Swimsuit Models and Reality TV

“They sayin’ the sky is the limit. How bitch? I’m moon-walking!” – Big Sean

Quick Update

Alright, I know this write up is coming late, but this is my last field report from 2011. Heck, it’s gonna be my last field report write up for a long ass time.  I’m no longer in DC, done with grad school and won’t be writing field reports for a while. No, the broad that wanted to sue me for posting an infield video hasn’t intimated me from posting; I will still be working on my lifestyle game. As a matter of fact, I am looking into buying my very own DSLR camera in 2012, that way I can cut out all the photographers and finna do it BIG by myself.

This post will be a great summation of the lifestyle I have been working on, and where I plan to take it in the future. Since it is my last post from 2011 and I have been receiving a lot of questions as to how I’ve been running and operating things, I will do an INTENSE break down of everything entailed in setting this up. So if you are one of the people who have been asking me about starting your own fashion magazine or modeling agency, this is the post you should read.

Let’s get it!

Background

For those who haven’t been following my lifestyle game, let me get you caught up to speed.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants” – Isaac Newton

I started a fashion magazine with two wings after being inspired by a post on the Roosh V forum. In essence, it’s a simple wordpress blog with a magazine theme template where we post images and videos of us at local fashion events. One of my wings, Psykat is a professional videographer so the video we were shooting was high quality and made us look legit! I am a smooth talker and was responsible for recruiting the models. And last, Prince P had a corvette convertible, which came in handy for the photo shoots we hosted and he would buy drinks and snacks for the shoots.

"Hell, there are no rules here - we're trying to accomplish something" – Thomas Edison

So I hit the ground running, with nothing but my rational self-interest in building a lifestyle and social circle filled with models. I threw all the rules out the window. If you play by the rules, your results will only be as good as the rules let you be. If you play with no rules, the universe becomes your oyster, the possibilities are endless.

I Am Modeling the Best

I have learned that whenever I want to do something new, the fastest way to shortcut the matrix is to find someone who has already done it and follow C.P.M., which stands for Copy, Paste and Modify. Whoever has already done it has gone through most of the trials and errors and has probably spent lots of $$$ in refining the systems. So I steal whatever he’s done and build from there. In my case I used Hugh Hefner of Playboy as the role model of the lifestyle I was aiming at, including stealing some things from him.

Fast-forward…After being banned from craigslist, where I used to post casting call ads for my magazine’s photo shoots, I decide to graduate to the big leagues and join a model specific site to post my casting calls. It’s not model mayhem or one model place, this one is free and is friendly to casting directors.  What makes it even more awesome, some of the models on there pay $50 a month for premium membership and first dibs in being contacted by self-proclaimed casting directors like yours truly. This means some of the models on there are HEAVILY INVESTED and less likely to flake when I send them my casting calls since they’re paying to get first dibs. We call that FLIPPING THE SCRIPT.

I setup a personal profile as a casting director and put up my first ever casting call ad that I’ve refined over the course of 4 previous photo shoots. In scientific terms, it has EVOLVED through trial and error to become as optimum as possible in reeling in models and making sure they show up to my shoots. Even the follow up messages I send have been tested and scrutinized with excruciating detail as well as copied, pasted and modified from some of Playboys very own casting calls. Word!

Fast-forward, my inbox is flooded with 50+ models sending me emails attached with their photos and phone numbers saying they’re so eager to work with me. We filter out the ones we like and hold one-on-one interviews with the one’s we like, either in a bar or Starbucks, where we interview and ineffectively try to hit on them.

Almost No Shoot

Fast-forward, so the year is wrapping up and I had just finished doing the model interviews and was wondering to myself. Wednesday would be my last day in DC, and I have all these new models from the new site and haven’t yet done a photo shoot with any of them.

The thing that was holding everything back was finding a venue. We normally hold the shoots in a public location but I had planned to make things sexier by making the last shoot a “swimsuit/lingerie” shoot. I couldn’t host that outside because of the cold weather and pervs that would intrude and leer at the models.

After mass texting a bunch of girls in my phone asking about a venue, a girl that I met during fashion week months back and had been to one of our photo shoots says we can use the lounge in her apartment complex. I head there to check it out with Dave, and it is a dream come true.

The Perfect Venue

If I could have envisioned a perfect place for a shoot this would have been it, it was a legitimate lounge. It was decked out with a bar, pool table, xbox 360 and kinect, 4 flat screen TVs, a private lounge inside and a music system throughout the entire place. I laughed and reminisced in the futile venues we had used in the past. I knew I was officially graduating to the big leagues.

Logistics

I arrived there with my wing and talent assistant, Mr. Hurgle. Every detail was planned out, including the ratio of guys to girls. No guys would be there unless they had a specific purpose.

Guys:

1 – Me (Talent Director) – I ran the whole thing and told the models what we were doing.

2 – Mr. Hurgle (Videographer and Assistant) – I needed an assistant to add to my posture, the more people you have working under you, the more important you look. In addition, Mr. Hurgle has a video camera and I wanted to capture the whole thing on video. The video footage we took ended up being pathetic because he’s camera was a piece of shit.

I have been going through photographers like condoms during these shoots. The first photographer, also our wing and partner in the magazine, was uptight when it came to shooting and us being unprofessional with trying to flirt with the models. He was more concerned with the “professionalism” of the magazine, and we were more concerned with trying to bang the models. So there was a conflict of interest. He pulled a fast one on us by trying to cancel a shoot because we didn’t have an ideal venue.

Always planning a few chess moves ahead, I had a backup photographer in tow, an Indian friend of mine from school, so we ended up using him. He was a lot easier to work with and did everything we told him to. However, he was a dick in sending us the pictures and videos at a reasonable time. Before the shoot he was eager and friendly, then after he’s done shooting our models, he acted like I didn’t exist and I had to pester him for the pictures and video.  So by principle, I didn’t let him shoot the next shoot and moved on.

3 – Prince P (Photographer) – We needed a photographer and Prince P had just bought a DSLR camera. I decided to invite him as the main photographer, however after mulling it over, I remembered that Prince P is reliably unreliable when it comes to showing up to photo shoots on time. I needed to have a backup. Once again, always planning a few chess moves ahead, I had been talking to a photographer from the dc lair on twitter, and had told him to be on standby. The day of the shoot comes, and as suspected, I end up moving him up to main photographer. Good thing I prepared and had a backup otherwise we would have had a repeat of the last shoot, and have waited over an hour for a photographer to show up.

4 – Sheeno (Photographer) – Our initial backup, later moved up to main photographer, played the part well considering I invited him last minute.

5 -  PTR (Snacks and Wine) – A wing of mine, I told him he could come as long as he brought girls or food and drinks. One thing these photo shoots need is alcohol, it loosens everybody up. A shoot without alcohol is doomed to fail. We always go with $3 wines, it’s cheap and still gives us the posture of appearing classy.

Girls:

8 Models – I had 10 models confirm for the shoot, and 8 showed up. As always, they will always be flakes for every photo shoot. This was the lowest percentage to flake out of all the shoots, and I attribute it to the new modeling site I was recruiting from, my highly refined follow up messages and doing the one-on-one interviews.

2 Girls – The hot girl lending us the venue was there, as well as a photographer girl I met at Mad Hatters during a fashion event. I invited her to help out; she played the photographer’s assistant, and was responsible for telling the models what poses to strike. Having her there was more valuable than I could have imagined! The pre-selection she gave us was insane compared to our previous shoots. The models felt comfortable having a girl tell them what sexy poses to strike. This completely removed the creepy photographer stereotype that we’ve run into in the past and were trying to avoid.

Game Time

So it’s Wednesday 6pm, game time rolls around, and the models start arriving. My phone starts blowing up with more than 3 models trying to call me at the same time. I have to put each one on hold to talk the other one. I start picking them up from the lobby and bringing them to the lounge. I had borrowed from Playboy’s casting calls, and told all the models to bring evening dresses and high heels. So during the course of an hour, the clerk at the lobby sees me go up and down the elevator bringing in hot girls wearing dresses and high heels and wonders what I’m up to. She’s cool with it and I extend the invitation for her to come to our shoot. Fast-forward an hour later and we have 8 models ready to shoot.

I lost two models on the way, I forgot to pick one up from the lobby since I was so busy and she left, and another claimed she couldn’t find the place so she left after waiting. She called me to bitch to me about not being able to find the place and said she would be leaving. I simply told her “Okay, take care”. She was speechless; she thought I was going to beg her to stay. I was in ultimate abundance; I had 8 models upstairs waiting for me, I could care less if she left.

Warming Up

Getting Warmer

I instruct the girls to start out by doing individual shoots with the photographer and his assistant in the private lounge. I make small talk with the rest of the models while they’re waiting in the main lounge. I was trying to be cheeky, or rather, break rapport and loosen things up, but was too buttoned up and in professional mode.

The good thing, Mr. Hurgle had no problem doing that. He loosened things up a bit and was joking with the models. The music we had playing in the background definitely helped with that. We shoot for about an hour.

After an hour and a half, I laugh and tell Mr. Hurgle and Prince P we’re going to start the swimsuit shoot next. I tell the models to change into their bikinis or lingerie and meet us in the private lounge. About 15 minutes later they start rolling in and we get to shooting.

Heating Up

On Fire!!!

This was definitely more fun and sexier than the previous shoots. I wondered to myself, why the hell did I wait so long to do this. I guess it just took being more confident in pulling it off, as AFC Adam says, “Confidence comes with competence”. Now that I’ve done a swimsuit photo shoot, I don’t think I could ever go back to a regular shoot. The only way to go is up, by stepping it up to nude shoots…maybe that will be the plan for 2012.

In between the shoot I was flirting and trying to make moves on some models, but I appeared to be doing better with the married hot girl that let us use the venue. Some of the models had husbands or boyfriends, so I had written them off since it would be harder, and I had my eyes on two girls, a short snow bunny and a juicy black girl that is bound to end up in KING Magazine with a body like hers. Since I interviewed them one-on-one weeks earlier, it was easier to start flirting with them. There was an already established “Comfort” between us.

Since the shoot was on a Wednesday night, some of the models I interviewed couldn’t make iIt, so I had invited two models at the last minute that I did not interview. I noticed it was harder for them to fit in with the rest of the models, as well as for me to hit on them. We had not established any “Comfort” before the shoot, so they were still getting situated into everything; they kind of had the deer in the headlights look.

There was definitely something going on between me and the married hot girl. She’s really into fashion and with me running a fashion magazine and prancing around her lounge with swimsuit models in my fancy clothing and tie must have been flipping a million attraction switches. Her husband was supposedly coming to the shoot but her never showed up, he was late or something. I would just banter with her and resisted from trying to hit on her. I did not want to fuck up a good thing; having her let us use the lounge now, and possibly for future shoots, was worth too much to cough up.

Poppin' Bottles

Stay Thirsty My Friends

The Most Interesting Men in the World

PTR eventually arrives with the food and wine, although over an hour late. We wrap up shooting and start to pop the wine bottles. We pour each model a glass of wine and toast to our magazine. Things became more loosened up once the wine started going around, including myself. I needed it the most, I normally don’t use alcohol as a crutch, but in this case I was. Trying to appear professional in directing the photo shoot as well as flirt with models was a hard task for me.

Mr. Hurgle had no issues and was just being his normal crazy self. He fared best out of all of us. During the shoot he dragged the model he was going for outside to the bushes were something happened, but I don’t know exactly what haha. He ended up being driven home by her.

Since it was a Wednesday night and some models had to work tomorrow, some models start leaving. We chill out and party with the rest for a while, and proceed to start hitting on them, with wine acting as the excuse for our behavior. The short model I was going for ended up having to leave because her mom was waiting outside to drive her home.

We end up wrapping up and start to clean up. All in, I can say I had a lot of fun. Definitely the most fun thing I did in 2011, and a good way to end the year. If we stuck to a routine of doing these swimsuit-shoots every 2-3 weeks, like we had set out before, this would absolutely be a brilliant way to build a lifestyle filled with beautiful women.  I have experienced how Hugh Hefner lives and I can say, once you do, it’s hard for you to go back.

I’m taking a short break from the game, but plan to return and continue with building the Playboy lifestyle, and finna do it BIG! This time when I return, I expect to have my own crib, so the expectations will be huge.


Reality TV Show Offer?!?!

So I received a voicemail from some lady saying something about my fashion magazine, and since I’m a Black guy doing it BIG, she was asking if I wanted to appear on a reality TV show for TV One. It’s a lifestyle and entertainment channel for Black people with it's headquarters in Maryland.

Although I would have loved the posture, credibility and swag it would give me in building my Playboy Lifestyle, I am not in the stage where I can or want to be on a reality TV show right now. I chose not to take the offer…maybe down the line I might reconsider it.

But it did reaffirm the hustle I have been putting into this shit. Last year, I declared 2011 "The Year of the Blow Up!" Having a girl find my infield video, ending 2011 partying with swimsuit models and receiving an offer to be on a reality TV show I think qualifies as blowing up. I’m gonna keep it moving in 2012.

I’m thinking of calling 2012 “The Year of the Hustle!”

My next post will be an infield tribute to 2011 and wrapping up the year. Until then...

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AFC Adam Lyons Bootcamp Review

I took Adam Lyon's Washington DC Bootcamp on September 16-18th, 2011. I wanted to wait for a while, after the bootcamp high effect was over and I had applied what I learned for a few months before posting a review.

Well the long awaited review is officially here. Let's first start with the background story.

Background

I was practicing game for a while, about 2 years, and Adam Lyon’s game system for the last 1 year before taking a bootcamp with him. I had learned about Adam from a talk he did for the Washington DC lair a year ago. I was by no means a newbie, I had done about 1-2,000+ cold approaches prior to taking his bootcamp. I would have classified myself as intermediate.

Although I wasn’t a beginner, I still had a lot of sticking points and had reached a plateau that was stopping me from taking my game to the next level. Specifically I had a flaking issue, I would accumulate a lot of numbers and a low percentage of the girls would meet up with me. The girls that did meet up with me, most of them would not want to meet up a second time.

After studying Adam’s home-study course for a year, I was disappointed with the results. Although it helped me achieve some spectacular things, overall I felt like I was not where I had hoped to be. I started to question his system. Being entrenched in the pickup community, I would receive word from other people, some who I respected because of their ability to pick up women, who told me Adam’s system for meeting women through cold approach was not good or optimal.

Despite being a long time follower of Adam, I began to blame him for the lack of success I was receiving. I felt cheated and wronged and decided to let him know when he posted an infield YouTube video about direct game that I felt would just lead to a flaky number.

"This is complete bullshit! So what, he got a flaky phone number. Any body whose been doing day game for a while can do that. The question is what happens after that" 

"I'm honestly disappointed in you Adam. I'm starting to see you for the phony you are. Sure you may get laid like a rockstar, but not from day game"

To my surprise, Adam responded to my criticisms of his teachings by posting a video for me a week later specifically dealing with the issue I had with the last video, a video that I couldn’t argue with.

Despite the prior flame war from the first video, I was surprised when Adam reached out to me through my blog by personally emailing me. We exchanged emails back and forth and I confided in him in the plateau I had reached while studying his home-study course. I told him I realized that I would not be able to get past this plateau from just reading an ebook, listening to an audiobook and cold approaching on my own. I told him I was in school and didn’t have much money, but was willing to find a way. Adam was able to make a special arrangement to have me join the Washington DC bootcamp that would be coming to my area a couple of months in the future. I was shocked at the genuine interest he showed, despite me having dogged him a few weeks earlier. It truly is a testament to his character; he really wants to see his students become great at meeting and picking up women.

Friday

Introduction

I showed up to the bootcamp ecstatic like a kid on his first day in school. I brought my pickup notebook and pen, ready to soak in the game from one of the best pickup artists in the world.

From the moment Adam walked in with his instructors, I could tell he was the real deal; he had that rock star aura. One thing I’ve noticed from being in the game for a while is that most of the guys, who are incredibly good with women, whether they are world class PUA gurus or super naturals, are they have insane rock star aura, also known as charisma. Their body language is so dialed down that it simply makes people gravitate to them. I think it comes from the massive experience they have from cold approaching and interacting with thousands of women.

Seminar

We went through the first day material and I took notes throughout. He properly covered the initial fundamentals, from body language, how to properly open, build commonalities and number close. I appreciated the demonstrations on body language and building commonalities that he did. Right off the bat, he specifically addressed why few girls were meeting up with me. It had something to do with congruence and I would learn how to adequately fix that throughout the bootcamp.

He also covered how to create a lifestyle with the type of women I want to meet, by having commonalities attractive to them.

No Sugar Coating...I'm Here to Learn to Pickup Hot Girls

Another thing I appreciated with the bootcamp right off the bat, was the blunt honesty with why we were there. I was there to learn how to pickup hot girls. There were no disingenuous remarks as to why we were there. They did not try to pretend that we were there to work on things that were irrelevant to our main objective. No impractical inner game or becoming a better person fluff speeches and sugar coating, just hardcore, practical and immediately applicable lectures on how to pickup hot girls.

Saturday

Seminar

The material we covered on Friday was just the tip of the iceberg. On Saturday we delved deeper into the meat of the bootcamp. One of the instructors, Alex, gave a talk on what attraction is. I’ve heard spiels about what people think attraction is, but Alex was able to solidify my understanding of it by telling us the fundamentals that create attraction. He simplified it into two ways to be attractive, the first one being having a lifestyle where you don’t need game, like that of Brad Pitt, and the second one, where you use game that you learned from the bootcamp.

Can't See the Forest for the Trees

What really helped me out was how Alex was able to explain the game of pickup from a bigger perspective, on a macro-level. This made me realize how incomplete my view on game was prior to the bootcamp, I was thinking on a micro-level. My head was so deep inside the forest, that I couldn’t see that it was a forest; all I was seeing was green. Throughout the bootcamp all the instructors helped me get my head out of the trees, and take notice that I was in a forest and understand how and why things worked in game on a macro-level.

In addition, he covered how to get hot girls, the 8s, 9s and 10s. He discussed the three different levels of game, and how to punch above your weight if you’re not an 8, 9 or 10. The best part was him applying an 80/20 perspective, and telling us the three fundamentals, T.L.C., that if you focused on, would increase your game and results the fastest.

The second talk Alex did on conversation skills and building comfort was incredible. I learned why I was having a low percentage of women want to meet up with me. I had completely written off comfort and thought all I needed to do was "just talk" for a while and women would naturally feel comfortable and want to meet up. Alex completely unraveled the errors in my thinking by breaking down specifically what "comfort" is and how to confirm that I have it. He gave practical demonstrations on how to build comfort and how to apply it to increase your results.

Being Fun and Playful

The next talk was by Zac, it covered breaking rapport, also known as "flirting". This was also a beneficial talk, since I was not as good as I liked at making interactions "fun" and "playful" with girls. Zac covered how to flirt and start generating attraction and stay out of the friend zone with girls. He followed that up by giving talks on Qualification and Sexual Escalation, both phenomenal in their own right.

Alex closed the day up by talking about how to overcome objections and handling logistics. He recapped all the material we had learned so far and showed us how to specifically apply all of it in a pickup scenario before we proceeded.

We wrapped up the seminar portion of the bootcamp and I went home to marinate on what I had learned so far, I felt like Neo having entered The Matrix and gaining a better understanding of game.

Sunday

Day Game Infield

Because of family obligations I was not able to attend the night game infield portions of the bootcamp, only the day game.

This was the only infield portion I took, so I knew I had to go all out and receive as much feedback as possible. To motivate his students, Adam has a challenge where any students that get 5+ contact details in the 3 infield sessions, get to join him for lunch and pick his brain. I wanted to join him for lunch and learn more, so this provided an extra boost of motivation.

Initially I was paired up with Alex for my approaches, but Adam came over and started giving feedback, and it ended up being me and him one-on-one. We played the veto game, where he would point out random girls and give an opener, and I would go approach. I’m not gonna lie, it was kinda of awesome having the #1 Pickup Artist in the world critique and give me feedback on my approaches. We day gamed for about 90 minutes, I got 1 number, 2 emails and insta-dated two girls but that ended up falling apart when their other friend came and wanted to go elsewhere.

Adam said I showed a lot of understanding and skill, so I could come to the "Advanced Game Lunch". I can’t talk about what happened on this lunch, but all I will say is Adam simplified the entire pickup process by breaking it into a few fundamental parts that he doesn’t teach anywhere. Looking back, all I think about is how ingenious Adam is to have come up with the concepts he taught us at the lunch.

Seminar

We reconvened for an hour long feedback session and Adam elaborated on the myths of good game on the internet and being persistent with your approaches, rather than ejecting or quitting.

Some quotes that stand out from the feedback session where:

• "Good game is having things fuck up and you keep on going with the set"
• "Good game is ugly and slow"
• "When you get good, you don't eject, you disqualify and stay in set"

Rocking My New Signature Look...Bold Ties

We had some time before the next talk, so I asked Adam for his take on fashion and how to be memorable. He gave practical advice that I’ve been applying with great results since, specifically adding BOLD colorful ties as a signature look to my style.

It has made opening with compliments much easier, especially since I'm now in the fashion industry. I would say 70% + of the time I open girls with compliments on their style, they return the compliment by saying the love my look as well. It makes everything so much easier! Prior to wearing bold colorful ties, less than 20% of the girls I talked to would return the compliment. They loved my style prior to rocking ties, but having BOLD ties as an accent piece, gave them an easy excuse to start hitting on me. Thanks Adam!

Zac then talked about Phone and Text Game. He emphasized the different ways to go about it and how to ensure you convert a higher percentage of those numbers into dates and day 2s, which was his next talk.

Shortly thereafter, he talked about Social Circle Game, which we all is one of the main things that draws people to Adam’s style of game.

My Magazine's Swimsuit/Lingerie Model Photo Shoot

He talked about how to build a social circle with the type of women you want, and how to go about finding them and gaming women for friends to build the circle up. This was one of the best talks of the bootcamp and inspired me to do a lot of work on my lifestyle after the bootcamp.

Adam wrapped things up by discussing confidence and the importance of practicing, which comes from the tenet, "Confidence comes with competence". In terms of practicing and receiving feedback, he recommended recording your approaches and going over them if you don’t have access to an instructor all the time. This was one of the motivations that made me go out and get a gum spy camera to record my approaches. All I can say is Adam is right, I’ve learned a lot from watching my approaches on camera.

The bootcamp was officially over, and I bid my farewells and went back to life with a new found perspective of the game.

Life After the Bootcamp

My Magazine's 3rd Photo Shoot

One of the things I had begun working on prior to the bootcamp was creating a playboy lifestyle, similar to that of Hugh Hefner of Playboy. Adam Lyon’s bootcamp provided more inspiration for me to do that and was able to push me in the right direction to achieve that.

Interviewing Model for My Magazine

I came into the game to learn how to pickup hot girls, the model looking girls, like fashion and swimsuit models. So I set out to do just that. I continued working on the online fashion magazine my wings and I started, and this allowed us to attend all the local fashion events, which happen to be 95%+ women, beautiful women I might add. The week after the bootcamp happened to be fashion week in DC, so it provided the perfect environment to test out my newly acquired skills.

I followed Adam’s practice advice and have been going out 5-6 times a week, consistently.

Insta-Date from Accent Transition Adam...Aye!!

In the first week after the bootcamp, I got over 20+ phone numbers (I had to stop counting after 20). Had a married woman makeout with me while her husband was in the bathroom. I also met up with 4 girls that same week, so my flaking issue was solved right out of the gate. I finished the week off by having a barbecue on my wings’ rooftop with two girls I met that week.

Hosting Happy Hour for Our Meetup Group

I am now an organizer of two meetup groups along with my wings, and combined we have over 1,000 members in them. We host happy hours, parties and other fun stuff like salsa lessons, etc. Whenever I go there I am "The Man" and gaming is almost effortless. I’ve met and gone on dates with a few women from their and it provides a steady supply of new women for me.

In addition to doing the fashion magazine, meetup group, I also spun off a modeling agency to compliment the fashion magazine…yes you read that right! Except the only difference is we don't hire models and are not concerned with making money. I use it to recruit and invite models for interviews, photo shoots and parties. It's simply a means to an end. A justified one I would say.

I can definitely say that taking Adam’s bootcamp has helped me understand the sticking points I had, and I am now able to get a larger percentage of women to hang out with me and I am creating a lifestyle that surrounds me with incredibly beautiful women to a point that I don’t have to game or cold approach as much. I went an entire week without doing a cold approach because I was meeting so many different women from my magazine and meetup group events.

I finished the year by holding our final photo shoot for the year. The way it happened summarizes how I've been applying Adam's game. I met a hot married girl during fashion week. I took down her number and invited her to our photo shoot on the weekend. After the shoot we had a barbecue with my wings. Fast forward a few months later we're looking for a venue to host our end of year swimsuit/lingerie photo shoot. Having been to our photo shoot a few months earlier, I had built up so much comfort, that she volunteers for us to use the lounge in her apartment complex. The lounge is decked out, legitimately looks like a real lounge with a game room, pool table, Xbox, and multiple flat screen TVs. If you could dream up an ideal venue to host a photo shoot party this would be it, and it was free thanks to being friends with her.

She says she's looking forward to it and loves how we'll have a lot of girls there, since we're always rolling with girls. I smile and laugh, fully understanding and grasping the value of pre-selection that Adam teaches.

I Could Get Used to This Lifestyle

We end the year in a blast, having a photo shoot party with 4 of my close wings, and 10 girls, eight of whom were models, the other two I picked up from fashion events. One thing to note, I single-handily brought all the 10 girls, and all the models and non-model girls that would come to the 5 photo shoots we had this year. Although I love my wings, they consistently had trouble bringing other girls to the shoots and meeting up with them. On the other hand, I would consistently have other girls I met from cold approach coming to every one of our photo shoots and seeing them again, and I can unequivocally say it was thanks to the tactics and techniques I learned from Adam.

Am I the world's greatest pickup artist from taking this bootcamp? That's an emphatic no! However, I have learned the proper fundamentals of game and how to effectively build a lifestyle that surrounds me with the beautiful women I desire to a point that I can still be getting laid with hot models when I'm 80 years old...just like Hugh Hefner!

I have achieved this lifestyle without spending a dime. I'm a broke grad school student, living at home with his parents, no cars and shitty logistics, but still finding a way to create a Playboy Lifestyle. Whenever people ask me how I am achieving this, I will resoundingly tell them it's because of GAME! Specifically, Adam's Lyon's teachings.

Takeaways


Adam Lyons Knows His Shit - From being a loyal follower of his teachings, to becoming an apostate, I am now a believer again. Adam unequivocally cares about seeing his students succeed. I am a testament to that. The generosity he took in contacting me and letting me sit in on his bootcamp, despite the animosity I initially showed, is a testament to his amazing character. I have the utmost reverence for him. He is able to break down game into a technical structure and still make it easy to learn.


Don't Put Off Taking a Bootcamp - Being someone who thought that they could become great at pickup from just illegally pirating pickup products from torrent sites, I will tell you what I learned. You won't! As much as you may not like to hear this, there is shit that they don't teach in the products, that they ONLY teach on bootcamps. A lot of the meat that will take your game to the next level is only taught on bootcamps. From a business perspective it makes sense, if pickup instructors taught everything in their ebooks, audiobooks or videos, then they wouldn't be a need to teach bootcamps. To counter this, most products only touch the tip of the iceberg. Bootcamps are where it's at. Don't procrastinate, take one, having no money is not an excuse. If you are dedicated you will find a way like I did.

No One to Blame But Myself - I realize that before taking the bootcamp there was no one to blame for my hindrances but myself. I was trying to justify my problems by blaming Adam's system. I think this is what happens with people who bash pickup gurus. Granted there are some charlatan teachers out there, at the end of the day I was not fully practicing and pushing his system to the point of failure.

Lifestyle Game is Worth It - Putting in the time to build a lifestyle that gets you women with ease is worth every single ounce of sweat equity. As Adam says, very few people do it, but it reaps you the biggest rewards.

I would like to end this review by saying I owe Adam Lyons a lot. He has changed my life and will forever be a staple in my journey. The only regret I have is that I didn't take a picture of us together from the bootcamp, then I would have heard a photo for my journal haha.

Thanks for everything Adam. You fuckin' rock!

If you want to take your game to the next level as well, you can check out Adam's bootcamps on his website, by clicking the link below. Tell him Superman sent ya ;-)

Adam Lyons Bootcamp

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Online Date With Asian Girl

I go onto POF and message all the Asian girls within a 20 mile radius this copy and paste message. Slight modification from a Sinn opener, 2nd online date with an Asian girl, and both of them where from this type of opener…interesting, maybe this is what they respond to.

Online Message Transcript

Me: I can't believe you put up a picture like that...either you're really fun to hang out with, or you're a complete dork. Whatever it is, I'm curious enough to find out :p 

Her: lol you are so funny and i love your energy! my name is *** by the way. 

Me: Haha thanks ***. Looks like we both have being silly, fun and smart in common.
I see we both are rarely on this site. If you're interested in talking let me know a number I can text or call you on. You're too fun to get away. 

**my name** 

p.s. do you really do power walks? lolz 

Her: lmao.... yes... 240 ***-**** please dont make me block you..lol 

Me: lol only if you promise not to fall in love with me :p
I'll be busy this weekend but will hit you up when I get a chance.

Phone Game

My typical ammo for online dates is to go for the date through text, since it saves time. If she’s not up for it, then I call her up and build comfort over the phone.

She would text back, but flake or ignore my texts whenever I suggested a date. I called her up and talked to her for 5 minutes. Made plans to hang out and she was more down. Tried setting up a drink date in DC, she still backed out. I talk to her on the phone again, this time for 15 minutes. Found out going to DC doesn’t work too well for her, made plans to do drinks in Bethesda, right outside of DC.

At this point I get annoyed with the fatties from online, and I boycott online game while I work on my lifestyle and modeling game. I don’t hit her up till 2 months later.

I figure she might wonder why the fuck I took so long to hit her up, and might not be down and make me have to rebuild comfort. I text her telling her I just came back to the country from Africa (lie) and it works.

Me: Hey punk! I'm back in the country, what's good? 7:49 PM 

She calls me and we talk but I’m outside and it’s too loud so I text her 

Me: Let me know what you're up to tomorrow, maybe we can grab drinks and tell you about my African adventures 7:54 PM 

Asian Girl: Ok 7:54 PM 

Asian Girl: O and bring pics when we do meet. :-D 7:55 PM 

Me: haha don't have the pics with, my brother has the camera, in due time 7:56 PM 

Asian Girl: :-( 7:57 PM 

Me: Cheer up chica! Bethesda 630? 8:02 PM 

Asian Girl: Ok 8:06 PM 

Me: Bring your sexy potato bag (call back humor)  ms. all I text is ok :p 8:15 PM 

Asian Girl: Lol okay ;-) 8:16 PM

I end up taking a rain check to go on a date with the Spanish teacher on Monday, and reschedule her for

Tuesday

Me: Hey there, hate to do this, can we raincheck for tmrw, something came up... 2:21 PM 

Asian Girl: Okay... :-( 2:22 PM 

Me: :( ok 2:31 PM

Drink Date

The plan was to meet for drinks at 630pm, just in time for happy hour drink specials. Once again, my date is late and arrives at 7pm and we miss the happy hour specials.

I meet her inside the restaurant, and we go sit by the bar. We order Coronas and talk. After a while she suggests we split food…normally I don’t like the idea, but I thought it might be a good thing, especially if she was splitting the bill.

She mentions that she used to date a guy from Cameroon…I think to myself, another BBC lover! It seems the girls outside of my race that are receptive to me, are because of having dated other black guys in the past. At first I didn’t like it, because in a way, I want to know I got a girl because of my game, not because she loves black guys. It makes it seem like I could have ran the corniest game ever and still have got her. I would rather run game on a girl that has never dated a brotha, have my game be so tight that I become her first black guy. But after thinking about, a girl is a girl, and I should just take any that are into me, and be grateful.

We talk about our goals and business, since we shared that commonality. She’s into real estate and finds out I live in the rich part of Maryland…I see an attraction switch go off in her head…I don’t tell her that it’s with my parents.

We were talking about our worst online dates, and I talked about the fat black gold digger bitch. I said she wanted me to get her everything on the menu, and when we were hooking up, I found a Chic-fil-A wrapper on the floor, and she confessed she just had Chic-fil-A before our date. This would turn out to have great influence on the date.

When we were getting ready to pay, she willingly suggests that we can split the bill, she doesn’t want to be a gold digger like the fat black girl. I laugh to myself…that’s rare for online dates, I think I just stumbled upon a new routine. I qualify and frame going dutch by talking about a previous date that was a gold digger and tried to get me to pay for everything on the menu.

When leaving the bar I try to link arms with her like I normally do when leaving the bar with my dates and she’s not really up for it. I don’t force it and we head to the Barnes and Nobles nearby and browse the business book section.

After a while she has to leave because she has an exam tomorrow at school. While ending the date she asks if I liked the date with her, I tell her it was alright. She’s been texting me for a couple of days now asking about book recommendations after our date.

Takeaways

Frame Gold Digging – Talk about previous date I had that was a gold digger, and it will prequalify and frame her to want to go dutch and split the bill.

Book Store Bounces Good – Bouncing to a book store after a date is also a good idea for me, especially now since it’s cold outside and making out on benches is not so ideal. I could take them to the sex book section like I did with the German Au Pair last year.

Improvements – Could once again, have made the conversation more sexual despite her being reserved


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Spanish Teacher Loves Black Guy Swag

Background

I was hosting an open bar happy hour for my meetup group, in collaboration with another meetup group. I see a girl seated at the table, and go in with a High Value opener and ask her if she’s here for “My Party” haha. She says no and asks about it.

Suited-Up Brotha With Dark Frame Glasse = Swag!

Moments later her friend, a white girl that’s a Spanish teacher comes back from the bathroom and I introduce myself. From the get go she’s feelin’ my swag and there’s chemistry. We flirt back and forth for over 30 minutes. We’re talking about dancing and I mention that I think I’m Neyo on the dance floor at times, since that’s kind of the celebrity stereotype I’m going for. She says she loves Neyo…hmm.

I end up leaving them to mingle with the crowd and for my date with a black cougar I had invited to the happy hour. I wasn’t attracted to the cougar and not feeling it, I wrap it up quickly and send her on her way, and go back to talk to the Spanish teacher. I end up getting her number so that we can talk about organizing a karaoke event for our meetup group.

Texting and Date Setup

We text back and forth for weeks making plans each time but always falling through because of her friend and other shit. I was more forgiving with her because every time she would cancel, she would suggest another day, which is a huge sign that she’s really into you, since most broads who don’t give a fuck just don’t respond to your texts or suggest an alternative. The third time it happens though, I charge her to the game and delete her number and move on.

But she texts me again, and I figure that I’ve been too nice with this girl…I haven’t really broken rapport. So I respond, but call her out on it…

Snow Bunny: So we suck at actually meeting up! 9:15 PM 

Me: Yea you keep fakin! 9:36 PM 

Snow Bunny: Noo I told u where we were!! 9:37 PM 

Me: So did I! 9:40 PM 

Snow Bunny: What are u doing in the next couple days? Lets grab a drink or dinner...ur thoughts?! 9:44 PM 

Me: We can do drinks, monday or tuesday should work for me. you? 9:54 PM 

Snow Bunny: Tuesday... I coach bball Monday. Gimme a time and place and I'm there 9:58 PM 

Me: Tuesday 6:15, meet me at barnes and noble in georgetown and will go from there 10:06 PM 

Snow Bunny: Ok... sounds good! 10:37 PM

Works in my favor, she suggests a date for Tuesday. I had setup an online date with this Asian girl for Monday. She later texts the next day saying Tuesday can’t work, and we should do Monday instead.

Snow Bunny: Can we change to Monday? Im canceling my bball practice... I forgot I have an event to go to with my friend on Tuesday. Let me know if tomorrow works and sorry 10:50 PM 

Snow Bunny: if I woke u up!! 10:51 PM 

Me: Far from asleep, sure it's cool with me! 10:55 PM 

Snow Bunny: Ok! :) 11:10 PM

I like her better, so I raincheck the Asian girl for Tuesday, and schedule the white girl for Monday.

She's Late

I decide to have the date at a Spanish bar across the old bar I used to use, before being kicked out, those faggots, not giving them my business.

Snow Bunny: Hey what's the game plan today? Its my late work day and I have to let my dog out then ill be able to leave... I'm about 25 mins from dc 12:41 PM 

Me: We're checkin' out *** name of place *** What time works better for you 12:47 PM 

Snow Bunny: Is it an event or just us? Around 7- 7:30 should be good. Is that good for u? 12:52 PM 

Me: Just us chica! sure lol. see you at 730, just meet me at bodega 1:03 PM 

Snow Bunny: ¡Ok te veo allí! 1:05 PM 

Snow Bunny: Running a little late... could u send me the address?? 7:01 PM 

Me: *** I text her the address *** 7:05 PM 

Snow Bunny: Thanks I'm running late I'm sorry 7:24 PM 

Snow Bunny: Finally here so sorry! 7:58 PM

The plan was to have drinks starting from 630pm for an hour or so and then bounce to the water front for a walk, sit by the benches and makeout like usual. Except she arrived late! We pushed it back to 730pm, and she shows up at 8pm.

Drink Date

We meet up by the door and head inside. It’s only a Monday night and the bar is packed!!! They give us a table, I tell her I hate sitting at tables, she says she’s okay with waiting for the bar. We go and do just that. After a while I talk to the staff, and they let us head to the back bar which isn’t opened yet. We go there and it’s just us two…we call that VIP!

We talk and banter for a while. The first time I met her she had mentioned that she was divorced, and I didn’t give a fuck, I’m not wifing girls up any time soon. But I was curious why this white girl was breaking her neck to meetup with me. She coaches basketball (sign of a BBC lover!), cancelled her practice for your boy, and drove 30 minutes away to come on a date with me. She finally reveals the mystery, and says that the guy she was married to was black! She’s down for the cause!

I Got the Taye Diggs Swag

We flirt some more, she initiates palm reading on me, and we joke about that. I start caressing and holding her hand as we talk and she’s cool with it. The entire time I’m doing intense eye contact, giving her the bedroom eyes while we talk and letting the tension build. I do my kissing SOI and Questions Game as usual. She says her secret celebrity crush is Taye Diggs. I would later find out when I looked him up online, that he looks just like me! A suited-up brotha with dark frame glasses...I dig it!

I verbally escalate the conversation and ask her whether she prefers okay regular sex or amazing oral sex, she prefers the former, not really an oral sex person. I wouldn't escalate further past that, but felt like it was on.

The plan was to bounce her to the water front and make out with her there. She likes the idea but says she has to get back home early since she’s teaching in the morning and has to drive 30 minutes back. We talk and flirt some more and make plans, I tell her I’ll invite her to our photo shoot this weekend…granted if it happens at all, still need to find a venue.

Takeaways

She's Serious If Suggests Alternative Days To Meet - If a girl is not able to meet up with me, but still responds back to texts or phone calls and suggests other alternative days to meet, she's interested in me.

Sexy Stereotypes Work - Dressing like a celebrity, and having a particular style gets noticed...it's called swag!

Improvements - Could have dug deeper in talking about sex, would have built more sexual tension

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Scouting for Virtual Offices

Awesome quote right here, courtesy of Kanye. This captures the ultimate goal of the Playboy Lifestyle Game I'm working on.

"Bullet proof condom when I’m in these hoes
Got staples on my dick (why?) fuckin’ centerfolds
And I swear to God they so cold
Got a nigga in Miami wearin' winter clothes" - Kanye West

Haha, straight fire! On to the post.





Asian Happy Hour

Went to an Asian happy hour with my fellow BBC wing John Panam, and the organizer douche was mean muggin' us the entire time, since we were two black dudes, and I always stiff him whenever they ask us for donations at the door. 

Keeping it short, only notable thing was escalating fast on this Half-Asian broad to a point I didn't know what to do since things happened so fast. Opened her by asking about her elephant necklace, did a cold read about her having traveled to India, and was spot on. She was immediately in a trance, went deeper by mentioning Japan, and she had been there too. I tell her she's awesome, and link arms with her. Next thing you know we're locked arm-in-arm and she's giving me the doggy dinner bowl look.

I can tell she's ready to be kissed, and all of this happened in less than a minute. The sexual tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife. This was some 60 YoC type shit, escalating right from the opener. But I proceeded to fuck up. I felt like it was too fast to makeout with her, especially in front of everyone. I also felt it was too early to isolate, I was talking to her for less than a minute. 

The BBC Crew Broadcasting Live!

I start spinning wheels, and kill the sexual tension by going back to regular talk. Some Asian dude comes up to her and asks her what the hell she's doing haha. I think he was some chode that brought her there trying to make a move on her or w/e, I turn around and let them talk, and pretend to be busy with my phone. The chode leaves and we go back to talking.

I talk to her for a while, but eventually some other guy gets into a conversation with her. I was a pussy and didn't go back in there to claim the prize I had earned. FML!

Takeaway: It's never too early to escalate or isolate. I should know this since I got a 10 second insta-date a while back, the proof is in the pudding. If I'm not comfortable making out with a girl in front of her friends, it means I should isolate her away. But in order to do that, I should know my isolation spots before I start talking to girls.

Scouting for Virtual Offices

After doing the modeling photo shoots and interviews for a while, I figured that I need to get legit offices. I'm loosing a lot of models because they smell bullshit when I tell them to meet me in a coffee shop or a public place for the shoots. I know if we had legit offices, our credibility and posture would be on a whole different level.

Being of a follower of the rational author and businessman Robert Ringer's Theories, I take his "Posture Theory" to heart:

"It’s not what you say or do that counts, but what your posture is when you say or do it" - Robert Ringer

One thing I've been great at so far has been posturing my model game to be more credible. I dress up in suits, Prince P has a corvette, getting real photographers and designers, all the shit has been on point. But I can't stop there, gotta keep on pushing things to new levels. I think getting offices will do just that. The only problem is we don't have money to throw into this lifestyle game, we want to do it by spending as little money as possible.

Peep this:

I do some research, and find out that you can rent offices by the hour, they call it "Virtual Offices". I am floored...you mean to tell me I can rent out swag and posture by the hour. Yes sir!!! I'm in.

I find a place with virtual offices for a reasonable amount of $165 on K Street. For those who don't know, K Street is infamous as the street where all the top lobbying firms and lawyers in DC reside. It's less than 5 blocks from Obama in the White house, the world bank and the IFC. Talk about swag!!! I am thrilled at the potential. Here's what the price gets us according to their site.

This plan includes all the fundamental components to have fully functional office support. Your phones will be answered by our courteous receptionists, we collect and sort your mail and you have prepaid access to sixteen hours of conference and meeting rooms per month, with additional hours available and billed at month's end. You have access to all the office equipment which includes fax, copiers, mail machines and computers. Evening and weekend use is also available.

I decide to check it out the very next day. The video at the beginning of this post is of me being given a tour of the facilities. After taking a tour of the facilities, I am impressed for the most part, but have to now deal with the issue of money. They have cheaper packages, that start at $55 for five hours of using the virtual offices. I spoke with Prince P and Mr. Hurgle about it, and they're interested. Going to seriously consider this, perhaps for our next porn casting call haha.

International Happy Hour

I head to another couch surfing happy hour, and this time do better than last time. Last week I did well, but didn't bother getting any girls numbers. This time I did, got a three numbers and got a lot of practice in. I've noticed the last couple of weeks, my breaking rapport, or flirting if you wanna call it that, has gotten really good. I've also been doing a lot of sexual tension shit, did some more of that this week. Kudos to Dave for giving me some pointers on being physical, such as playfully punching girls. It's been working well with my style.

Just need to remember to isolate and keep on progressing the interactions, will make that my goal for next time. Didn't bother recording any video since I almost got busted last time and have yet to figure out a way to hide the flashing lights on my gum camera when in bars.

Peruvian Broad

There was this Peruvian broad that I number closed from a couch surfing language group. She flaked when I invited her for a happy hour, I deleted her number. I meet her again a few weeks later and she's surprised that I deleted her number. I get it again and invite her out, she shows up this time, but isn't down for the cause when I try to bounce her to another bar, we leave without her. 

She chats to me on facebook, and we plan to go biking together. I flake on her b/c I was doing a porn casting call haha. I invite her out for salsa a while later, she flakes but chats to me on facebook. I see her randomly on the street with another cute Peruvian friend of hers when I'm out with Dave. We bounce them to a bar for drinks and chill for a bit. I talk to her cute friend and eventually they have to go. I invite her out for our happy hour a few days later, she doesn't even bother responding to my text. I delete her number again since I see that she has never been down for the cause, and is merely leeching me for my social value whenever she wants to. 

I'm in the process of finishing Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged, and have been re-evaluating my moral code. One of the principles I have not been living up to is only interacting with women who live up to my standards of value.


One of the values I despise are time wasters, aka the "may be" girls.  I understand that women will be flaky till the end of time, but what I refuse to tolerate are the women who do not even bother to let you know that they won't be able to make it, or reschedule, they go cold on your phone calls or texts. 

If a woman is truly interested, she will have the courtesy of responding to let you know she can't make it, if she doesn't she will learn otherwise. Tit for tat, I am merely conditioning the women that I interact with that if they deal with me in a manner I value, they will be rewarded with my interest, if they do not, they will receive no interest.

So fast forward, a few weeks later I get a text from some random broad asking where we're hosting salsa lessons. I find out it's the Peruvian girl, and ignore her texts. Later at night she sends me chats on facebook surprised that I deleted her number again, I ignore her ass. I do not need to deal with this shit, I'm fuckin' having drinks with swimsuit models that kiss my ass, I don't need mediocre girls wasting my time if they're not down for the cause as Solo says.

I'm done with her, and hand her off to Prince P, who has been sweating her for a while. I already knew he was trying to setup a date with her behind my back, but now that I'm done with her, we put shit in the open and he can have her.

Peruvian Broad's Friend on Facebook

Ironically, one of the reasons I didn't care for the Peruvian broad was that I was try to switch up, and make a move on her friend. She was more "Americanized" and I was peeping some interest on her part. While talking to Prince P on the phone, whose telling me that he's meeting with the girl I ditched that week to help her with finding a job, I'm chatting to her friend on facebook. Here's the chat log:

Superman:

salsa today!!!

you should join us!

Her:

hola! i cant today 

rain check for next week

Superman:

cool

hows life

Her:

have fun tonight!

life is good, can't complain

how have you been?

Superman:

amazing!

partying a lot, saving the world

Her:

niiice

hahahha great motto to live by

Superman:

yea, what are you up to for thanksgiving

Her:

spending it with the fam. and working black friday 

Superman:

haha. I'm ready to get some deals

you should live it up

Her:

are you going shopping at 5am?

Superman:

nope, online on my couch lolz

amazon.com

Her:

perfect

avoid the crowd

Superman:

did you tango yet?

Her:

i went to check it out, but did not take the class

Superman:

we're planning on doing more dancing events. tango, and also looking into karaoke 

Her:

both would be super fun

Superman:

no way! you karaoke???

Her:

i havnt, but i want too

i hear its such a fun time

Superman:

yea I haven't done it either. I wanna sing some michael jackson hits lolz.

what song would u sing? 

Her:

hmmm maybe katy perry or some kesha lol

Superman:

haha I am totally judging you now!

Superman:

all this karaoke talking is getting me pumped up

Her:

lol

Superman:

lets go karaoke!

Her:

yeaaa

Superman:

when do u get back again?

Her:

i live in the area

Superman:

cool, I'll see if some of my friends are around as well and let you know

Her:

ok sounds good!

Superman:

whats the best way to get in touch with you, I'll be away from fbook for while

Her:

text mssg works

Superman:

alright I'll text you, whats your phone

Her:

*** her number ***

Superman:

got my text? (I text her a joke)

Her:

hahhaha yess

Superman:

yes you are going down!

you cheated last time during trivia

Her:

how??

Superman:

lol we can talk about it later. hey I gotta run to the post office before they close at 5, talk to you later

deuces!

Takeaway: Karaoke seems to be a really good day 2 idea. That's the third girl that gave me a number to do karaoke in the last couple of weeks. Interesting!

That's it for now, happy thanksgiving y'all! Get that turkey, and smash that gravy!





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