Spanish Teacher Loves Black Guy Swag

Background

I was hosting an open bar happy hour for my meetup group, in collaboration with another meetup group. I see a girl seated at the table, and go in with a High Value opener and ask her if she’s here for “My Party” haha. She says no and asks about it.

Suited-Up Brotha With Dark Frame Glasse = Swag!

Moments later her friend, a white girl that’s a Spanish teacher comes back from the bathroom and I introduce myself. From the get go she’s feelin’ my swag and there’s chemistry. We flirt back and forth for over 30 minutes. We’re talking about dancing and I mention that I think I’m Neyo on the dance floor at times, since that’s kind of the celebrity stereotype I’m going for. She says she loves Neyo…hmm.

I end up leaving them to mingle with the crowd and for my date with a black cougar I had invited to the happy hour. I wasn’t attracted to the cougar and not feeling it, I wrap it up quickly and send her on her way, and go back to talk to the Spanish teacher. I end up getting her number so that we can talk about organizing a karaoke event for our meetup group.

Texting and Date Setup

We text back and forth for weeks making plans each time but always falling through because of her friend and other shit. I was more forgiving with her because every time she would cancel, she would suggest another day, which is a huge sign that she’s really into you, since most broads who don’t give a fuck just don’t respond to your texts or suggest an alternative. The third time it happens though, I charge her to the game and delete her number and move on.

But she texts me again, and I figure that I’ve been too nice with this girl…I haven’t really broken rapport. So I respond, but call her out on it…

Snow Bunny: So we suck at actually meeting up! 9:15 PM 

Me: Yea you keep fakin! 9:36 PM 

Snow Bunny: Noo I told u where we were!! 9:37 PM 

Me: So did I! 9:40 PM 

Snow Bunny: What are u doing in the next couple days? Lets grab a drink or dinner...ur thoughts?! 9:44 PM 

Me: We can do drinks, monday or tuesday should work for me. you? 9:54 PM 

Snow Bunny: Tuesday... I coach bball Monday. Gimme a time and place and I'm there 9:58 PM 

Me: Tuesday 6:15, meet me at barnes and noble in georgetown and will go from there 10:06 PM 

Snow Bunny: Ok... sounds good! 10:37 PM

Works in my favor, she suggests a date for Tuesday. I had setup an online date with this Asian girl for Monday. She later texts the next day saying Tuesday can’t work, and we should do Monday instead.

Snow Bunny: Can we change to Monday? Im canceling my bball practice... I forgot I have an event to go to with my friend on Tuesday. Let me know if tomorrow works and sorry 10:50 PM 

Snow Bunny: if I woke u up!! 10:51 PM 

Me: Far from asleep, sure it's cool with me! 10:55 PM 

Snow Bunny: Ok! :) 11:10 PM

I like her better, so I raincheck the Asian girl for Tuesday, and schedule the white girl for Monday.

She's Late

I decide to have the date at a Spanish bar across the old bar I used to use, before being kicked out, those faggots, not giving them my business.

Snow Bunny: Hey what's the game plan today? Its my late work day and I have to let my dog out then ill be able to leave... I'm about 25 mins from dc 12:41 PM 

Me: We're checkin' out *** name of place *** What time works better for you 12:47 PM 

Snow Bunny: Is it an event or just us? Around 7- 7:30 should be good. Is that good for u? 12:52 PM 

Me: Just us chica! sure lol. see you at 730, just meet me at bodega 1:03 PM 

Snow Bunny: ¡Ok te veo allí! 1:05 PM 

Snow Bunny: Running a little late... could u send me the address?? 7:01 PM 

Me: *** I text her the address *** 7:05 PM 

Snow Bunny: Thanks I'm running late I'm sorry 7:24 PM 

Snow Bunny: Finally here so sorry! 7:58 PM

The plan was to have drinks starting from 630pm for an hour or so and then bounce to the water front for a walk, sit by the benches and makeout like usual. Except she arrived late! We pushed it back to 730pm, and she shows up at 8pm.

Drink Date

We meet up by the door and head inside. It’s only a Monday night and the bar is packed!!! They give us a table, I tell her I hate sitting at tables, she says she’s okay with waiting for the bar. We go and do just that. After a while I talk to the staff, and they let us head to the back bar which isn’t opened yet. We go there and it’s just us two…we call that VIP!

We talk and banter for a while. The first time I met her she had mentioned that she was divorced, and I didn’t give a fuck, I’m not wifing girls up any time soon. But I was curious why this white girl was breaking her neck to meetup with me. She coaches basketball (sign of a BBC lover!), cancelled her practice for your boy, and drove 30 minutes away to come on a date with me. She finally reveals the mystery, and says that the guy she was married to was black! She’s down for the cause!

I Got the Taye Diggs Swag

We flirt some more, she initiates palm reading on me, and we joke about that. I start caressing and holding her hand as we talk and she’s cool with it. The entire time I’m doing intense eye contact, giving her the bedroom eyes while we talk and letting the tension build. I do my kissing SOI and Questions Game as usual. She says her secret celebrity crush is Taye Diggs. I would later find out when I looked him up online, that he looks just like me! A suited-up brotha with dark frame glasses...I dig it!

I verbally escalate the conversation and ask her whether she prefers okay regular sex or amazing oral sex, she prefers the former, not really an oral sex person. I wouldn't escalate further past that, but felt like it was on.

The plan was to bounce her to the water front and make out with her there. She likes the idea but says she has to get back home early since she’s teaching in the morning and has to drive 30 minutes back. We talk and flirt some more and make plans, I tell her I’ll invite her to our photo shoot this weekend…granted if it happens at all, still need to find a venue.

Takeaways

She's Serious If Suggests Alternative Days To Meet - If a girl is not able to meet up with me, but still responds back to texts or phone calls and suggests other alternative days to meet, she's interested in me.

Sexy Stereotypes Work - Dressing like a celebrity, and having a particular style gets noticed...it's called swag!

Improvements - Could have dug deeper in talking about sex, would have built more sexual tension

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Interviewing and Pimping Models

I thought about our last photo shoot at Kid Midas' house, and definitely knew I had to do something different. I was putting in way too much effort getting all these models, designers and shit, and not even coming close to fucking them! Being the rational businessman that I am, my Return on Investment (ROI) was not evolutionary stable.

I remembered Ringer's Theory of Relevance, marinated on how true it was with the photo shoots.

"No matter how true something may be or how much it may please you, the primary factor to take into consideration is how relevant it is to your main objective" - Robert Ringer

Although I liked the photo shoots with the models, they were not relevant into my main objective, banging them. I decided to make some adjustments, and did something I initially wanted to do before going with the photo shoot idea.

Interviewing at Georgetown Starbucks

I placed my ad looking for sexy swimsuit models for a calendar, and got the responses as usual, although they're less now-days. Maybe the models are catching on and I'm running out of prospects, only time will tell.

Rather than inviting them to a casting call like I've been doing, this time I told them to meet me at Starbucks for a "Preliminary Interview" before we select candidates for the casting call. Getting them to meet at Starbucks was easy, I justified it by saying we were busy moving to new offices, well knowing that we don't have any official offices.

I set it up just like my online dates, and was going to meet them at Starbucks in Georgetown. The plan was to insta-date the models to a bar for drinks after the interview and from there just treat it like a usual date, with the only difference they would be kissing my ass since I was a big shot with my own fashion magazine and modeling agency, and they were trying to get a job from me.

This shit was definitely better than online game. I laughed out loud at my sheer genius in hacking the matrix. I picked out two models, one of them cute, and pipelined them Paul Janka style. One interview was at 4pm, with a second broad lined up for 7pm. Two interviews with models in one day, beats going on dates with ugs and fatties from OKCupid and PoF. That's what I call a Glitch in The Matrix.

First Model

I meet with the first model, and she was a dud. She looked worse in person than in her pictures. I didn't expect her to be cute, but didn't expect her to be this hideous. She had a big gap between her teeth and her modeling pictures must have been photoshoped compared to what I saw.

Nevertheless, I used her to practice and pop my cherry for doing these preliminary interviews. I had an official model application that I printed out for credibility, and asked her questions and chatted for about 25 minutes.

After the interview was over, it was time for the insta-date, but I wasn't feeling her. I fucked it up, and decided not to pull the trigger to insta-date her for drinks for the practice, which would later come back to hurt me.

Second Model

I hang around Georgetown for a bit, and the next model shows up. This one was sexy for sure, which is why I saved her for last, and at night.

She arrives and I get to my spiel and interview her, we finish the interview quickly, in 20 minutes flat since she had no modeling experience and was an amateur.

It came time to wrap up and go for the insta-date....and I flinch, hesitate, stall, don't pull the trigger, and the interview ends. Epic fail! 

She ends up leaving, and I go my separate way. Oh well, on the good side I can give myself another shot, by inviting her to a photo shoot and say she "made the cut" haha.

Pimping Models

The remaining models who applied that I did not want to bang...I mean, interview, I passed them along to my wings and set them up. I had Dave and Mr. Hurgle setup their own interviews with them, just like mine. And people said Superman never practiced altruism, haha.

Takeaway:

Interviewing the models in Starbucks is a more effective and rational strategy than the photo shoot. It's one-on-one, and can turn into a date over drinks more easily, than going through all the work of planning the photo shoot, and receiving very little rewards. On the good side, if things don't go as planned during the interview, I have another shot and can invite them to the photo shoots saying they made the cut. Winning!

Meetup Group Happy Hour

We hosted another happy hour for our meetup group, along with another meetup group that I joined and became an organizer.

I invited a black cougar that I picked up at a cougar happy hour. She would come later in the night.

Seated Two Set

I open a girl on a table eating, and chat with her for a bit. Her friend, a Spanish teacher, comes back from the bathroom to sit down and I engage her as well. This would become my set of the night and I would talk to them the whole night. I got the Spanish teacher's number and she likes to karaoke, so I'll see where this goes. 

I was having a lot of fun with them, and wanted to stay with both girls since they were feeling me, threesome anyone? lmao. But I remembered that I had a day 2 with the black cougar, I seriously felt like ditching the cougar for them, I wasn't attracted to the cougar at all.

Black Cougar

Background

I met her at a 30s40s happy hour, and opened her by complimenting her hair. She loved me, I easily built comfort, broke rapport and was escalating. It came to a point that I used my Lip Gloss and Chapstick SOI and she put on her chapstick wanting to makeout. I turned her down, not wanting to makeout inside.

I thought about it for a while, and the reason was because I wasn't attracted to her at all, I was practicing going through the motions. Because I asked myself, if she was a hot Japanese or Russian girl, I would have had no problem kissing her inside the bar. I concluded that she was the type of girl you would hook up with, but not want everybody to know.

I used some awareness to bounce her outside, where I planned to kiss her, out of sight. I tell her I'm leaving and she should escort me out, she complies. We go out and I'm about to kiss her and I get cockblocked by my mom!!! She called me and I had to pickup, I tell her to hold on. Moments later some dude she's friends with comes, and they start talking. Five minutes later I'm done talking on the phone with my mom, and her and the dude are about to head back inside.

I say fuck it, and roll, knowing I can meetup with her later.

Quick Day 2

I vibe with her and go back to escalating, we're locking hands, talking and dancing. She is obviously attracted, but I was not. I try to get myself turned on to her, but couldn't. I end up just chilling with her and then we wrap up quickly and I escort her away. All I could think about was going back to find the other two girls that I wanted.

Takeaway:

From now on, only day 2 girls that I am sexually attracted to, i.e. hot bitches. Ever since I had that date with a black girl a few months ago, where I couldn't bust a nut while the girl was jerking and titty fucking me, and had to resort to picturing a hot asian girl, I knew I had to change up shit.

Art Galleries

Insta-Date w/ Spanish Two Set

I head to the Fotoweek DC gallery with Dave, and we rage it the entire day. Things are a blur, so I will talk about what I remember. I beast at the gallery, talk to two girls for a while, then they leave. Open another two set of Spanish girls, and eventually we insta-date them to Phillips Art Gallery for another exhibit.

The line is long as fuck, stretches all the way down the block, and as most Spanish girls that I talk to, they're not feeling or celebrating me, just "tolerating" me. I use my G-status and get Dave and I to cut the line by telling the girl who works there that we're part of the press, cuz of our magazine. We skip right in and the Spanish girls are speechless, we ditch them, that's what they got for not loving BBC!

Greek Girl Insta-Date

Dave and I see a hot girl in the basement of the gallery, I beat him to her, and open by saying I lover her style and think she looks really pretty. She gives me the doggy dinner look and asks for my name. We talk for a bit, and she tells me she has a boyfriend. I remember what Adam said on the bootcamp. I'm paraphrasing:

"When you get good, you don't eject from sets. You disqualify and stay in set" - AFC Adam

So I tell her it's cool, I have a girlfriend as well (lie), and we can just be friends. To my surprise, she takes it hook line and sinker, and gives me her number. We talk some more, I break rapport and start flirting with her. This babe was giving me major wood!!! These are the babes I need to start going on dates with.

We bounce and walk around the gallery for half an hour, before her friend comes who she was meeting up with. I wrap it up and say bye since I had to head home to catch the last bus.

Takeaway:

I think I've stumbled upon a new demographic for BBC, Greek Girls! This was the second Greek Girl that I number closed that week. Both were so hot that I had boners while talking to them. From the few times that I've talked to those girls, and other Greek girls in the past, they've all been receptive to talking to me. I definitely need to look into them more, I joined one of their social groups and we'll keep an eye out for their events. Come to think of it, Greece is in the Baltics, a place that's notorious for loving BBC!

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