Showing posts with label Interracial Dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Interracial Dating. Show all posts
Race Issues in the Game
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The Cold Approaching Conundrum
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White Dad Meets Black Boyfriend
Every time I hear a PUA guru say race doesn't matter I think BULLSHIT!
Notice how it's "always" a white PUA, never a minority, who says race doesn't matter. Real talk!
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Notice how it's "always" a white PUA, never a minority, who says race doesn't matter. Real talk!
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How To Get A White Girl
LOLZ!!!!
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Black PUAs on Race
From Real Made Men and Justin Wayne's Blog
Money posts from Assanova and Justin Wayne on Black and minority guys in pickup
Assanova:
Read full article here: How Minorities Make Things Harder
Justin Wayne:
Read the full post here: Familiarity Breeds Attraction
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Money posts from Assanova and Justin Wayne on Black and minority guys in pickup
Assanova:
We all like to joke about being the token minority, and how if there is more than one, then the other needs to call the agency. Well, there is some truth to it. If you are a minority who games with other minorities, the game becomes infinitely more difficult for you. When I game with white wingmen, the game just becomes so much easier. It's almost as if I don't even have to try with women. They swarm me, and I always do better than the white guys I'm with, no matter how attractive they are.
However, when I game with other minorities, unless I approach alone, and don't introduce my minority friends, it is incredibly hard to hook women. The only time women even hook when I'm with minority wingmen, is if they are into minorities; as in they don't like white guys. I've even had a few instances where I'd be invited somewhere, and women would blatantly tell my minority wingman that he couldn't come. It's as if they said "We can accept one of you, but not more than that.", as politely as they could...
Read full article here: How Minorities Make Things Harder
Justin Wayne:
Let’s take an American white girl who grew up with mostly white friends and dated mostly white men. She will be more easily attracted to what she already knows. Same, applies to other races.
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This is also the reason why minorities will experience difficulties trying to pick up girls outside of their race. I can lie to the world and say it does not matter what race you are… but that would be bullshit. Now, once the girl is very into the minority, then he can use that romantic connection to get her and keep her. However, interms of the “pick-up” aspect, they will have a harder time establishing BASIC SOCIAL COMFORT. Without it, there is no attraction.
This is the reason why I never really liked online game as a means to pick up hotter women of other races. I can verify that all the girls in my ‘LAY REPORTs SECTION’ would not even respond to me if I messaged them online as a stranger. They would instantly ignore me and in rare cases message me back just because they were bored. However, I would not be able to get a date from them because they would have stereotyped me and there would be NO familiarity...
Read the full post here: Familiarity Breeds Attraction
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Who Do Asian Girls Date?
Don't you wish more Asian girls were like her?...hahaha I kid...Not!
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Black Men Dating White Women (Jungle Fever)
Via Assanova @ Real Made Men
You guys wanted me to write more about interracial dating, well I came across an interesting video that fellow blogger Assanova shared on his blog.
Thought I would share it here, as well as post my commentary.
Here are the points Dr. Johnson makes:
My Rational Take On It
While watching the video, what immediately jumps out at me was Dr. Johnson's blunt, eloquent and succinct speaking style. He speaks like Malcolm X, tells you nothing but the truths without sugar coating it. This immediately tells me he's a rational person.
I will respond to his points with my objective and rational take on them.
If you've followed my blog for some time you would know that I am generally not attracted to Black women. That doesn't mean I am never attracted to Black women, it just means I am attracted to them a lower percentage of the time compared to other races. In general, I am attracted to Japanese and Russian girls, but that's for a different post.
Some of the points he makes I agree with, but most I don't.
Point 1 - Disagree - I don't think Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves.
They date White women because that is the idealized version of beauty in the world. It is hard to escape it, even for someone like me who was born in Africa. It is subconsciously indoctrinated into you through the media.
Looking back in my past, when I was still growing up in Africa, I would say I began liking White women from seeing them on TV. They were very exotic and intrigued me. Even at that time, when I was about 7 years old, I was fascinated by them. I would see them in movies and my body not knowing what sex was at that time, would want to kiss them, thinking it would bring me closer to their mysticism.
Fast-forward to me arriving in America in 4th grade, and their mysticism quickly disappeared, they were old news after seeing them all over the place. However when I moved to the states, I was living in State College, PA (Penn State), and that place was not diverse at all. From the moment I started 4th grade, till the time I left State College in the middle of 7th grade, I don't remember ever having any Black girls in my class, except for one bi-racial girl (mulatto) in 4th grade.
With numbers like that, they were no girls to like BUT White girls. It's human nature for men to make due with what they have. So I got used to White girls you could say, those where the only girls around.
I heard about a study, where they say that your preference in the opposite sex is discovered and developed before you're 12 years old and once you grow past that age, it's hard to change it. In other words, if you prefer dating Black, White, Asian, etc. from around 7-12 years old, it's going to be hard to all of a sudden change and start preferring another race.This needs to be looked into some more.
Anyway that's where I think I started to like White women, and it then shifted to Asian girls, and now I'm kind of neutral, I constantly keep fluctuating.
Points 2, 3 - Disagree - About his point of most interracial relationships being between upper/middle class Black men marrying lower class White women.
I think that's a general theme that reflects more on the sexual nature of men and women, that we learn from evolutionary psychology.
Regardless of race, the female species marries the male with the highest social status she can get. Males on the other hand marry for beauty, since it is a symbol of health and fertility. A woman marrying a male with low social status, regardless of whether she was rich, would be playing an evolutionary unstable strategy. Women who played that strategy were eliminated after many generations, and those that played the evolutionary stable strategy of marrying a man based on his social status, where allowed to have their genes propagated into future generations.
Points 4, 5, 6, 9, 10, 11 - Disagree - I don't know if this is necessary the case.
If White beauty is deemed as the highest standard of beauty and is subconsciously indoctrinated in Black men by media. Is it then not rational for a man to want to achieve what is viewed as the highest standard of beauty?
In addition, if a Black man is living in a predominantly Non-Black area, is it not rational for him to look at dating other races?
Points 7, 8 - Agree - This one I agree with, it is pure fact.
Obviously we're generalizing, but that tends to be the case. Most Black men who date interracially are dating women who are either not heavily desired compared to other girls of their race or lower in socioeconomic status. I think this has to do with the Plus 2 rule (+2), which I'll discuss below.
I wrote about it before, in my rants about women being racist when it comes to online dating. It had a study where it showed that if White women were to choose between two men they would deem to be equal in looks, but one was a White man and the other a minority, they would always take the White man. That's an obvious rational choice, due to the racial backlash. But the interesting thing was, that in order for a minority to overcome that, he would have to be +2 better in looks just to be on an equal playing field.
In other words, if we were to judge looks on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being really good looking. Two men who were both 8s, but one being a minority, would not be able to compete for the White woman's attention. The minority would have to be a 10, just to be considered.
The scale is for looks, but it can be changed to other representative scales such as socioeconomic status, or my favorite in this case, game.
I see the latter a lot, although I've never openly talked about it except to my wing Prince P, who also has experienced it, and feels this principle is true.
What we've both experienced from doing cold approach is that being minorities, we're automatically at a disadvantage when wanting to date White women, or even any other races.
We've both seen some White guys get approach invitations, girls numbers, dates, lays, etc. with what we both consider "mediocre" game. For example, using the same scale from above, a White guy's game could be an 8/10 and he would get the girl. If our game was an 8/10 or 9/10 we would most likely not get the girl. It's almost like our game has to be a 10/10 i.e. flawless to get her to consider dating interracially.
We both repeatedly experienced this so much, that we fundamentally PLANNED for it if we wanted to succeed in our ventures. Almost everything we do, we would include a White person in it, since it built more comfort with White women.
While doing our meetup group, we made sure one of the assistant organizers was a White guy. Otherwise, White women, who happened to make up the majority of women on meetup.com, would not come to a meetup with a Black guy and Indian guy leading it. That's just the plain truth. Same thing with our photo shoots with models. Having a White guy would just automatically build more comfort, to a point it became a rational choice. The times we didn't have a White person with us would just seem like self-immolation.
In pickup they say it's always better to pickup women when you can show you're pre-selected by women. We both learned a supplement to that, which was this: It's a lot easier to pickup White women if you can show you're pre-selected by White people. Example, when Prince P (an Indian guy) and me (a Black guy) invite two White girls to a party, chances of them coming are medium to low. However, if we have a White dude with us when we meet and talk to the White girls, chances of them coming to our party shoot up. This would happen a lot.
We never liked this one bit, but being the rational men that we are, we knew we could not blank-out reality. Reality is what it is, irrespective of what we think. In order to succeed with reality, we had to acknowledge it.
It seems like in order to date outside the race, you need to have a +2, whether you do it with game, social status or looks, you need to bring a +2 to the table to be considered. Obviously this my generalization, but it appears to to be true from Prince P and I's real world experience.
Anyway, that's my commentary on his video, which I thought was deep and made me think about this issue much more.
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You guys wanted me to write more about interracial dating, well I came across an interesting video that fellow blogger Assanova shared on his blog.
Thought I would share it here, as well as post my commentary.
Here are the points Dr. Johnson makes:
- Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves
- Most interracial relationships between Blacks and Whites are middle/upper class Black men marrying lower class White women
- Never see rich White women marrying poor Black men
- Black men marry White women for acceptance from White race
- Do it to sooth inferiority complex in presence of White man
- Black men who marry White women have low self-esteem
- White women who Black men marry, are White women no other White men wanted
- If White women could have White man with same socioeconomic status, they wouldn't marry Black men
- Preaches against interracial relationships
- Black men marry outside their race more than any other race put together
- Views it as case of self-hatred
My Rational Take On It
While watching the video, what immediately jumps out at me was Dr. Johnson's blunt, eloquent and succinct speaking style. He speaks like Malcolm X, tells you nothing but the truths without sugar coating it. This immediately tells me he's a rational person.
I will respond to his points with my objective and rational take on them.
If you've followed my blog for some time you would know that I am generally not attracted to Black women. That doesn't mean I am never attracted to Black women, it just means I am attracted to them a lower percentage of the time compared to other races. In general, I am attracted to Japanese and Russian girls, but that's for a different post.
Some of the points he makes I agree with, but most I don't.
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| Chris Bosh and Wife |
Point 1 - Disagree - I don't think Black men date White women because of a self-hatred for themselves.
They date White women because that is the idealized version of beauty in the world. It is hard to escape it, even for someone like me who was born in Africa. It is subconsciously indoctrinated into you through the media.
Looking back in my past, when I was still growing up in Africa, I would say I began liking White women from seeing them on TV. They were very exotic and intrigued me. Even at that time, when I was about 7 years old, I was fascinated by them. I would see them in movies and my body not knowing what sex was at that time, would want to kiss them, thinking it would bring me closer to their mysticism.
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| State College = Nothing But White People |
Fast-forward to me arriving in America in 4th grade, and their mysticism quickly disappeared, they were old news after seeing them all over the place. However when I moved to the states, I was living in State College, PA (Penn State), and that place was not diverse at all. From the moment I started 4th grade, till the time I left State College in the middle of 7th grade, I don't remember ever having any Black girls in my class, except for one bi-racial girl (mulatto) in 4th grade.
With numbers like that, they were no girls to like BUT White girls. It's human nature for men to make due with what they have. So I got used to White girls you could say, those where the only girls around.
I heard about a study, where they say that your preference in the opposite sex is discovered and developed before you're 12 years old and once you grow past that age, it's hard to change it. In other words, if you prefer dating Black, White, Asian, etc. from around 7-12 years old, it's going to be hard to all of a sudden change and start preferring another race.This needs to be looked into some more.
Anyway that's where I think I started to like White women, and it then shifted to Asian girls, and now I'm kind of neutral, I constantly keep fluctuating.
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| Michael Jordan and Wife (Model) |
Points 2, 3 - Disagree - About his point of most interracial relationships being between upper/middle class Black men marrying lower class White women.
I think that's a general theme that reflects more on the sexual nature of men and women, that we learn from evolutionary psychology.
Regardless of race, the female species marries the male with the highest social status she can get. Males on the other hand marry for beauty, since it is a symbol of health and fertility. A woman marrying a male with low social status, regardless of whether she was rich, would be playing an evolutionary unstable strategy. Women who played that strategy were eliminated after many generations, and those that played the evolutionary stable strategy of marrying a man based on his social status, where allowed to have their genes propagated into future generations.
Points 4, 5, 6, 9, 10, 11 - Disagree - I don't know if this is necessary the case.
If White beauty is deemed as the highest standard of beauty and is subconsciously indoctrinated in Black men by media. Is it then not rational for a man to want to achieve what is viewed as the highest standard of beauty?
In addition, if a Black man is living in a predominantly Non-Black area, is it not rational for him to look at dating other races?
Points 7, 8 - Agree - This one I agree with, it is pure fact.
Obviously we're generalizing, but that tends to be the case. Most Black men who date interracially are dating women who are either not heavily desired compared to other girls of their race or lower in socioeconomic status. I think this has to do with the Plus 2 rule (+2), which I'll discuss below.
I wrote about it before, in my rants about women being racist when it comes to online dating. It had a study where it showed that if White women were to choose between two men they would deem to be equal in looks, but one was a White man and the other a minority, they would always take the White man. That's an obvious rational choice, due to the racial backlash. But the interesting thing was, that in order for a minority to overcome that, he would have to be +2 better in looks just to be on an equal playing field.
In other words, if we were to judge looks on a scale of 1-10, with 10 being really good looking. Two men who were both 8s, but one being a minority, would not be able to compete for the White woman's attention. The minority would have to be a 10, just to be considered.
The scale is for looks, but it can be changed to other representative scales such as socioeconomic status, or my favorite in this case, game.
I see the latter a lot, although I've never openly talked about it except to my wing Prince P, who also has experienced it, and feels this principle is true.
What we've both experienced from doing cold approach is that being minorities, we're automatically at a disadvantage when wanting to date White women, or even any other races.
We've both seen some White guys get approach invitations, girls numbers, dates, lays, etc. with what we both consider "mediocre" game. For example, using the same scale from above, a White guy's game could be an 8/10 and he would get the girl. If our game was an 8/10 or 9/10 we would most likely not get the girl. It's almost like our game has to be a 10/10 i.e. flawless to get her to consider dating interracially.
We both repeatedly experienced this so much, that we fundamentally PLANNED for it if we wanted to succeed in our ventures. Almost everything we do, we would include a White person in it, since it built more comfort with White women.
While doing our meetup group, we made sure one of the assistant organizers was a White guy. Otherwise, White women, who happened to make up the majority of women on meetup.com, would not come to a meetup with a Black guy and Indian guy leading it. That's just the plain truth. Same thing with our photo shoots with models. Having a White guy would just automatically build more comfort, to a point it became a rational choice. The times we didn't have a White person with us would just seem like self-immolation.
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In pickup they say it's always better to pickup women when you can show you're pre-selected by women. We both learned a supplement to that, which was this: It's a lot easier to pickup White women if you can show you're pre-selected by White people. Example, when Prince P (an Indian guy) and me (a Black guy) invite two White girls to a party, chances of them coming are medium to low. However, if we have a White dude with us when we meet and talk to the White girls, chances of them coming to our party shoot up. This would happen a lot.
We never liked this one bit, but being the rational men that we are, we knew we could not blank-out reality. Reality is what it is, irrespective of what we think. In order to succeed with reality, we had to acknowledge it.
It seems like in order to date outside the race, you need to have a +2, whether you do it with game, social status or looks, you need to bring a +2 to the table to be considered. Obviously this my generalization, but it appears to to be true from Prince P and I's real world experience.
Anyway, that's my commentary on his video, which I thought was deep and made me think about this issue much more.
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Reader Poll Results and The Superman Fund
Quick Update
Was out doing day game with Dave last week for the first time in a month. It kinda felt good, although my head is up my ass. The break and partying with models has given me a Super Inflated ego. Met up with a model this week, but she turned out to be an old hag. I'm some what back in DC, more details to come as they're finalized...on to the actual post.
Thanks to everyone that participated in the first ever Journey of Superman reader poll. A lot more people voted than I expected, I keep on forgetting how many people are lurkers haha. Maybe y’all will start leaving more comments now that my blog is becoming interactive.
Here are the results, and I was surprised with the final results. Interracial dating was in the lower third after the weekend but came back to take the cake from hacking online game; looks like a lot more people are interested in it than I thought.
Reader Poll Results
20.41% - Interracial Dating and Shit No One Wants to Talk About
I didn’t expect this to win out, I’m actually kind of glad that it did. The Black Guys Paradise page on my blog receives a steady stream of traffic from interracial dating search terms on Google as well as interracial dating forums, so I guess they got together for a final push and it worked.
16.33% - Hacking the Matrix: Online Game Hacks
I knew this one would score highly and I’m not surprised. The shit I’ve wanted to share is so fresh and game changing that I had to keep it to myself for a while, which is hard considering that I like to share shit…hence the blog haha! Anyway, I moved on to greener pastures, plundering hotties on modeling sites and such, so I don’t feel the need to keep this information to me and a few wings of mine. I don’t want to overhype shit, but the online game hacks I have are the kinda of shit that I actually thought about charging for, true story, brother got eat.
So instead of charging a few $$$ for it, I decided I’ll just give these tactics away. If you find value in them, you can donate to the newly minted “Superman Fund” below. This is a fund to help pay for various things like dates, parties, photo shoot equipment, etc. that I greatly need. I am not asking for anybody to be an altruist, rather I encourage you to donate whatever you can if you believe I and my blog have provided “value” to you in some shape or form. The more donations, the more the posts will keep on flowing.
16.33% - Personal Thoughts, Inner Demons and Goals
I am definitely surprised with this one. I thought people wouldn’t wanna read about my personal opinions, demons or goals. Come to think of it, my Super Saiyan 2 post was well-received. I’ll start posting about these more often.
14.29% - Interesting Articles and Videos I Find About Dating, Life, etc.
This one is easy for me to do. I plan on posting at least one new article or video a week that I find across the web. Some might not be about dating, since I don’t read a lot of pickup stuff since taking AFC Adam’s bootcamp, but things will still remain balanced.
14.29% - Rational Self-Interest and Game Theory
I think I messed up on this one, and forget to differentiate between Game Theory the Mathematical Social Science and Game Theory in terms of Pickup Theory. Regardless, I will assume it’s the former.
12.24% - Building a Playboy Lifestyle Filled With Models
I’m honestly surprised that this didn’t do so well, considering the model posts and videos are what began to blow my blog up. I guess few people actually want to follow through with the nuggets I was posting on this.
4.08% - Book Reviews
Not surprised about this one. I do the Book Reviews mostly for myself as reference notes in addition to Google haha. Google loves my blog, especially the book reviews. Just Google “fountainhead book review” and you’ll see why.
2.04% - Other
To the person that asked me about writing about the Asian girl I wussed out in approaching, elaborate on which Asian girl you’re talking about…I need more details to know what you’re talking/referencing to.
With that being said, I have heeded your opinions and will start posting more about the topics you’d like to read about.
While you await my next posts, if you find that I’ve provided value to you, whether it be inspiration, humor, etc., and you would like to donate to this blog, you can do so below.
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If you find any value from this blog, feel free to donate to my Superman Fund below to help me continue the awesomeness.
Was out doing day game with Dave last week for the first time in a month. It kinda felt good, although my head is up my ass. The break and partying with models has given me a Super Inflated ego. Met up with a model this week, but she turned out to be an old hag. I'm some what back in DC, more details to come as they're finalized...on to the actual post.
Thanks to everyone that participated in the first ever Journey of Superman reader poll. A lot more people voted than I expected, I keep on forgetting how many people are lurkers haha. Maybe y’all will start leaving more comments now that my blog is becoming interactive.
Here are the results, and I was surprised with the final results. Interracial dating was in the lower third after the weekend but came back to take the cake from hacking online game; looks like a lot more people are interested in it than I thought.
Reader Poll Results
20.41% - Interracial Dating and Shit No One Wants to Talk About
I didn’t expect this to win out, I’m actually kind of glad that it did. The Black Guys Paradise page on my blog receives a steady stream of traffic from interracial dating search terms on Google as well as interracial dating forums, so I guess they got together for a final push and it worked.
16.33% - Hacking the Matrix: Online Game Hacks
I knew this one would score highly and I’m not surprised. The shit I’ve wanted to share is so fresh and game changing that I had to keep it to myself for a while, which is hard considering that I like to share shit…hence the blog haha! Anyway, I moved on to greener pastures, plundering hotties on modeling sites and such, so I don’t feel the need to keep this information to me and a few wings of mine. I don’t want to overhype shit, but the online game hacks I have are the kinda of shit that I actually thought about charging for, true story, brother got eat.
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| Donate to the Superman Fund |
So instead of charging a few $$$ for it, I decided I’ll just give these tactics away. If you find value in them, you can donate to the newly minted “Superman Fund” below. This is a fund to help pay for various things like dates, parties, photo shoot equipment, etc. that I greatly need. I am not asking for anybody to be an altruist, rather I encourage you to donate whatever you can if you believe I and my blog have provided “value” to you in some shape or form. The more donations, the more the posts will keep on flowing.
16.33% - Personal Thoughts, Inner Demons and Goals
I am definitely surprised with this one. I thought people wouldn’t wanna read about my personal opinions, demons or goals. Come to think of it, my Super Saiyan 2 post was well-received. I’ll start posting about these more often.
14.29% - Interesting Articles and Videos I Find About Dating, Life, etc.
This one is easy for me to do. I plan on posting at least one new article or video a week that I find across the web. Some might not be about dating, since I don’t read a lot of pickup stuff since taking AFC Adam’s bootcamp, but things will still remain balanced.
14.29% - Rational Self-Interest and Game Theory
I think I messed up on this one, and forget to differentiate between Game Theory the Mathematical Social Science and Game Theory in terms of Pickup Theory. Regardless, I will assume it’s the former.
12.24% - Building a Playboy Lifestyle Filled With Models
I’m honestly surprised that this didn’t do so well, considering the model posts and videos are what began to blow my blog up. I guess few people actually want to follow through with the nuggets I was posting on this.
4.08% - Book Reviews
Not surprised about this one. I do the Book Reviews mostly for myself as reference notes in addition to Google haha. Google loves my blog, especially the book reviews. Just Google “fountainhead book review” and you’ll see why.
2.04% - Other
To the person that asked me about writing about the Asian girl I wussed out in approaching, elaborate on which Asian girl you’re talking about…I need more details to know what you’re talking/referencing to.
With that being said, I have heeded your opinions and will start posting more about the topics you’d like to read about.
While you await my next posts, if you find that I’ve provided value to you, whether it be inspiration, humor, etc., and you would like to donate to this blog, you can do so below.
Follow Your Boy on Twitter
Subscribe to My Infield Videos
If you find any value from this blog, feel free to donate to my Superman Fund below to help me continue the awesomeness.
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