Background
I was hosting an open bar happy hour for my meetup group, in collaboration with another meetup group. I see a girl seated at the table, and go in with a High Value opener and ask her if she’s here for “My Party” haha. She says no and asks about it.
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| Suited-Up Brotha With Dark Frame Glasse = Swag! |
Moments later her friend, a white girl that’s a Spanish teacher comes back from the bathroom and I introduce myself. From the get go she’s feelin’ my swag and there’s chemistry. We flirt back and forth for over 30 minutes. We’re talking about dancing and I mention that I think I’m Neyo on the dance floor at times, since that’s kind of the celebrity stereotype I’m going for. She says she loves Neyo…hmm.
I end up leaving them to mingle with the crowd and for my date with a black cougar I had invited to the happy hour. I wasn’t attracted to the cougar and not feeling it, I wrap it up quickly and send her on her way, and go back to talk to the Spanish teacher. I end up getting her number so that we can talk about organizing a karaoke event for our meetup group.
Texting and Date Setup
We text back and forth for weeks making plans each time but always falling through because of her friend and other shit. I was more forgiving with her because every time she would cancel, she would suggest another day, which is a huge sign that she’s really into you, since most broads who don’t give a fuck just don’t respond to your texts or suggest an alternative. The third time it happens though, I charge her to the game and delete her number and move on.
But she texts me again, and I figure that I’ve been too nice with this girl…I haven’t really broken rapport. So I respond, but call her out on it…
Snow Bunny: So we suck at actually meeting up! 9:15 PM
Me: Yea you keep fakin! 9:36 PM
Snow Bunny: Noo I told u where we were!! 9:37 PM
Me: So did I! 9:40 PM
Snow Bunny: What are u doing in the next couple days? Lets grab a drink or dinner...ur thoughts?! 9:44 PM
Me: We can do drinks, monday or tuesday should work for me. you? 9:54 PM
Snow Bunny: Tuesday... I coach bball Monday. Gimme a time and place and I'm there 9:58 PM
Me: Tuesday 6:15, meet me at barnes and noble in georgetown and will go from there 10:06 PM
Snow Bunny: Ok... sounds good! 10:37 PM
Works in my favor, she suggests a date for Tuesday. I had setup an online date with this Asian girl for Monday. She later texts the next day saying Tuesday can’t work, and we should do Monday instead.
Snow Bunny: Can we change to Monday? Im canceling my bball practice... I forgot I have an event to go to with my friend on Tuesday. Let me know if tomorrow works and sorry 10:50 PM
Snow Bunny: if I woke u up!! 10:51 PM
Me: Far from asleep, sure it's cool with me! 10:55 PM
Snow Bunny: Ok! :) 11:10 PM
I like her better, so I raincheck the Asian girl for Tuesday, and schedule the white girl for Monday.
She's Late
I decide to have the date at a Spanish bar across the old bar I used to use, before being kicked out, those faggots, not giving them my business.
Snow Bunny: Hey what's the game plan today? Its my late work day and I have to let my dog out then ill be able to leave... I'm about 25 mins from dc 12:41 PM
Me: We're checkin' out *** name of place *** What time works better for you 12:47 PM
Snow Bunny: Is it an event or just us? Around 7- 7:30 should be good. Is that good for u? 12:52 PM
Me: Just us chica! sure lol. see you at 730, just meet me at bodega 1:03 PM
Snow Bunny: ¡Ok te veo allí! 1:05 PM
Snow Bunny: Running a little late... could u send me the address?? 7:01 PM
Me: *** I text her the address *** 7:05 PM
Snow Bunny: Thanks I'm running late I'm sorry 7:24 PM
Snow Bunny: Finally here so sorry! 7:58 PM
The plan was to have drinks starting from 630pm for an hour or so and then bounce to the water front for a walk, sit by the benches and makeout like usual. Except she arrived late! We pushed it back to 730pm, and she shows up at 8pm.
Drink Date
We meet up by the door and head inside. It’s only a Monday night and the bar is packed!!! They give us a table, I tell her I hate sitting at tables, she says she’s okay with waiting for the bar. We go and do just that. After a while I talk to the staff, and they let us head to the back bar which isn’t opened yet. We go there and it’s just us two…we call that VIP!
We talk and banter for a while. The first time I met her she had mentioned that she was divorced, and I didn’t give a fuck, I’m not wifing girls up any time soon. But I was curious why this white girl was breaking her neck to meetup with me. She coaches basketball (sign of a BBC lover!), cancelled her practice for your boy, and drove 30 minutes away to come on a date with me. She finally reveals the mystery, and says that the guy she was married to was black! She’s down for the cause!
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| I Got the Taye Diggs Swag |
We flirt some more, she initiates palm reading on me, and we joke about that. I start caressing and holding her hand as we talk and she’s cool with it. The entire time I’m doing intense eye contact, giving her the bedroom eyes while we talk and letting the tension build. I do my kissing SOI and Questions Game as usual. She says her secret celebrity crush is Taye Diggs. I would later find out when I looked him up online, that he looks just like me! A suited-up brotha with dark frame glasses...I dig it!
I verbally escalate the conversation and ask her whether she prefers okay regular sex or amazing oral sex, she prefers the former, not really an oral sex person. I wouldn't escalate further past that, but felt like it was on.
The plan was to bounce her to the water front and make out with her there. She likes the idea but says she has to get back home early since she’s teaching in the morning and has to drive 30 minutes back. We talk and flirt some more and make plans, I tell her I’ll invite her to our photo shoot this weekend…granted if it happens at all, still need to find a venue.
Takeaways
She's Serious If Suggests Alternative Days To Meet - If a girl is not able to meet up with me, but still responds back to texts or phone calls and suggests other alternative days to meet, she's interested in me.
Sexy Stereotypes Work - Dressing like a celebrity, and having a particular style gets noticed...it's called swag!
Improvements - Could have dug deeper in talking about sex, would have built more sexual tension
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