“He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you” – Friedrich Nietzsche
Death of a PUA
As I mentioned in my last post, Superman the PUA has died. But I am not talking about a physical death; I am speaking in figurative terms, my consciousness and outlook has graduated to a higher level. I realized that pickup was a stepping stone, but was never the FINAL step. I had always aspired to be a great PUA, being able to cold approach random hot girls and bed them. I always felt that pickup was the ULTIMATE path to dating hot girls. I thought it was far superior to the typical dogmas of just find someone from your mediocre social circle.
Yes, pickup is far superior to hopelessly waiting for a beautiful girl to drop into your lap. Pickup helps you become accountable for your dating life, making you an active participant, rather than a passenger to random chance. But in the last 6 months I have discovered a more PRACTICAL WAY. I have tested the waters with it, and it has come to a point that I can no longer ignore it, and I must chase it with every fervor in my being. In order to do so, I have to graduate from my PUA mindset and take the next step in my glorious journey.
Birth of a Playboy
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| Porfirio Rubirosa - The Ultimate Playboy |
The higher form of consciousness I speak of is that of a Playboy; specifically, the Playboy Lifestyle. I have realized that a PUA is no competition for a Playboy when it comes to dating beautiful women. As a PUA I never grasped, or rather I consciously decided to blank out the fact that a higher level of pussy getting existed. I overlooked the long term mindset, only measuring the time and opportunity cost for the short term mindset I was a slave to, but never doing the same for the long term mindset. As a PUA, I continuously unknowingly invested my time and opportunity cost into options that were not the best strategies. I was misinformed in thinking that the higher forms of pussy getting that do exist, took too much time and effort, and were too hard to reach. This rationalization helped comfort me in my short term mindset, and blanked out the real facts of the long term mindset I was neglecting.
I didn’t have this eureka moment until I had tasted the Playboy Lifestyle and started to apply Game Theory to compare the lifestyle of a PUA to the lifestyle of a Playboy. I’ll go over the critical factors that lead me to this decision, but before I do that, I have to CLEARLY define what a Playboy is.
Defining the Playboy
A lot of people have a misconception of what a Playboy is, including me prior to this. I have been and continue to do my research and I’m learning a lot about Playboys and their lifestyle.
What is a Playboy?
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| The Most Interesting Playboy in the World |
“A playboy is a modern version of a public Casanova — a man of means with ample time for leisure, who demonstratively appreciates the pleasures of the world.” – Wikipedia
Playboy Entails the Following
- Public Image (Perception/Fame)
- Man of Means (Money)
- Time (Doesn't work 9-to-5)
- Leisure and Pleasures (Seeks Own Happiness)
- World (International Traveler and Cultured)
My Definition of a Playboy
“A sociable man with game, who decides that rather than arbitrarily chasing mediocre women while playing the numbers game, works on living an exquisite lifestyle that attracts an abundance of the caliber of women he loves, and once these women are in his life, uses his charm to conquer them” - Superman
From now on, when I refer to a Playboy, I shall be referring to my definition of a Playboy.
The PUA VS. The Playboy
Before I start, I would like to state that this is not comparing “Apples to Oranges”. These two mindsets can be explicitly compared, on the following basis. They are both viewed as lifestyles that have inputs and outputs. The inputs are represented by time and opportunity cost, and the outputs are represented by the payoffs, quantitatively and qualitatively received from your inputs, and how relative you are to achieving your dreams.
“Your game determines the quantity of girls you get. Your lifestyle determines the quality” – Brad P
My thoughts on both lifestyles; I hate the rating system, but for comparative posts like this, it bodes well.
The PUA Lifestyle
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| PUA Doing Day Game |
- Aspires to consistently date 8s, 9s and 10s (i.e. hot girls)
- Cold approaches as many women as possible, almost a numbers game
- Most 8s, 9s and 10s reject the PUA outright, never CONSISTENTLY gets them
- Settles and has to work uphill to convince women that are average or below for phone numbers, dates, lays, etc. since they are the ones that he has a CONSISTENT success rate with
- If he ever does become good at pickup, he is CONSISTENTLY dating women that are for the most part 7s and gains comfort in OCCASIONALLY getting an 8,9 or 10
The Playboy Lifestyle
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| Playboy at Play |
- Aspires to CONSISTENTLY date 8s, 9s and 10s (i.e. hot girls)
- Builds a lifestyle that surrounds him with as many hot girls as possible
- Most 8, 9s and 10s are drawn to the Playboy’s lifestyle outright, and CONSISTENTLY want to be a part of it
- Doesn't have to settle or convince, has to work downhill for hot women and CONSISTENTLY and EASILY gets phone numbers, dates, lays, etc. since they are drawn to his lifestyle
- If he ever does become a great Playboy, he is CONSISTENTLY dating women that are for the most part 8s, 9s and 10s and gains comfort in RARELY, if ever, having to date anything below an 8
That is my raw and unfiltered take on both lifestyles, and it took me long time to concede those points of the PUA lifestyle. I had to be really honest with myself; Robert Ringer’s theories have been vital in helping me with that.
Theory of Relativity
“In order to settle on a rational course of action (or inaction), one must first weigh all pertinent facts in a relative light and carefully define his terms.” – Robert Ringer
Theory of Relevance
“No matter how true something may be or how much it may please you, the primary factor to take into consideration is how relevant it is to your main objective.” – Robert Ringer
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| Brown Paper Bag |
It wasn’t until I was hooking up with a girl I deemed of lower quality, that I saw the reality of the moral code I had broken. Despite her attempts to get me to cum, I could not do so. I stared at the bare naked ass of the girl I abhorred, and the thought of my Big Dick entering her ass repulsed me, to a point that stunned me beyond any means I would have ever imagined. I then made up my mind that I could not be a sacrificial conquest, and decided not to push through the resistance to lay this woman that I reviled. I resorted to picturing my ideal girl, at that time a hot Asian girl, blowing me. I nutted and shot a monstrous load in the loathsome girl’s face in less than a minute.
It was at that time, that I learned that I had to return back to my main objective. I did not enter the game to be laying these types of women, and waiting for the hot girl to occasionally fall in my lap. I made a volitional choice to start aiming high, and pursued the types of women I came into the game for.
Lack of Consistent Quality
One thing that kept on being preached in the community was the myth of quality. Everyone, even the gurus would preach the following tenet.
“No one CONSISTENTLY fucks or dates ONLY hot girls. Anyone telling you that, is bullshitting you” – DJ Fuji and others
I bought this tenet hook, line and sinker. But in the latter days while researching Playboy legends like Hugh Hefner, I saw that this was not the case.
Hugh Hefner CONSISTENTLY fucks and dates ONLY hot girls! As a matter of fact, he fucks 10 of them at the SAME TIME! Twice a week!
I realized there was a contradiction here, and as Ayn Rand says…
“Contradictions do not exist. Whenever you think you are facing a contradiction, check your premises. You will find that one of them is wrong.” – Ayn Rand
What I discovered was that their premise was wrong. What they in fact meant was this:
“No ***PUA*** CONSISTENTLY fucks or dates ONLY hot girls. Any ***PUA*** telling you that, is bullshitting you”
I saw the objective reality of my experiences, and those of the people I had come across in the PUA community. I have witnessed wings tell me they’re in this game to get beautiful women, and see them dropout and settle with women that if you had asked them when they first came into the game if that was the girl they got into this for, they would have emphatically have said no! This thought perplexed me; perhaps there is something I still do not get. Regardless, I will continue to weigh the pertinent facts.
Hugh Hefner VS. The PUA
I will make it known, that I think Tyler of RSD has some SICK GAME! This is by no way a diss of Tyler, it just perfectly illustrates the PUA Lifestyle. I was watching this Tyler infield video, where he just came back from the airport late at night. He then proceeds to head to the club and do cold approaches, and struggles for a while before finally receiving some success. I thought about it, and Tyler is in his 30s.
"At age 70, more than 70 percent of men are still potent!" - Scientific Study
I asked myself do I still want to be doing that when I’m in my 30s, or even later than that. I don’t plan on getting married, so if I’m gonna be banging girls till I’m an old man, that kind of lifestyle is not sustainable. What the hell am I gonna do when I’m in my 40s, 50s and beyond. It’s not going to be practical to be prowling the streets or clubs at the age of 70 trying to pickup young girls. Not that I necessarily want to be pursuing girls at that age, but I would still like to leave that option open in case I decide to do so. Studies show that 70% of men at the age of 70 still have erections. Eventually there comes a point in time, where the PUA Lifestyle is NO LONGER SUSTAINABLE, or PRACTICAL.
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| This is What I Call Sustainable |
I then looked at the Playboy I was trying to emulate, Hugh Hefner. He’s in his 80s, still dating beautiful women and with little effort. His lifestyle is obviously MORE SUSTAINABLE over the long haul. Hugh Hefner in his 80s does better than any PUA guru in the community ever has.
Another vital point I took notice of is this, Hefner is still receiving payments for his hard work in his 80s. In other words, all the hard work he inputted during his 20s and 30s to build Playboy Inc., his penis is still enjoying the payoffs of that input by banging 10 hot girls twice a week, at the old age of 80. On the converse, when I’m in my 80s, the input I put into pickup, specifically cold approaching, during my 20s will not be paid back comparable to that. If I were to continue with the PUA Lifestyle, the most I may be paid back with is perhaps a once-hot girlfriend who now is old, but is maybe a few decades younger than me.
People may be quick to note that Hugh Hefner is a celebrity with status and money. That is the point! If I am to invest an equal amount of inputs of time and opportunity cost into either lifestyles, the rational man would invest more in the Playboy Lifestyle for the higher outputs it produces, sustainability and higher quality payoffs over the long haul.
Let’s Apply Some Game Theory
If I have 10,000 hours to invest to become GREAT, the options boil down to this.
Invest 10,000 hours into pickup to reach a point where I consistently date average girls, with the occasional hottie every now and then. And once I get old, things start to drop off.
Or
Invest 10,000 hours into building a lifestyle like Hugh Hefner where I date nothing but hotties and top quality girls, and the payoffs never subside, even in old age.
In game theory, there is a tenet that says NEVER PLAY A DOMINATED STRATEGY.
Definition: DOMINATED STRATEGY
“A strategy is dominated if, regardless of what any other players do, the strategy earns a player a smaller payoff than some other strategy. Hence, a strategy is dominated if it is always better to play some other strategy, regardless of what opponents may do. So a strictly dominated strategy is a strategy that a player would never choose to play because that player has another strategy that will always yield a higher payoff than the dominated strategy. Assuming that a player is rational we no longer need to consider dominated strategies”
I clearly began to see that the Playboy Lifestyle DOMINATED the PUA Lifestyle. Being the rational man that I am, I made a decision to not focus on inputting a majority of my efforts in a dominated strategy. I decided to play the DOMINANT STRATEGY, and focus on building a lifestyle that will give me a higher payoff till the day I leave this earth.
Superman’s Future
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| Expanding My Superman Brand |
So where does all this lead me to?
As I had previously mentioned at the beginning of the year, pickup, more specifically, cold approach pickup will not be the highest priority in my life. That is not to say I will no longer do it, but rather means it will be an afterthought. So far this year I've been cold approaching about once every 2-3 weeks.
I have given myself a Golden Rule so to speak. For every hour I spend cold approaching, I have to spend at least 2+ hours working on my lifestyle. These hours are accounted for whenever I work on my magazine and modeling agency, meet with models or designers, photo shoots, throw parties with our meetup group, and other things of that nature.
I have focused my efforts into continuing working on my fashion magazine, my modeling agency and other grand ideas we have in store. The sweat equity we have been putting in has been paying off, and we now have enough momentum that we barely have to do little work.
During the last fashion week, we shot a bunch of videos with high value people that will pay forward for us till the rest of the year. The game has gotten even easier because of that. I’ve been meeting up with the sexy girls I met during fashion week, including an exotic Indian model I picked out from the crowd. I grabbed drinks with her and talked about featuring her in my magazine and making her a host. I have a Maxim Magazine swimsuit model I’ll be having a drink with tonight. And that’s not even mentioning the photo shoots and video interviews we just finished doing of two “Miss USA” pageant winners for DC.
“I know of no better life purpose than to perish in attempting the great and the impossible.” – Friedrich Nietzsche
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| P. Diddy - The Black Playboy |
But we aren’t gonna stop there baby! We have our eyes on doing it BIG! Prince P and I have been talking about expanding our magazine nationally, and then internationally.
Picture your boy traveling and doing this modeling and fashion game in NYC, Miami, Las Vegas, LA, London, Paris, Milan, Moscow, Sydney, Tokyo…no limits!
Now that is what I call a Playboy!
Due to the limitations of the pickup community, I have began drawing my inspiration not from PUAs, but from other men I consider Playboys of the 21st century. You already know Hugh Hefner, some others that I will draw inspiration from in helping me build this lifestyle include P. Diddy, The Dos Equis Man and various others.
The Future of the Blog...A Book?
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| Two Books in the Making |
Due to the nature of the stuff I post about, especially the pictures and videos, I have had deep thoughts about posting and sharing the adventures I’ve been partaking in lately. I haven’t been posting as much this year, and that is partially one of the reasons. Another thought I've been thinking about is this, some of the shit I'm doing with my magazine, modeling agency, hacking online game, etc. is so baller, and no one else in the game is doing it, so why in the hell would I give it away for free on my blog...I might just be better off saving it for my book...but then again, I really love my blog and the people that follow me on my journey. These are the thoughts that go through my head. A true dilemma...Playboy dilemma.
The plan right now is to turn this blog into a book. I'm not just talking about a fuckin' PUA ebook, I'm talking about a motherfuckin' book on the same level as "The Game". That has been my plan from the onset, all the way back to my first ever post on this blog. Some cats would wonder why the hell my field reports were so fuckin' long and analytical. That's because I wasn't just writing a normal FR, I was writing a fuckin' piece of my book. I was thinking long term!
I'm still far from finishing my journey to a point that I would be satisfied with the book, but just wanted my readers to know. I already have two books in mind, one will be about my adventures, pretty much field reports, that one will be the solely-pickup based book. Think Tucker Max, only more strategic and technical.
The second one will be a book of grandeur proportions. It will be my system, philosophy and mindset towards a rational life. Encompassing everything I partook on in this journey, but not from the mindset of a PUA, but from the mindset of a Rational Playboy. It will encompass what I deem to be the fundamentals of life, how to hack reality, 7 sources of pussy, etc. Those are the chapters I have outlined, but it is still a far away process.
No One Will Intimidate Me
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| Weight of People That Will Have Issues With My Blog |
While talking to Prince P he said, “Don’t fuck this up for me” in regards to sharing the stuff we’re doing on our blog and having people in the fashion industry find out.
I also think some of the women in the fashion industry probably already found out about my blog, which makes me think twice about things.
Theory of Intimidation
“The results a person achieves are inversely proportionate to the degree to which he is intimidated.” – Robert Ringer
But in the end, I cannot let people intimidate me into taking a choice of action that I do not want, nor believe in. I write my blog for my own personal reasons, reasons that are selfish in nature.
I am solely responsible for my own self-interests and will not let anyone, whether a wing, or women stop me from pursuing those interests. If some people in the industry don’t like my blog, then they can suck a dick! I don’t need them to achieve my happiness.
I’ll end this post by sharing the wisdom of John Galt that guides me:
“In the name of the best within you, do not sacrifice this world to those who are its worst. In the name of the values that keep you alive, do not let your vision of man be distorted by the ugly, the cowardly, the mindless in those who have never achieved his title. Do not lose your knowledge that man’s proper estate is an upright posture, an intransigent mind and a step that travels unlimited roads. Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won, it exists, it is real, it is possible, it’s yours.
But to win it requires your total dedication and a total break with the world of your past, with the doctrine that man is a sacrificial animal who exists for the pleasure of others. Fight for the value of your person. Fight for the virtue of your pride. Fight for the essence of that which is man: for his sovereign rational mind. Fight with the radiant certainty and the absolute rectitude of knowing that yours is the Morality of Life and that yours is the battle for any achievement, any value, any grandeur, any goodness, any joy that has ever existed on this earth."
“You will win when you are ready to pronounce the oath I have taken at the start of my battle-and for those who wish to know the day of my return, I shall now repeat it to the hearing of the world:
“I swear-by my life and my love of it-that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.”
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