate logic of his deepest convictions; if he believes that flaws are values, he has damned existence as evil and only the evil will attract him. He has damned himself and he will feel that depravity is all he is worthy of enjoying. He has equated virtue with pain and he will feel that vice is the only realm of pleasure. Then he will scream that his body has vicious desires of its own which his mind cannot conquer, that sex is sin, that true love is a pure emotion of the spirit. And then he will wonder why love brings him nothing but boredom, and sex–nothing but shame.”

Rearden said slowly, looking off, not realizing that he was thinking aloud, “At least . . . I’ve never accepted that other tenet . . . I’ve never felt guilty about making money.”

Francisco missed the significance of the first two words; he smiled and said eagerly, “You do see that it’s the same issue? No, you’d never accept any part of their vicious creed. You wouldn’t be able to force it upon yourself. If you tried to damn sex as evil, you’d still find yourself, against your will, acting on the proper moral premise. You’d be attracted to the highest woman you met. You’d always want a heroine. You’d be incapable of self-contempt. You’d be unable to believe that existence is evil and that you’re a helpless creature caught in an impossible universe. You’re the man who’s spent his life shaping matter to the purpose of his mind. You’re the man who would know that just as an idea unexpressed in physical action is contemptible hypocrisy, so is platonic love–and just as physical action unguided by an idea is a fool’s self-fraud, so is sex when cut off from one’s code of values. Its’ the same issue, and you would know it. Your inviolate sense of self-esteem would know it. You would be incapable of desire for a woman you despised. Only the man who extols the purity of a love devoid of desire, is capable of the depravity of a desire devoid of love. But observe that most people are creatures cut in half who keep swinging desperately to one side or to the other. One kind of half is the man who despises money, factories, skyscrapers and his own body. He holds undefined emotions about non-conceivable subjects as the meaning of life and his claim of virtue. And he cries with despair, because he can feel nothing for the woman he respects, but finds himself in bondage to an irresistible passion for a slut from the gutter. He is the man whom people call an idealist. The other kind of half is the man whom people call practical, the man who despises principles, abstractions, art, philosophy and his own mind. He regards the acquisition of material objects as the only goal of existence– and he laughs at the need to consider their purpose or their source. He expects them to give him pleasure– and he wonders why the more he gets, the less he feels. He is the man who spends his time chasing women. Observe the triple fraud which he perpetrates upon himself. He will not acknowledge his need of self-esteem, since he scoffs at such a concept as moral values; yet he feels the profound self-contempt which comes from believing that he is a piece of meat. He will not acknowledge, but he knows that sex is the physical expression of a tribute to personal values. So he tries, by going through the motions of the effect, to acquire that which should have been the cause. He tries to gain a sense of his own value from the women who surrender to him– and he forgets that the women he picks have neither character nor judgment nor standard of value. He tells himself that all he’s after is physical pleasure– but observe that he tires of his woman in a week or a night, that he despises professional whores and that he loves to imagine he is seducing virtuous girls who make a great exception for his sake. It is the feeling of achievement that he seeks and never finds. What glory can there be in the conquest of a mindless body? Now that is your woman chaser. Does the description fit me?

“God, no!”

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Scouting for Virtual Offices

Awesome quote right here, courtesy of Kanye. This captures the ultimate goal of the Playboy Lifestyle Game I'm working on.

"Bullet proof condom when I’m in these hoes
Got staples on my dick (why?) fuckin’ centerfolds
And I swear to God they so cold
Got a nigga in Miami wearin' winter clothes" - Kanye West

Haha, straight fire! On to the post.





Asian Happy Hour

Went to an Asian happy hour with my fellow BBC wing John Panam, and the organizer douche was mean muggin' us the entire time, since we were two black dudes, and I always stiff him whenever they ask us for donations at the door. 

Keeping it short, only notable thing was escalating fast on this Half-Asian broad to a point I didn't know what to do since things happened so fast. Opened her by asking about her elephant necklace, did a cold read about her having traveled to India, and was spot on. She was immediately in a trance, went deeper by mentioning Japan, and she had been there too. I tell her she's awesome, and link arms with her. Next thing you know we're locked arm-in-arm and she's giving me the doggy dinner bowl look.

I can tell she's ready to be kissed, and all of this happened in less than a minute. The sexual tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife. This was some 60 YoC type shit, escalating right from the opener. But I proceeded to fuck up. I felt like it was too fast to makeout with her, especially in front of everyone. I also felt it was too early to isolate, I was talking to her for less than a minute. 

The BBC Crew Broadcasting Live!

I start spinning wheels, and kill the sexual tension by going back to regular talk. Some Asian dude comes up to her and asks her what the hell she's doing haha. I think he was some chode that brought her there trying to make a move on her or w/e, I turn around and let them talk, and pretend to be busy with my phone. The chode leaves and we go back to talking.

I talk to her for a while, but eventually some other guy gets into a conversation with her. I was a pussy and didn't go back in there to claim the prize I had earned. FML!

Takeaway: It's never too early to escalate or isolate. I should know this since I got a 10 second insta-date a while back, the proof is in the pudding. If I'm not comfortable making out with a girl in front of her friends, it means I should isolate her away. But in order to do that, I should know my isolation spots before I start talking to girls.

Scouting for Virtual Offices

After doing the modeling photo shoots and interviews for a while, I figured that I need to get legit offices. I'm loosing a lot of models because they smell bullshit when I tell them to meet me in a coffee shop or a public place for the shoots. I know if we had legit offices, our credibility and posture would be on a whole different level.

Being of a follower of the rational author and businessman Robert Ringer's Theories, I take his "Posture Theory" to heart:

"It’s not what you say or do that counts, but what your posture is when you say or do it" - Robert Ringer

One thing I've been great at so far has been posturing my model game to be more credible. I dress up in suits, Prince P has a corvette, getting real photographers and designers, all the shit has been on point. But I can't stop there, gotta keep on pushing things to new levels. I think getting offices will do just that. The only problem is we don't have money to throw into this lifestyle game, we want to do it by spending as little money as possible.

Peep this:

I do some research, and find out that you can rent offices by the hour, they call it "Virtual Offices". I am floored...you mean to tell me I can rent out swag and posture by the hour. Yes sir!!! I'm in.

I find a place with virtual offices for a reasonable amount of $165 on K Street. For those who don't know, K Street is infamous as the street where all the top lobbying firms and lawyers in DC reside. It's less than 5 blocks from Obama in the White house, the world bank and the IFC. Talk about swag!!! I am thrilled at the potential. Here's what the price gets us according to their site.

This plan includes all the fundamental components to have fully functional office support. Your phones will be answered by our courteous receptionists, we collect and sort your mail and you have prepaid access to sixteen hours of conference and meeting rooms per month, with additional hours available and billed at month's end. You have access to all the office equipment which includes fax, copiers, mail machines and computers. Evening and weekend use is also available.

I decide to check it out the very next day. The video at the beginning of this post is of me being given a tour of the facilities. After taking a tour of the facilities, I am impressed for the most part, but have to now deal with the issue of money. They have cheaper packages, that start at $55 for five hours of using the virtual offices. I spoke with Prince P and Mr. Hurgle about it, and they're interested. Going to seriously consider this, perhaps for our next porn casting call haha.

International Happy Hour

I head to another couch surfing happy hour, and this time do better than last time. Last week I did well, but didn't bother getting any girls numbers. This time I did, got a three numbers and got a lot of practice in. I've noticed the last couple of weeks, my breaking rapport, or flirting if you wanna call it that, has gotten really good. I've also been doing a lot of sexual tension shit, did some more of that this week. Kudos to Dave for giving me some pointers on being physical, such as playfully punching girls. It's been working well with my style.

Just need to remember to isolate and keep on progressing the interactions, will make that my goal for next time. Didn't bother recording any video since I almost got busted last time and have yet to figure out a way to hide the flashing lights on my gum camera when in bars.

Peruvian Broad

There was this Peruvian broad that I number closed from a couch surfing language group. She flaked when I invited her for a happy hour, I deleted her number. I meet her again a few weeks later and she's surprised that I deleted her number. I get it again and invite her out, she shows up this time, but isn't down for the cause when I try to bounce her to another bar, we leave without her. 

She chats to me on facebook, and we plan to go biking together. I flake on her b/c I was doing a porn casting call haha. I invite her out for salsa a while later, she flakes but chats to me on facebook. I see her randomly on the street with another cute Peruvian friend of hers when I'm out with Dave. We bounce them to a bar for drinks and chill for a bit. I talk to her cute friend and eventually they have to go. I invite her out for our happy hour a few days later, she doesn't even bother responding to my text. I delete her number again since I see that she has never been down for the cause, and is merely leeching me for my social value whenever she wants to. 

I'm in the process of finishing Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged, and have been re-evaluating my moral code. One of the principles I have not been living up to is only interacting with women who live up to my standards of value.


One of the values I despise are time wasters, aka the "may be" girls.  I understand that women will be flaky till the end of time, but what I refuse to tolerate are the women who do not even bother to let you know that they won't be able to make it, or reschedule, they go cold on your phone calls or texts. 

If a woman is truly interested, she will have the courtesy of responding to let you know she can't make it, if she doesn't she will learn otherwise. Tit for tat, I am merely conditioning the women that I interact with that if they deal with me in a manner I value, they will be rewarded with my interest, if they do not, they will receive no interest.

So fast forward, a few weeks later I get a text from some random broad asking where we're hosting salsa lessons. I find out it's the Peruvian girl, and ignore her texts. Later at night she sends me chats on facebook surprised that I deleted her number again, I ignore her ass. I do not need to deal with this shit, I'm fuckin' having drinks with swimsuit models that kiss my ass, I don't need mediocre girls wasting my time if they're not down for the cause as Solo says.

I'm done with her, and hand her off to Prince P, who has been sweating her for a while. I already knew he was trying to setup a date with her behind my back, but now that I'm done with her, we put shit in the open and he can have her.

Peruvian Broad's Friend on Facebook

Ironically, one of the reasons I didn't care for the Peruvian broad was that I was try to switch up, and make a move on her friend. She was more "Americanized" and I was peeping some interest on her part. While talking to Prince P on the phone, whose telling me that he's meeting with the girl I ditched that week to help her with finding a job, I'm chatting to her friend on facebook. Here's the chat log:

Superman:

salsa today!!!

you should join us!

Her:

hola! i cant today 

rain check for next week

Superman:

cool

hows life

Her:

have fun tonight!

life is good, can't complain

how have you been?

Superman:

amazing!

partying a lot, saving the world

Her:

niiice

hahahha great motto to live by

Superman:

yea, what are you up to for thanksgiving

Her:

spending it with the fam. and working black friday 

Superman:

haha. I'm ready to get some deals

you should live it up

Her:

are you going shopping at 5am?

Superman:

nope, online on my couch lolz

amazon.com

Her:

perfect

avoid the crowd

Superman:

did you tango yet?

Her:

i went to check it out, but did not take the class

Superman:

we're planning on doing more dancing events. tango, and also looking into karaoke 

Her:

both would be super fun

Superman:

no way! you karaoke???

Her:

i havnt, but i want too

i hear its such a fun time

Superman:

yea I haven't done it either. I wanna sing some michael jackson hits lolz.

what song would u sing? 

Her:

hmmm maybe katy perry or some kesha lol

Superman:

haha I am totally judging you now!

Superman:

all this karaoke talking is getting me pumped up

Her:

lol

Superman:

lets go karaoke!

Her:

yeaaa

Superman:

when do u get back again?

Her:

i live in the area

Superman:

cool, I'll see if some of my friends are around as well and let you know

Her:

ok sounds good!

Superman:

whats the best way to get in touch with you, I'll be away from fbook for while

Her:

text mssg works

Superman:

alright I'll text you, whats your phone

Her:

*** her number ***

Superman:

got my text? (I text her a joke)

Her:

hahhaha yess

Superman:

yes you are going down!

you cheated last time during trivia

Her:

how??

Superman:

lol we can talk about it later. hey I gotta run to the post office before they close at 5, talk to you later

deuces!

Takeaway: Karaoke seems to be a really good day 2 idea. That's the third girl that gave me a number to do karaoke in the last couple of weeks. Interesting!

That's it for now, happy thanksgiving y'all! Get that turkey, and smash that gravy!





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